My casual hookup ghosted me?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy on Tinder and we got along and hooked up. We hooked up again a week later and he told me that he wasn't looking for a relationship and he has a friends with benefits and is happy for what we have to be a casual thing which I'm happy with as well. We watched a movie together (only half way cause we got it on too soon lol) and he left his USB which I texted him a couple days later and told him and he said he would come and pick it up with a ;) face which I thought implied we would hookup again so I was like yeah sure thing but can we finish watching the movie first? ;) and he hasn't replied! It's been a week! It's just really annoying cause I don't want to play this waiting game especially since I just want sex, and he said he's happy with that too which I'm beginning to doubt. I want sex but I don't want to with him if he isn't keen, I want him to want it with me too. Should I text him again and be like hey, if you're ghosting me you can just say you're not interested? Is there a better thing to say?

[Captmorgan]

A friends with benefits relationship, thankfully, has very few rules - the game is no longer required (for now). It's basically a business transaction. Therefore, just be blunt with him.

[MadeInAmerica]

Since your his new fuck you are probably at the bottom of his Tinder fuck list. You might need to fill your list with some other dicks so your not waiting for his.

[Asker]

I asked him the first time really openly about his deal with Tinder and he told me that he only hooked up with one girl from it and he is currently sexually active with one other girl so I don't think that's the reason. I mean he could very well have forgotten to reply but it's 2016 replying to a text is easy haha I just want him to tell me straight up if he wants to continue.

[MadeInAmerica]

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Hahaha if had a dime every time a girl said they met someone on tinder and they only hooked up with one or "just you" lines I would be able to quit working. If you want give him an ultimatum then do that then you know if he wants to keep fucking you or not.

[Asker]

Well that's just not cool haha! STIs are a serious thing that I don't want to deal with if they lie to me about having sex. I'm not here to judge, I just want a good time without going to a checkup and find out that I will not be having a good time! Thanks for the advice. I just texted him and he replied (very goddamn quickly for once) and he says he wants to. I'll take it cause I'm too horny to care lol.

[MadeInAmerica]

LOL

Have fun.

[Anonymous]

If I were you, I would forget about him. He doesn't seem overly keen to hook up with you. Maybe you're just one of his many other options.