Why do girls string along guys? (Page 2)
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I would echo your friends, but maybe she doesn't want to put "the couple" label on your relationship because of the responsibility and ties that come with it. Maybe she doesn't want to admit that she likes you. Or she just wants you to fill that gap of "boy toy" until she finds someone (though I might add that's harder to do when you string a boy along so I think this is less likely). That's what comes to my mind.
Guys string along girls too, you know. People are just bastardly sometimes.
AGREED!
Totally ignore her. Don't be mad or happy when you see her. Act as if she doesn't exist or better yet like you have no idea who she is. Your letting this happen. Before you know it you'll meet a girl who will want to be with you, & much better, sexier, hotter. It will happen, it always does because that's how life works.
she isn't stringing you along if she has made it clear she's not interested. you're making the choice to flirt with her and mess with her. you can't fault her for that because she was honest enough to tell you how she felt. she's getting the fun from you but doesn't want a commitment and you're hanging around for your own personal reasons. there are some guys that you may not want to be with but you enjoy spending time with them.
Guys do this to girls all the time and visa versa. I do this to girls and sometimes they do this to me. People like to string others along in the event of a bootycall.
Finally someone who actually admits its both sides who do this!
Some people do it when they are are bored or feel that they have to be wanted or needed. If nobody wants them they are not happy. Also it sounds like your being used for her own pleasures. I would move on and find someone who appreciates you.
I totally agree, most guys wouldn't string a woman along, but most women have no problem--maybe it's just that she wants the dating game, free entertainment and meals...?
lol since you said you guys were fooling around, do you mean sex or something, cause if its sex then why are you worrying about it if she is stringing you alone like seriouslly lol. you should be happy
Because they are insecure, immature, afraid to commit, emotional guarded, psycho, take your pick. Either way they are damaged goods, not worth your time. Toss her to the curb and find a better girl.
its an ego boost for her knowing that you're at her mercy. definately still be friends, as hard as being just friends will be. but you guys need to separate just a little bit, at a time, and focus on other friendships.
I think that she does it to keep you interested in her so you don't date someone else and leave her behind. She probably values your friend ship and doesn't want to ruin it. On another note she could be one of those girls that have low self-esteem and that is what they think it takes for them to be liked. If she is single try hooking her up with someone else and see how that flies with her. It will probably show you her true face.
Anyone who strings anyone along is an egotistical bastard/bitch... And that's a fact.
"Some" women do to feel hot/sexy & powerful. But some men don't know how to take a hint, & just keep stalking a girl not realizing she isn't interested.
Simple answer: It's exciting. Some people can do it some people can't, some people can handle it others can't. Stop breaking your head and leave it alone.
Honestly I do that all the time I just like to have power over that guy and I'm not immature or afraid to be alone, I'm actually confident and I don't care what other people say or think and I do it because I like it when someone chases me around and I love it that when you ask him something or if you tell him you want something there always goanna do it for you (but I DON'T use people)
" I love it that when you ask him something or if you tell him you want something there always goanna do it for you "
How is that not using someone ?
hahahah you think that's how it works. every decent guy run from you
This is a troll, right?
LOL!
ok so I am using people in a way but its not like they don't know it I mean they know I don't have any feeligs for them so why bother hang around me all the time?!?!?
So its their fault you use them ? They might be stupid for hanging around with you probably because they are clingy type guys but their emotional weakness doesn't give you a right to use them. If you had any morals you wouldn't use their attraction for your own ends, Its not their fault you have no morals and use people, don't blame them.
i wasn't blaming them OK I just said that they just don't get it when I tell them to leave me alone and if they were smart enough they would understand that I don't want them in my life and don't need them
If you don't want them or need them then why use them ? That contradicts what your saying.
@Iridescent47 I agree with this guy 100%. If you have no interest in this guy, then why use him. Ignore his ass, that would drive the point across. It's not his fault, but yours for feeding into it to begin with. And this is why women are given a bad reputation, because they pull shit like this. And then they wonder when the person they led on gets pissed off and cuts off all communication.
it's all part of "the game". the same thing a male player does to a girl.
you answered your own question, for attention so they can feel attractive and pretty and what not.
attention, you make her feel nice, dump her and get a another girl who's not like this
i have the same problem.. and it doesn't make any sense at all.. I don't get it.
She's a player. If you want revenge on her. Point out what parts of her are really unattractive.