What is the number one thing that works for you when you flirt?

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zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

Making them feel smart, clever, funny, pretty, &c. Basically pushing good vibes onto them. A super basic example is complimenting something they are wearing or their style in general, or something they just did as being a positive thing: kind, creative, generous, funny, &c. This isn't fake at all, because if I'm attracted to someone there will be a number of things I like about them, all I have to do is vocalize my appreciation.

Being a bit silly, creative, relaxed and happy works well. Smiling, and not being afraid to act a little goofy for a laugh is also good. It shows vulnerability, and people can be intimidated by me if I don't show my lighter side.

What is the number one thing that works for you when you flirt?

More advanced is to engage them in conversation and start getting creative, making assumptions about them is fun, even if they are inaccurate assumptions, it gives them a chance to protest "No, I'm not like that!" but always keeping it light, laughing, make it clear I'm joking around, then I can go to some other opposite extreme. It's very fun and underneath it all, I'm learning more about her, and filling our first moments of knowing each other with some smiles and good vibes.

OddBeMe · Accepted Answer

Been 20 years but just trying to be their friend first is usually foundation. Then come the flirtations that may escalate during the date. And on and on.

CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

Humor has always worked! Even if a guy may not necessarily care for a girl to be funny in general, it still has the secondary advantage of lifting up everyone's mood and making the experience very pleasant.

Elbowlvr · Accepted Answer

Smiling and being pleasant. That always works with flirting and making friends

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I think unless a man finds you unattractive in some major way, making him feel appreciated will open a lot of emotional and mental doors for you. But flattery is not always beneficial to a person's mental health so its important to be responsible and prudent when you compliment a man.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Body language and I contact. I flirt better in person.  I am not so good online.

coachTanthony · Answer

Being bold and not mincing words. Being outcome independent is the best way to flirt.

Summeroflove · Answer

Finding out if she flirts back lol.

Anonymous · Answer

Touching them "accidentally" on purpose. Then they do it back.

I've kissed girls multiple times that I never said a word to, only because I touched her a few times and she touched me back, at like a crowded party or some such. In college class type shit.

A girl at work showing me something on the PC and we are practically leaning on eachother pretending as if we aren't touching at all type shit.

I don't know I like that. You can't mistake touch. It quickly turns into kissing and to sex.

HighValue · Answer

Being tall, strong, and having an attractive face works well enough for me to get hit on without trying. Being easy going/low stress, logical problem solver, and not taking most things too seriously helps too. I don't even need to flirt to get interest.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Manny Ray of Scarface comes to mind:

anon1903 · Answer

Some like to feel teased. Particularly men. They don't get enough compliments and usually they're forced to play the dominant role.  So fulfilling those needs, makes me win them over.

Harris56 · Answer

Eye contact... look deep into there soul, i used to practise it in the gym with girls i could tell were interested in me, one hot girl would eye fuck the shit out of me once... I could tell she badly wanted me to talk to her but I didn't in the end, he was so hot as well, I do regret it but at the time i was working on myself and wasn't ready for it. I was still building my confidence up. Nothing is stronger than eye contact, women are masters at this.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Flashing my genitals or just outright playing with my genitals while maintaining eye contact.

Radiate143 · Answer

You donrreally need to actively flirt. Just being friendly and engaged is enough for most men to continue. If you are in a rush, a sly smile and unflinching eye contact should do.

Paris13 · Answer

My Smile All the While. xxoo

HitsyHonesty · Answer

Smiling, being laid back and playful. Opens them up really quick!

Bricealan · Answer

I do not, and never did what I call, 'flirting"

smilelots · Answer

Im not really that good at flirting and sometimes i dont even know they are flirting either lol

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

making her giggle its like when a rusted bolt finally starts to turn  once I hear that I know I got her🔥🤟

aadrianaa777 · Answer

eye contact ! eye contact ! eye contact! thats how i pull any guy it works i have really big brown doe eyes and it fr my unspoken rizz

Date_a_Snob · Answer

eye contact, playing with my hair, adjusting my bra, laughing at his joke, touching his arm

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Listening to her talk. Paying attention. Asking pertinent questions and sharing opinions on shared interests.

MissBoogus · Answer

I don't know I don’t need to try. Just existing

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Eye contact smile and be actually interested in what some has to say

agnesbraswell · Answer

What is the number one thing that works for you when you flirt

Anonymous · Answer

I like to let it flow and avoid overdoing it because that would be cringe

A_Bell · Answer

Witty wordplay.

Sonorous · Answer

I don't really flirt.

CrimsonAngel09 · Answer

I mention garlic bread.

overthinkergirl · Answer

smiling and joking

lilBigPotato · Answer

Humour and not being an idiot

Fireguy17 · Answer

A smile and make her laugh.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Licking my eye brows.

lilylangley · Answer

Usually eye contact and using my assets.

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Just smiling, being interested and curious.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Showing my tits

Bitterness · Answer

I don't usually flirt.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I just approach and ask.

boobliker · Answer

being strat and asking for what you want

DummyThiccFeraligatr · Answer

Humor does wonders.

JonesT10Apr · Answer

be yourself and no overthinking

dolemite58 · Answer

playfully teasing girls

Stacy2003 · Answer

If at the table I run my foot up at their legs.

BadApple69 · Answer

Humor.

WhyohWhy69 · Answer

Grab in weiner

magiusX26 · Answer

so far, nothing

Marklaw12 · Answer

Eye contact

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

My face

prakhindev92 · Answer

Make you laugh

shortster · Answer

Stare intently

you_asked · Answer

My bulge

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