How to deal with being the only single at work?

[Haha456]

I go to school / work where 95% of the environment is female. Everyone I go to school / work with are married: teachers, classmates/ coworkers/ supervisors. People are always talking about their husbands or boyfriends or their children. Out of every 10 females, 8-9 would be married or have bfs. I personally have never ever been in a relationship in my life. I just never found someone who fit into my standards and also liked me back. The only girls who are unmarried are the ones in their early 20s. I'm in my late 20s. I just can't help but feel like getting married is something I should do because everyone else is married. I just feel like there is something wrong with me. So many females are married that I feel like its really odd for me to not be married and have children.

[Changiis07]

No it's not odd at all. Not everyone is meant to be married or have kids. I'm 33 and haven't been married nor have kids and I am loving being single. I'm also a dog mom at the moment and loving being single. I've been in relationships but didn't work out so not I don't care if others are married. Marriage life andand having kids is not any easier. Kids are a lot of work! So enjoy being single and ask them about how it is being married and having kids, engage with them and then eventually if you do want to have all that then you will but don't feel bad, you are not the only one

[Summeroflove]

Well. HAHA! You can’t sleep around no more. Maybe get a husband for once and stop trolling this site.

Maybe you would be married too if you made better choices in life

[Summeroflove]

Wait…. So you tell me you’re sleeping with people at work.

Now you say they’re married….. and taken…. WTF…. Now you legitimately are hurting people. Their poor wives

[Summeroflove]

I feel terrible for them. You should feel deeply ashamed of yourself. Deeply ashamed.

[Summeroflove]

Also. I thought you were totally against dating at work LMFAO

[shaysh87]

I've never had a hard time getting guys to fall for me. Just never found a guy i loved back

[shaysh87]

Plenty of these married girls used to sleep around too

[Summeroflove]

@shaysh87 wait what? Are you the same person on a alt account or what?

[Summeroflove]

If you’re haha. You just have a bad heart that can’t love

[Summeroflove]

If you’re not haha. You just ain’t found the right person yet or maybe they were not good people. I don't know.

Not sure why you’re telling me this

[Summeroflove]

@shaysh87 they’re bad people too.

[Summeroflove]

Haha. Argued with me over dating at work. Now she wants to know why everyone is single at work.

Haha also said she isn’t hurting anyone. But if everyone’s in relationships and sleeping with 10 or more people. Then she’s a piece of shit. So is the men cheating.

But. Wow. She’s not very intelligent

[Summeroflove]

@shaysh87 I’m not even kidding you. She legitimately said how people shouldn’t date at work and you’re nuts for it.

She told me all about how you will get fired for it. But people can sleep around. Nothing bad can come out of that.

I have given plenty of common scenarios and she still argued. She never told me I was wrong on them.

Now she comes and asks this question wondering how to date at work. 🤪

[Haha456]

Sounds like you're hallucinating. I never date at work. And I've never said i date at work. Its about time you stop imaginating things

[Summeroflove]

Did I imagine you wrote this question? Why would you care about people being not single at work then? Idiot.

Also. If nobody is. Then you’re cheating with people. Disgusto

[Summeroflove]

I know. You’re not the sharpest tool in the shed and don’t have good reading comprehension. So I don’t know why I even try to reason with you when you’re unreasonable.

[Summeroflove]

But you look like a big dummy to most people probably. They’re just nicer then me and don’t say anything

[Haha456]

How do you feel about being proven as a lunatic over and over again?

[Summeroflove]

Lol. I would take being a lunatic over a moron as yourself

[Haha456]

if you were here, you surely would be dating some married women at work.

[Summeroflove]

Fuck no I would not.

[Summeroflove]

What a stupid ass assumption. You’re all just pieces of shit.

[shaysh87]

you're the one who loves dating at work. Not me

[Summeroflove]

@shaysh87 are you haha’s alt? Date. Meaningful relationship. You have about the most circular logic I have seen.

It’s worse to have sex with married people and people in relationships. That is something that can cause TONS of problems.

