Is it always a red flag when women have more than one kid (2-3) with different men? (Page 3)

[SixStringSeal]

It's not always a red flag, I think you'd need to know more about the history there.

Personally though it's just not what I'm looking for in a relationship. Not because the person is bad anything it's just not the family situation that I'd want.

[Prettygurl12]

If she's married, has a kid, and then get's divorced, and remarried and has a kid, then no...otherwise yes. Same goes for guy though too.

[mimikaycool]

If she has the kids while she's married, not necessarily. But if they're with different guys, porbably.

[heavensgift2girls]

Of course it is a red flag. People need to be held accountable, for the decisions that they have made in the past. If someone has a history of bad decisions, then that is a red flag.

[MissLeslie]

This is a red flag for both genders, but yeah I see what you mean, it is a red flag.

[whattothink]

Depends on what the situation was. But generally I think it a red flag. Now if they are far apart that's a different story. A year or two eh gives me pause.

[TTWICE]

Red flag. Ditch the bitch. More than likely she has baggage you probably don't want to deal with. Plenty of fish in the sea bro.

[martyfellow]

Usually they are some sort of gang girl who goes with different gang members...at least in the big city, it's that way.

[7gnat]

I completely see it as a red flag. I can see it happening once but not twice or a third time etc etc. If a woman has two or 3 different baby daddies then it shows how irresponsible she really is.

[BigDog1989]

Eh, not really. Just usually means the men in her life wound up being douchebags, as usual

In reality, women just want a man who's honest and they can rely on. If you can't be there for her, and be honest with her. Why should she be with you?

[scorpioGirl01]

I don't think so.. its when she has one kid and doesn't know who the father is between 2-3 guys that would raise a flag for me..

[forever_broken]

It always depends. You don't know a person's life story. I'm not going to judge.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely. At the very least, it shows she has horrible judgment.

[WhitneySnow]

Yeah but guys who do that are a red flag too.

[carnations99]

I would say run... as a female that is a huge red flag...

[Hades]

A blood red flag flowing in the wind, raised sky high for all to see.

[G_GTom]

Most single women with kids are looking for an easy meal ticket.

[Anonymous]

I see that as a red flag in women as I see that as a red flag in men (fathering different children with different women).

[Anonymous]

It certainly shows that she is careless. If it happens one time, well sometimes things happen. If it happens more then once, something is not quite right with her. I can understand why guys would consider that a red flag.

[Anonymous]

back in the native times girls would have babies with like all kinds of dudes