What is the number one thing that works for you when you flirt?

[Anonymous]

[zeitgeist057]

Making them feel smart, clever, funny, pretty, &c. Basically pushing good vibes onto them. A super basic example is complimenting something they are wearing or their style in general, or something they just did as being a positive thing: kind, creative, generous, funny, &c. This isn't fake at all, because if I'm attracted to someone there will be a number of things I like about them, all I have to do is vocalize my appreciation.

Being a bit silly, creative, relaxed and happy works well. Smiling, and not being afraid to act a little goofy for a laugh is also good. It shows vulnerability, and people can be intimidated by me if I don't show my lighter side.

More advanced is to engage them in conversation and start getting creative, making assumptions about them is fun, even if they are inaccurate assumptions, it gives them a chance to protest "No, I'm not like that!" but always keeping it light, laughing, make it clear I'm joking around, then I can go to some other opposite extreme. It's very fun and underneath it all, I'm learning more about her, and filling our first moments of knowing each other with some smiles and good vibes.

[OddBeMe]

Been 20 years but just trying to be their friend first is usually foundation. Then come the flirtations that may escalate during the date. And on and on.

[CubsterShura]

Humor has always worked! Even if a guy may not necessarily care for a girl to be funny in general, it still has the secondary advantage of lifting up everyone's mood and making the experience very pleasant.

[Elbowlvr]

Smiling and being pleasant. That always works with flirting and making friends

[LoverOfBooty23]

Definitely helps

[jennifer_bloom]

I think unless a man finds you unattractive in some major way, making him feel appreciated will open a lot of emotional and mental doors for you. But flattery is not always beneficial to a person's mental health so its important to be responsible and prudent when you compliment a man.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Body language and I contact. I flirt better in person.

I am not so good online.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

*eye

[Lokiion]

In person body language over text building on the conversation. I flirt well in person and online if I somewhat know their personality

[smilelots]

how do you flirt

[Lokiion]

@smilelots depends on the person I’m talking to

[coachTanthony]

Being bold and not mincing words. Being outcome independent is the best way to flirt.

[Summeroflove]

Finding out if she flirts back lol.

[Anonymous]

Touching them "accidentally" on purpose. Then they do it back.

I've kissed girls multiple times that I never said a word to, only because I touched her a few times and she touched me back, at like a crowded party or some such. In college class type shit.

A girl at work showing me something on the PC and we are practically leaning on eachother pretending as if we aren't touching at all type shit.

I don't know I like that. You can't mistake touch. It quickly turns into kissing and to sex.

[HighValue]

Being tall, strong, and having an attractive face works well enough for me to get hit on without trying. Being easy going/low stress, logical problem solver, and not taking most things too seriously helps too. I don't even need to flirt to get interest.

[DryGermanGuy]

Manny Ray of Scarface comes to mind:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/vXBvldxzjPw

[zeitgeist057]

Two experts discussing the finer points of advanced flirting techniques, lol.

[anon1903]

Some like to feel teased.

Particularly men. They don't get enough compliments and usually they're forced to play the dominant role.

So fulfilling those needs, makes me win them over.

[Harris56]

Eye contact... look deep into there soul, i used to practise it in the gym with girls i could tell were interested in me, one hot girl would eye fuck the shit out of me once... I could tell she badly wanted me to talk to her but I didn't in the end, he was so hot as well, I do regret it but at the time i was working on myself and wasn't ready for it. I was still building my confidence up. Nothing is stronger than eye contact, women are masters at this.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Flashing my genitals or just outright playing with my genitals while maintaining eye contact.

[A_Bell]

Classy.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@A_Bell Classy is my gay black lesbian name... D_Bone_Steak is my name here.

[Radiate143]

You donrreally need to actively flirt. Just being friendly and engaged is enough for most men to continue. If you are in a rush, a sly smile and unflinching eye contact should do.

[Paris13]

My Smile All the While. xxoo

[HitsyHonesty]

Smiling, being laid back and playful. Opens them up really quick!

[Bricealan]

I do not, and never did what I call, 'flirting"

[smilelots]

Im not really that good at flirting and sometimes i dont even know they are flirting either lol

[AnusNdaPainus]

making her giggle

its like when a rusted bolt finally starts to turn

once I hear that I know I got her🔥🤟

[aadrianaa777]

eye contact ! eye contact ! eye contact! thats how i pull any guy it works i have really big brown doe eyes and it fr my unspoken rizz

[Date_a_Snob]

eye contact, playing with my hair, adjusting my bra, laughing at his joke, touching his arm

[Charliefretz329]

Listening to her talk. Paying attention. Asking pertinent questions and sharing opinions on shared interests.

[MissBoogus]

I don't know I don’t need to try. Just existing