Fucking idiot. Low IQ dumb bitch

[Summeroflove]

I would rather date someone I work with. Then have sex with someone whose married. You disgusting low life piece of shit.

You are dumb as fuck. One of the dumbest fucks I seen on this website. That’s saying a LOT

[Summeroflove]

Because there are some pretty dumb people here.

[Haha456]

but you wrote articles about how its so amazing and great dating at work. of course if you were in my shoes working at a job filled with women, you would be crazy about all these females.

[Summeroflove]

You have wrote me entire books about sleeping around and stuff like that. Only to find out they are married.

I said that if people don’t feel comfortable dating. Then that’s fine too.

But whatever.

[Summeroflove]

Don’t quit your day job then because being a psychic isn’t your strong suit. Number one. Many married people wouldn’t cheat on their spouses. Number two. I wouldn’t sleep with someone whose married.

I have been around women before. Most of the time I crush on one woman and am not interested in that way to the others.

But there you go making baseless assumptions. I’m not like you or the other scum you work with loser

[Summeroflove]

I sure as fuck would not sleep around or fuck married people like some kind of degenerate.

Stop projecting yourself onto me. Just because you don’t have morals. Don’t mean nobody else does

[shaysh87]

@Summeroflove

i will still have my job by sleeping around while you will be homeless after your coworker girlfriend breaks up with you.

that is the difference.

[shaysh87]

you don't have morals. you're bullying random people online

[Summeroflove]

@shaysh87 no I ain’t. I have morals. You force your degeneracy on everyone here.

[Summeroflove]

You’re also not supposed to have alternate accounts!

[shaysh87]

Sluts certainly have more morals than you. They dont go around bullying innocent people online. you're more of a threat to society than them

[Summeroflove]

@shaysh87 you’re definitely not innocent if you’re a slut. Have a bad night. I have 200 other notifications to attend to

[shaysh87]

@Summeroflove

what makes you think you're innocent? you're a bully.

[shaysh87]

@Summeroflove

how is being a slut a crime? tell me

[Summeroflove]

@shaysh87 wharves you say. You ain’t blocked me so you don’t feel that bullied. I hardly ever even respond to something anymore unless you do.

Obviously you feel bad about yourself. You told me I ain’t made you angry. But yet you’re here responding to something from well over a week ago

[Summeroflove]

@shaysh87 it’s just immoral and disgusting. You even said it’s disgusting.

Also cheating is wrong and some states do have cheating statues. If you’re sleeping with married people you’re a piece of shit point blank.

Either you feel bad about it. Or you’re just such a piece of shit you feel no remorse. Which is what I’m starting to think

[Summeroflove]

You really think that because something is legal that it’s just automatically okay?

[shaysh87]

@Summeroflove

What is disgusting to you may not be dusgusting for others. Just because you dont like cilantro , it does not mean everyone else should also hate cilantro. Learn to have an open mind

We have interacted for so long YET you can't even provide 1 valid reason why casual sex is disgusting.

Guess what? Vast majority of people today have done casual sex in one way or another. You are societys misfit , not me

Being a slut is not cheating. So go fuck off

[Summeroflove]

@shaysh87 even if you want to excuse that. If my opinion doesn’t matter. Why are you still here?

In fact. YOU have asked the question. You just didn’t get the answer you wanted to hear.

But look it. Even if you want to make excuses for causal sex. If your work place is mostly people in relationships and married. How is it not wrong to sleep with them?

You’re having a hard time excusing that so you’re back to casual sex. You won’t deny you’re sleeping with married people either

Just like you won’t tell me for sure if you’re even haha or someone defending her. Because you know alternative accounts are against the rules.

You have all these accounts because you’re a troll.

[Summeroflove]

It’s cheating stupid fuck if everyone at work is taken. But somehow you’re sleeping with them. You probably have blue waffles 🧇 🟦

[Summeroflove]

Even people who do have a lot of sex even they have limits on how far they will go. Not cheating on or with someone.

This is why you will never have a half way decent relationship. This is why all these men you claim are marriage material aren’t with you.

