because its torture; you like the girl and yet you can't progress with her. the guy would rather end the relationship and spend his time looking for someone who can love him back
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Why would we want to talk to someone who just wasted his time, effort, and energy?
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Anonymous
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We don't like being rejected. It hurts. Why would be want to be close with someone who has caused us pain?
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Because he mainly just wanted to have sex with you, and can get whatever emotional needs met that your friendship gives him with guy friends.
What a selfish perspective! Can you possibly imagine how HE feels? This is not all about what YOU want and, at this point, he owes you nothing.
Not all guys do it. I certainly don't. I suppose it's all about context.
Certainly.
I guess it depends on how much it hurts. I'd cut off contacts if I can't feel like I've got hold of my feelings.
The friendship is already ruined. Cutting off contact is just a recognition of that.
My advice is, if you're interested in someone or think you might be, dont become their friend
True. The guys should make it clear. It hurts to let go of a friend with whom you are emotionally attached.
To start healing from the rejection. Why prolong the agony? Next!
Because they were not asking for friendship.
seriously? you can't be serious while asking this question
Oh, rejected.. That actually doesn't make sense. I understand after a long lasting relationship but right away?
Because he doesn't want to be your friend. We don't owe your our friendship.
would you want to talk to someone who ripped your heart out and stomped on it? no.
No one stomped on it. But friendship was the initial relationship we ever had.
right but that's what rejection feels like.
because its torture; you like the girl and yet you can't progress with her. the guy would rather end the relationship and spend his time looking for someone who can love him back
Why would we want to talk to someone who just wasted his time, effort, and energy?
We don't like being rejected. It hurts. Why would be want to be close with someone who has caused us pain?
What's the point of staying in contact?