Didn't you post this several times already? She does know you like her because you told her best friend. Regardless of saying "Don't tell her!", she told her. She's trying to make you jealous for whatever reason and it's obvious that she's not interested in you romantically. Please stop posting this now.
It sounds like to me she does view you as a good male friend. I've talked about guys in that way to my male friends simply because I trusted them. It is also possible she's into you for convenience if that makes any sense. Also, I do not think she is aware of your feelings for her. The truth comes right from the source!
She might think you're gay. She may also have you stuck in the "friend" zone for whatever reason. If she's doing this, in any case. Why subject yourself to it? Cut your losses and find yourself a girl that doesn't do this sort of thing. That or let this girl know you have feelings for her and are indeed straight.
Ahh, this is a hard one. I guess I don't get why she is so excited to see you but then all she talks about is other guys...i know it makes me feel pretty bad when guys(even ones I don't like) are talking about girls. So you would think that she wouldn't do that to you. I can tell that you really like her so I would suggest taking her out somewhere even if you don't consider it a 'real date', and just see how she acts in that setting. Good luck :)
I think she does like you but she is manipulating you and it needs to stop. Either walk away or make it known that you won't play along the way she wants you to. If she wants to hang put, she comes to where you want to hang out. If she wants to talk about guys, talk about girls. Maybe even mention one or two that she knows. If she insists that you come to her, tell her that you don't feel like it.
Best not to try to guess what is going on inside her head.
If she is making you feel uncomfortable or ignored, she is not right for you. Always go for girls who make you feel good and pay attention to you.
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Could be, but us girls has a tendacy to treat our male friends like our girl friends. I do the same to a guy friend that likes me, not to hurt his feeling but cause I'm so comfortable with him and say what's on my mind, this girl could do the same to you.
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i have no idea if I'm right or not and I'm probably wrong but it sounds to me like she likes you its just she doesn't know you like her or she knows that you like her its just you are "friends" so its kind of awkward even though she wants nothing more than to be with you
im sorry but she sounds a little crazy or confused about what to do she might be getting some stupid advice from a friend but it does sound like she is into you if she is excited that your just there with her
I think she likes you. She wants you attention, but she wants you to make a move and for her not to seem to enthusiastic and "easy". Just calm her fears, and assert yourself and your feelings, then you two can get together!
If she wanted to blow you off why did she call you there to come and talk to her personally. May be she is shy and cannot talk directly or frankly to you. You should apparently ask her face to face rather than intermingling yourself in useless confusion.
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She might be but a lot of the times when girls have a close guy friend and don't realize the guy has feelings, they open up a lot more about the men they do like. I do that.
Jealous for sure...unless she thinks you are gay and wants you to just be friends...but, I would bank on the jealousy
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Shes most likely trying to make you jealous. To some girls its like a natrual thing that comes. If we like a guy some times we want to make them jealous to see how they react.
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Didn't you post this several times already? She does know you like her because you told her best friend. Regardless of saying "Don't tell her!", she told her. She's trying to make you jealous for whatever reason and it's obvious that she's not interested in you romantically. Please stop posting this now.
~Distant
It sounds like to me she does view you as a good male friend. I've talked about guys in that way to my male friends simply because I trusted them. It is also possible she's into you for convenience if that makes any sense. Also, I do not think she is aware of your feelings for her. The truth comes right from the source!
She might think you're gay. She may also have you stuck in the "friend" zone for whatever reason. If she's doing this, in any case. Why subject yourself to it? Cut your losses and find yourself a girl that doesn't do this sort of thing. That or let this girl know you have feelings for her and are indeed straight.
~Distant
Ahh, this is a hard one. I guess I don't get why she is so excited to see you but then all she talks about is other guys...i know it makes me feel pretty bad when guys(even ones I don't like) are talking about girls. So you would think that she wouldn't do that to you.
I can tell that you really like her so I would suggest taking her out somewhere even if you don't consider it a 'real date', and just see how she acts in that setting.
Good luck :)
A girl did this to me. I think the psychology behind it is rooted in control, due to some kind of past trauma or abuse.
she's looking for a reaction. In all cases, jealousy will destroy your chances.
Ignore her. Dont listen to her. Watch the insecurity compile and she will send breadcrumbs to keep you strung along.
In my case, I pushed the self-eject button and bailed out
I think she does like you but she is manipulating you and it needs to stop. Either walk away or make it known that you won't play along the way she wants you to. If she wants to hang put, she comes to where you want to hang out. If she wants to talk about guys, talk about girls. Maybe even mention one or two that she knows. If she insists that you come to her, tell her that you don't feel like it.
Best not to try to guess what is going on inside her head.
If she is making you feel uncomfortable or ignored, she is not right for you. Always go for girls who make you feel good and pay attention to you.
Could be, but us girls has a tendacy to treat our male friends like our girl friends. I do the same to a guy friend that likes me, not to hurt his feeling but cause I'm so comfortable with him and say what's on my mind, this girl could do the same to you.
i have no idea if I'm right or not and I'm probably wrong but it sounds to me like she likes you its just she doesn't know you like her or she knows that you like her its just you are "friends" so its kind of awkward even though she wants nothing more than to be with you
im sorry but she sounds a little crazy or confused about what to do she might be getting some stupid advice from a friend but it does sound like she is into you if she is excited that your just there with her
I think she likes you. She wants you attention, but she wants you to make a move and for her not to seem to enthusiastic and "easy". Just calm her fears, and assert yourself and your feelings, then you two can get together!
If she wanted to blow you off why did she call you there to come and talk to her personally.
May be she is shy and cannot talk directly or frankly to you. You should apparently ask her face to face rather than intermingling yourself in useless confusion.
$95 an hour! Seriously I don't know why more people haven't tried this, I work two shifts, 2 hours in the day and 2 in the evening…And what's awesome is I'm working from home so I get more time with my kids. Here's where I went,
===))>www. cash. hiring9. com
She might be but a lot of the times when girls have a close guy friend and don't realize the guy has feelings, they open up a lot more about the men they do like. I do that.
your age says 18-24... I would hope that at that point everyone would stop playing games. I would say she's not doing it to make you jealous.
im 18 but I'm in high school
My age on here is 30-35 but I'm 22 and in college and no the games don't end with girls.
yea seriouslyy
Jealous for sure...unless she thinks you are gay and wants you to just be friends...but, I would bank on the jealousy
Shes most likely trying to make you jealous. To some girls its like a natrual thing that comes. If we like a guy some times we want to make them jealous to see how they react.
/Keep in mind not all girls are like that/
Making you jealous. Most girls don't talk about guys like that, with guys, unless their immature, is she immature?
totally agreee lol
Shes trying to make you jealous She wants to see you Fight for her
I don’t think she likes you
Actually she is very direct
Don’t twist what you see and hear..