I don’t mean to sound controlling or manipulative but my girlfriend is selling her used panties on the Facebook marketplace. This is a screenshot of her post. She sells them between $35-$50 each.
I asked her why she was doing this and she said that she just needed the money. I asked her for what because I was just worried about her meeting up with creeps. So she doesn’t meet them but instead drops them off in a ziplock bag in their mailbox.
I feel sad about this. I don’t know why but it makes me sad. I’m not even mad. Just sad.
Yes, this is fine and you’re in the wrong.
No, it’s not okay and you’re in the right to be concerned.
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Please help? Is it okay for my girlfriend to be selling her used underwear to creepers on Facebook because she didn’t even ask me?
Certain kinds of women do certain kinds of things.. Ask yourself if you'd feel proud if your daughter sold her underwear online? So I would say tell her you don't appreciate it, and if she calls you controlling or tries to invalidate your feelings (She probably will, be warned), then that's your sign that she isn't for you. Women of value aren't putting their used underwear online, and that's not the kind of woman you commit to long term. Always trust a woman's actions, rather than their words, and you'll never be deceived.
Fuck no that's not ok. Clearly. Look how your feeling about it. Some guys might not care, but I sure as hell would. I 100% understand where you're coming from. That needs to stop. You're right.
You didn't say anything about the status of your relationship. Just started dating last week? Been dating three months? Living together? Engaged? Casual dating? friends with benefits?
I understand your feelings as the boyfriend. Maybe you could help her find a job?
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You have the right not to want a girlfriend that does that. If she can't respect the fact that this upsets you, you should break up. She's disrespectful of your feelings.
What exactly are you sad about? Do you think less of her character for doing this? Do you feel somehow disrespected? It would help if you identify what exactly is bothering you about it.
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