Please help? Is it okay for my girlfriend to be selling her used underwear to creepers on Facebook because she didn’t even ask me?

[Anonymous]

I don’t mean to sound controlling or manipulative but my girlfriend is selling her used panties on the Facebook marketplace. This is a screenshot of her post. She sells them between $35-$50 each.

I asked her why she was doing this and she said that she just needed the money. I asked her for what because I was just worried about her meeting up with creeps. So she doesn’t meet them but instead drops them off in a ziplock bag in their mailbox.

I feel sad about this. I don’t know why but it makes me sad. I’m not even mad. Just sad.

Yes, this is fine and you’re in the wrong.

No, it’s not okay and you’re in the right to be concerned.

[Pegases]

Certain kinds of women do certain kinds of things.. Ask yourself if you'd feel proud if your daughter sold her underwear online? So I would say tell her you don't appreciate it, and if she calls you controlling or tries to invalidate your feelings (She probably will, be warned), then that's your sign that she isn't for you. Women of value aren't putting their used underwear online, and that's not the kind of woman you commit to long term. Always trust a woman's actions, rather than their words, and you'll never be deceived.

[SteveSmith1985]

Fuck no that's not ok. Clearly. Look how your feeling about it. Some guys might not care, but I sure as hell would. I 100% understand where you're coming from. That needs to stop. You're right.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Maybe you could just buy them from her, problem solved. I would love a man who did that for me... seems like a good compromise.

You don't have to worry about her meeting up with them, selling something and meeting are two different things.

[alice55]

If it bother you tell her and if she doesn't stop then it mean she doesn't respect you.

I don't think it's good to do those things while in a relationship but best things to do is to talk to her about it.

[OlderAndWiser]

You didn't say anything about the status of your relationship. Just started dating last week? Been dating three months? Living together? Engaged? Casual dating? friends with benefits?

[aoihewgf]

Not saying I'd be okay with it, but it would certainly be easier to swallow if she sold them without having to identify herself.

She may be okay with her identity being known but her actions reflect on you and impact your social status

[KittyKat90210]

I know this kind of thing happens but I personally think selling used underwear to strangers is a bit icky. Yeah, I said "icky". LOL

[SnowedIn]

That's her business... literally and figuratively. Her right to do this. Some people sell model cars, she does underwear.

[slatyb]

Get the fuck over it. It's easy money. She's not fucking them.

[loveslongnails]

What exactly are you sad about? Do you think less of her character for doing this? Do you feel somehow disrespected? It would help if you identify what exactly is bothering you about it.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

I understand your feelings as the boyfriend. Maybe you could help her find a job?

[Anonymous]

You have the right not to want a girlfriend that does that. If she can't respect the fact that this upsets you, you should break up. She's disrespectful of your feelings.

[AviatorTom]

How anyone would think it's okay to sell used undies is beyond me. Gross!

[AngelLily]

Dude Leave Her Fast. Don’t let this be the Mother of your Children

[exitseven]

I have used Facebook marketplace and it is okay. I sold a trailer and mu old mini bike.

[Anonymous]

Are you really losing sleep over underwear?

That is sad.

[Asker]

That would be exaggerating.

[Pohjolan]

I don't think its the underwear as much as her lack of dignity.

[MadAndBankrupt]

I have a smell fetish but I would have it towards my future wife.

smelling random woman’s underwear is seriously disgusting

[LiamJHayden]

She's earning easy money from losers. You must answer for yourself if you are okay with having a girlfriend who does so.

[Vaporvan]

This is creepy and gross. On top of it, she's not respected you in not telling you. I would leave her if I was you.

[Pohjolan]

You should be a little worried. Maybe there's a lot off stuff going on in her life that influenced her in some negative way?

[Jersey2]

You’re girlfriend is a creeper too.

[Landnin]

Exactly. So annoying when only men get called out as creeps but not women