Why do guys not approach women, then complain about being single? (Page 2)
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If I really like her, I'll approach. If she likes me more than I like her, well... keep staring and winking lol I hear cats are good company.
If you can help then let's discuss eitherwise no use of the question.
Why do girls not approach guys, then complain about being single?
Nice rhetoric.
I have no problem asking guys out. Guess I'm stronger than most of you.
They get a slutty reputation , if they do.
@jacquesvol I don't care if some random dude calls me a slut. He's not worth my time.
It's more the other girls who will tell their male and female friends she's slutty. (Killing the competition.)
Stronger? Where did you get that idea?
Because I ask guys out while you sit here and complain why you aren't getting any action.
Who said I sit here and complain? I was merely asking why don't girls approach? And yes, I do approach girls, not a lot, but I have approached. And have had no luck.
Same reason you don't. Fear of rejection. I said it applies to both genders: Want someone? Make an effort.
Read my previous comment. I do make an effort. I just haven't been successful. Where have I mentioned fear of rejection?
Then keep trying you have to keep trying
Probably because a lot of women are bitchy and have attitudes when we approach.
There's this thing called preserverance. Don't be afraid to take a risk!
I would be less hesitant taking a rest if there weren't so many snobby women out there. I approached a handful of women in my life before and some are quick to even call the cops. I'm sure I wasn't being "creepy" either. And don't say I'm approaching the wrong women because if I knew they were bitchy in the first place I'd never approach them at all.
Risk*
It's easier to whine than do.
Exactly. Was there anything wrong that I said? I got HATE for stating facts.
Not at all. All the hate just goes straight to my point. It's so much easier to whine and make excuses why they don't than to actually do something anbout their loneliness.
be my wife now.
Because being turned down is no fun.
That's life. You have to continue fighting.
Nope , it would be creepy.
How?
If several women tell a guy he must not approach, he draws his conclusion: they consider him a creep or a perv.
Otherwise he's just dumb. Or really a creep or a pervert.
That goes back to my point: "Every woman is different. One may come along and feel the same about you. You don't know that."