Why do the girls I like, always go for guys that are 6 feet 2 inches (1.88 m) and are muscular?

[Anonymous]

It's weird every girl who has the body that I like is always incompatible with me personality wise and is ALWAYS looking for a guy that's 6 feet 2 inches (1.88 m) and muscular.

All the girls that I've asked out and that had boyfriends all had boyfriends matching this description.

The girls usually look something like this

I'm 6 feet (1.83 m) and doubt I'll grow anymore. I'm planing on going to the gym more often but I feel like I can't compete since I'm a virgin who has never dated let alone kissed a girl. These girls always go for tall muscular guys with experience. Sadly they're the only type I'm attracted to.

Is there anything I can do?

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by the way I do care greatly about personality but without physical attraction I have no reason to approach since it will be just a friendship. Without compatibility I couldn't have a relationship and that is what I'm looking for.

[KattFeesh]

I hate guys like you. Do you realize what you said? I'm only attracted to girls who have perfect physical specifications. I don't want to know what another person's feelings or personality is===just how they look. I'm superficial and I make no excuses for it. I don't understand anything about a relationship or dating. Because of that I haven't kissed a girl or had sex with one. And the girls I'm attracted to are interested in looking for guys who are also perfect physical specimens. They are the same superficial humans as I am.
The bottom line word is immature. I am immature. Apparently I have no social skills because I have never given myself the chance to develop any. I am sort of at the emotional level of a 14-year-old who masturbates to pictures of Supergirl.
You asked my opinion. I just gave it to you as above with the final two words---GROW UP!

[Yeahno12]

This

[Asker]

Of course I care about personality it's very important to me. Looks however are a key factor in determining whether I want to date the girl or not. If she only has a good personality then there will be no sex and if she's only physically attractive there will be no relationship. I'm looking for a relationship.

[Asker]

Also I've never masturbated since I find the notion disgusting.

[Yeahno12]

Yeah, but if you care about looks in a girl, why should you expect the girls you're going after to not care about looks as well? People want to date within their respective leagues

[Asker]

@Yeahno12 Well of course they should care but if I'm only attracted to these girls then something has to be done to get them to like me.

[aliceinwonderland69]

Yea, well, this is easy. The women ur attracted to are 8 or 9 out of ten in attractiveness. They will be able to have their pick of men. They will go for the full package. A guy with looks, success and charisma. So I reccomend you hit the gym, gain confidence and work on being good at something in your life. The great thing is if you work on yourself you won't just be more successful with women you'll be happier all round.

[9mfeo]

You know what to do. You're just too lazy to go and do it. You want to keep sitting around and feeling sorry for yourself. Hate to break it to you, broski, but that's not how the world works. You don't get anything from doing nothing. So get up off your arse and make things happen.

[Asker]

I don't know what to do. Otherwise I wouldn't have asked this question

[9mfeo]

Go to the gym. Work on your confidence. Stop being a whiner. Get up off your arse and make things happen.

[Asker]

All the girls are always taken by these guys. Whenever I can muster even a little confidence and approach I get shot down every time.

[9mfeo]

You want some cheese with that whine?

[Asker]

You got anything constructive to say or are you just gonna bitch?

[9mfeo]

My darling, I'm not the one playing the poor me card.

[Asker]

I'm trying to find a solution to this problem. Whining serves no purpose.

[9mfeo]

Then get to it. Nothing is going to change while you sit here looking for people to pity you. Have a gym membership already? Buy some sessions with a personal trainer. Join a meet up group that gets you in mixed company so you can work on talking to women in a low pressure situation, but for the love of Jibbers Crabst, do something and stop talking about why you can't do things and how trying is useless.

[Asker]

I'm not looking for pity I'm looking for options.
I already mentioned the gym, I'm looking into personal trainers and trying to plan out a work out schedule that works.
Why are you giving me attitude?
I'm at a disadvantage to these guys because they already have experience and feel like even the smallest progress will mean nothing.
I'm in a situation where to get a girl, I need experience in getting girls but I can't get experience since everyone requires it.
If I were to look at this from a business perspective, I'm attempting to offer a service that is already provided by many bigger successful companies. The market has way too much competition and at the rate things are going I would declare bankruptcy.

But then you would never understand. You were approached by a guy, all you had to do was say yes and then you had sex after a few dates.

[9mfeo]

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[Waytoclose95]

Well my take on this is simple. In all honesty. I'm a 6 foot tall male. Which is honestly taller then most men so you're in the clear there. 2. (And this isn't to toot my own horn il get to the point.) I've been working out consistently for over a year. Under 10% body fat. 3. I've been told flat to my face. By women who look as such (above) that I could be a model. But guess what? I may not be a virgin and have dated some. But my stats compared to my friends? Don't let me get started. In the end it's really just self confidence. I've seen very unattractive men with 9s-10s. Now I'm not making assumptions but maybe work on your self confidence? I'm in the process too. You can get any girl you want if you have the sled assurance and confidence.

[Asker]

How did you initially lose your virginity?

[Waytoclose95]

I lost it around 20. I was a completely different person in high school. Shy reserved. So I didn't get a lot of social expierence until after. Basically I've been getting Signals from girls my whole life. But since I didn't have the confidence to go forward I didn't get sex. Can't tell you How many times I could've been laid if I wasn't an awkward shy dude. But then after high school I started gaining for sled confidence. When that happened I picked up on more and can have an idea whether or not the girl is interested. From there it all kinda happened. I've had 3 partners my whole life I'm 21 now. Sex IS overrated so don't feel bummed if you haven't lost it. You need to put yourself out there man. the best advice i can give you is work on Self confidence. With that you can pull a lot.