[shaysh87]

@Summeroflove

Well if you're the one who wants to date around at work. Then we all know you will date a married person.

And when did i ever say i like to cheat? you're the one who likes to chest with married people.

Maybe thats why you're still single bitter angry and unmarried

[shaysh87]

quite funny how You still can't even find a reason why sluts are immoral. This shows how illogical and invalid your views are. Your hatred is indoctrinated and brainwashed into you. You can't explain your hatred.
What have sluts done to you? Nothing! Theyre innocent people who have done nothing wrong.

[shaysh87]

[This is why you will never have a half way decent relationship. This is why all these men you claim are marriage material aren’t with you.]

Maybe if you stopped cheating with married women, then you would find a woman who would find you marriage material

You can accuse me of random assumptions and i can do the same to you

[Summeroflove]

@shaysh87 they’re not baseless.

[Summeroflove]

I have reported both your accounts by the way. You’re not supposed to have alternate accounts that you use to try to make it look like other people are defending you

[Summeroflove]

When it’s so obvious it’s you HAHA.

[Summeroflove]

And I’m about done with this anyways. I already blocked one moron who I was having a stupid ass argument with for over a week who is a self proclaimed and proud alcoholic.

And you’re next.

[Summeroflove]

Somehow. You can’t dare at work. Even though you said you don’t. Because everyone’s taken. Yet you claim to sleep with 10 people

[Summeroflove]

How do you have a fuck buddy at work if they’re all married or otherwise in a relationship? Why is everyone sleeping with each other and you defend it. If most people are married.

Disgusting

[Summeroflove]

But you make assumptions about me all the damn time like saying I would do the same when I wouldn’t

[shaysh87]

@Summeroflove

[How do you have a fuck buddy at work if they’re all married or otherwise in a relationship? Why is everyone sleeping with each other and you defend it. If most people are married.]

im the one who is against fucking or dating at work. you're the one who loves dating work. so don't accuse me of fucking at work. my job is wayy too valuable. i don't risk my job. but you will risk your job.

[Summeroflove]

@shaysh87 really? Because you defended fuck clusters and having fuck buddies at work.

Now you go back and claim you’re against it.

[Summeroflove]

Do you think I have a goldfish memory and can’t go back and look?

[shaysh87]

[But you make assumptions about me all the damn time like saying I would do the same when I wouldn’t]

so what? you make ridiculous assumptions about me. why can't i make assumptions about you?

assholes like you can dish BS out but you can't take it back in return

[Summeroflove]

@shaysh87 54 or 55 now replies later. Same old circular logic with you. Goodbye. Enjoy your blue waffles with a side of crabs

[LimitedBenefits101]

"I just can't help but feel like getting married is something I should do because everyone else is married"😂😂

[ArrowheadSW]

When I was around say, 30 or so, everyone who I worked with was married and had kids. They swore constantly telling me to NEVER HAVE KIDS! They were so stressed out over it. I'm not sure how they feel about it now, since after this elapsed time the kids would all be adults. I'm in touch with some of them but I don't know their feelings about it now.

[Fukaroo]

Being single is the best. Especially if you discover happiness by yourself. Why would anyone want to take place in a relationship determined to fail? Live life and do whatever the hell you want!

[Lucifer_666]

There is nothing wrong with being single. You will eventually find someone.

[Heolurt]

You just have to deal with it or fix it, my only possibility was to just deal with it.

[RandomGuy1032]

Are you practicing how to lie to your husband. I've seen so many hoes say stuff like this

[Asker2022]

Where you from?

[_Just_A_girl_]

Time for timder

[Anonymous]

"your standard" ?

[Haha456]

yes... im not gonna settle for a single dad who is 22 years older than me and has 3 kids. while im just a 24 yr old

[Opinion Owner]

That's fair...
Are you virgin?

[Haha456]

no guy i ever met has ever cared about virginity.

[Opinion Owner]

Can I fuck you?

[Haha456]

Are you desperate

[MrNameless]

24 is not late 20s.. Or are you not being honest?

[Haha456]

@MrNameless

I dont know what you're saying