[Waytoclose95]

Not to mention you said you're starting the gym? That's a great way to build up your confidence bud! That's what helped me.

[idiotmanchild]

Well that is the stereotypical ideal for a guy and these girls are stereotypical ideal for a girl. Both of these girls have guys lining up to date them, they can choose to aim for the best of the best.

[Babybebe15]

Dang, I wish I had that girls bod (top pic), but I don't know what you're talking about cause 6 ft is perfect, lol. How tall are these girls that you're going after?

And it may be because they are so attractive that they have much higher standards.

[Asker]

These girls are usually around 1.65 - 1.75 m ( 5 feet 5 inches - 5 feet 9 inches)

[meowyumyum]

The girls in the pic look like the typical standard for hot girls. They look like they really work hard for that too. Usually girls who work for that in themselves are going to want a guy who is the typical standard for perfection as well.

[moosette134]

Can't answer the question you actually asked but if it makes you feel better, I'm 21 and just had my first kiss in December. And I never imagined it would've happened then. It'll come and the right girl will come.

[April20]

Maybe you're being too picky about the girls. The girls' pics you posted have unusually tiny waists. 6 foot tall is a good height. Go the gym if you'd like, and stop worrying about being a virgin, many nice girls will actually find that endearing.

[Asker]

Why would they choose me when they could go for a guy with experience?

[April20]

If the guy has too much "experience" he may be a player, and most girls (at least the smart ones) don't like that.

[indie_rock_chick]

I don't know how helpful my opinion will be cause I have a nice body too just a different body type. I am 1.68 m and I like guys with different heights, a guy I like right now is my height exactly.

[carinerose]

Who cares if you are a virgin. Be more confident and if you need to go to the gym for that, so be it. I am 5'7 and 6' is the perfect height. Don't worry

[Asker]

I feel like a lot of people care because having experience in something is always more favourable.

[carinerose]

Sure it's a plus if the guy has more experience but no girl who likes you would really care. As I said confidence is key.

[Asker]

How do I get confidence when I know for a fact that some guy with more experience could get this girl?

[carinerose]

Lol it's not the Sims or some shit. I know guys who have experience and who I want nothing to do with. What matters is if the guy knows how to take his time to pleasure us and knows not to rush things selfishly.

[hazoplmeught]

damn, im 5'6-5'8 (im really confused by two inches how tall i am) i guess i have a bad height since im not 6' lol

[Waytoclose95]

She's absolutely right. Confidence is key. You're already stating that you can't get with a girl because lack of expierence. I say that's bullshit, you're underestimating yourself. I'd take each day to do something out of your comfort zone. Along with getting more exercise and putting yourself out there you will be golden

[carinerose]

@Waytoclose95 thank you!!

[Touglyforfemales]

Well look at the girls you go after? Shallow people belong with shallow people.
I to am a virgin and never dated but I'm ugly according to the women on here.

[Asker]

How am I shallow? I look for compatible personality as well I just have high standards of beauty.

[Touglyforfemales]

Not you just shallow people in general sorry for the confusion.

[Summerjonee]

damn i wish i had their bodies. but bruh I don't know why are some men attracted to curvy bodies?

[Asker]

Lots of media exposure and porn

[Summerjonee]

wow, really? so let me answer yours now. because of media exposure and porn women like tall ans muscular men.

[Yeahno12]

Water seeks it's own level. Hot girls (big 'assets') go for hot guys (muscular, toned.)

[Anonymous]

I have a feeling your opinion is flawed by a really small sample size.

[Monica1602]

Keep going to the gym and you will attract that kind of girls.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Those girls are hot af.

[Asker]

The second one is my ideal woman. She's a MILF

[BuchitaBuchys]

Good choices. You better have a lot to offer to please such women

[Asker]

That's where I have a dilemma, aside from my personality I got nothing.

[GutsyGumshoe]

Are you interested in just those kind of girls?

[Asker]

Physically they are the ideal but I'm willing to go for girls that are slightly less attractive.
Both looks and personality, matter to me.

[ConsultantIsBack]

I just am here to support 6'2" muscular guys lol

[Asker]

Are you 6 ft 2in?

[ConsultantIsBack]

Yeah man

[Asker]

Lemme guess you get a lot of girls, especially those that look like the ones I posted

[ConsultantIsBack]

But, kicking this back to you. Man you are 6' ! That's great, you got it man, work out and focus on your inner attributes too, as well as your body.

[babeeeone]

Who is the second girl? Her body is goals!!

[Asker]

DaphneJoy

[babeeeone]

Thanks!

[Anonymous]

Yes keep lifting weights and use that charm.

[Polocrew]

That first chick is really hot doe

[Jxpxtxr]

Well up your game 💪

[Asker]

How?

[Jxpxtxr]

By getting on the same level as the guys these girls are going for, if you're trying to fish out of your league you can't expect to be v successful obviously.

[Asker]

Well to get on their level I would have to be both muscular and have lots of sexual experience. I can do the former but the latter is very difficult.
With these girls past experience seems to be a must-have. How do I get experience when everyone requires it?

[Jxpxtxr]

Haha tbh once you've achieved the first the latter will probably happen automatically.

[Anonymous]

Hide yourself in your bathroom