Why are guys scared to approach me?

[Anonymous]

Ok I am in high school and guys say they are scared to approach me because I am beautiful and hot. I don't think I am that pretty but they seem to think so. Why don't guys ask me out because it makes me feel that I am not pretty enough.

[Anonymous]

In high school guys don't approach as much. Some of it is because high schoolers are immature and nobody wants to be known as the guy who asks many girls out. I was friends with a guy like that and he was seen as the school creep because of it. (Guys hate that label especially when they aren't creepy).

Also guys in high school, well a lot of them don't have the highest self esteem. They assume you're out of their league and just don't bother and move on. Sad but it avoids the awkwardness of what would happen if they get rejected and things get weird between you two. Out of high school things get a bit better because a guy who approaches never has to see you again.

[Andre__]

Guys get intimidated by beautiful girls. Sadly the guys who do not have that aren't usually the guys you would want to date. Play it right and you will keep the wrong guys at bay, but you may have to take the first step. Just be sure to go for someone you really like and get a sense if it is mutual. High school is sadly also a place where you go from being the pretty girl to a less desirable title since you go after too many guys. It a though time, but don't wait indefinitely fora boy to come to you. If you go the right guy he's yours and he couldn't get any more proud that you picked him.

[system73554]

Most girls think they aren't pretty. It's how society has traind us. Truth be told you are probably seen as really pretty and that makes most guys scared to approach. Also most high school boys are big ol scardy cats anyway.
If you see a guy you like, in some subtle way you could let him know and he will probably take the next step, and love you for it ’ )

[BuchitaBuchys]

I don't know if I believe that.
Maybe it is true. I wouldn't consider myself hot and I get asked out quite often. I think you need to go to the hood, men aren't shy at all and they'll ask you out.

[hemadesouza]

Maybe because you castrate boys have their testciles in a jar back home?

[MatthewOD]

I think it could be that guys feel that you would be too good for them. A lot of these guys claim that they oviously find you attractive yet they still fear asking you out because they feel that they will be rejected.

For the record you should not feel as though you are ugly just because no body approaches you. It means that people view you so highly that there is a made up danger in actually talking to you.

I will tell you that there were plenty of girls that I thought were really pretty but I did not ask any one of them out because I built them up so much in my head that I became almost fearful being in the same company as them.

[Ice_Bear_Milkshake]

That's absolute hogwash. Everyone is beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Regarding the guys, in my opinion they are scared of being rejected and becoming a joke towards their peers. If I were you, I would make the first move. This would provide some encouragement or that initial push needed to overcome their initial insecurities.

[Borat_Sagidiev]

I am think you have make mistake in a you house. Definite sound like a you have a poster of a beautiful womans on wall and a you mistake a that for mirror. If a you look into real mirror you probale see why nobody ask a you out.

[Larry1202]

You're beautiful... And every guys know that... If the girl looks pretty... They should have some mean attitude too... That's why the guys are scared at times to ask you out... Maybe you don't have such mean attitude but they don't know right? Why don't you talk with guys frankly and more friendly... That will make the guys feel a little bit comfortable to ask you out babe... 👍👍

[alexjohn]

They are too much foolish to reject the beauty like you,,,, if you are that much beautiful... Don't feel sad just bcz of these fool like how they feel and what they say just ignore them...
Beauty have its own place and charm... Not all of them right to take that charm...
Be careful stay safe don't be foolish what other think...

[Krokodyl]

Everybody fears rejection and if you are really pretty, they would think that they don't have a chance even more. So you have to drop some relly obvious hints to someone you like or aproach him yourself.

[Caseythess]

I feel us guys, when they see someone beautiful or cute to them, especially when we're younger compare ourselves to our crush and start to think we aren't enough for that person and start playing situations in our heads like "what if they say no and tells everyone I asked them and then everyone starts to laugh at me" or something like that or at least that's how I think

[HoTak]

So... Guys approached you and say they're scared to approach you? How do you even know guys said that about you in the first place? Something fishy here..

[Asker]

Another guy told me what they have been sayung

[sergirock]

Yeah thats a big deal. When a woman is so hot you fear to approach her. You believe she is out of your league.
Even me, that I am a confident person, I doubt and feel the fear before approaching a hot girl. Unfortunately this is normal, honey.

[zenbullet]

Because you are hot lol

Cheer up college will be better and the longer you don't internalize your hotness the better off you will be

[japhet97]

Wait... You literally just answered your own question lol

[NucDylan]

They feel they aren't good enough for you. Stupid yea, but guys can be just as dumb as girls, mostly dumber

[CowboyKamp]

If guys say it's because you are too hot then believe them. Even now I get nervous asking a woman out because she looks out of my league physically.

[zenbullet]

Actually that's not nervous, that's excitement you are misinterpreting

[rain_maker112]

Yeah man, dress down and make friends lmao. We are just shy. And so are you.

[Zenurus]

We all, girls and guys, fear of being rejected. What's your reason to not ask someone out, or have you?

[AskWatson]

Young guys lack self confidence, and are scared to say something wrong, but by not saying much they come off as interested.

[TheDuke33]

Dont change, if you try to make yourself more available for the wimps that are too afraid to talk to you they'll see you as easy instead and not show you respect. Its better the way you are

[AllGirlsAreBeautiful]

if you are hot i think not a single one left you without approaching. but may be if you are hot they scared of your principal of high school

[Asker]

They say they are scared of rejection that I am too hot

[AllGirlsAreBeautiful]

haha all the guys? if i am at your high school then you will find what courage is

[Andrewlongguard]

If you go to her highschool then you will find out what a pedo is. 😅😅

[AllGirlsAreBeautiful]

Why u guys can't see that this is on lighter note

[OpenWine]

because you picked a sensivite topic. if I was a parent and a pedo fucked my kid I would jigsaw masacre him in pieces and eat his brain

[trav132]

You must be beautiful if guys are too scared to approach you! The guys who are to scared to approach you in the first place aren't man enough for you anyways. The right, deserving guys won't be too scared. The wait will be worth it.

[stevencat]

Turn it around. Why don't you approach men you like? Scares of rejection? Same for us. The prettier the girl. The more you think you will be rejected

[quadjo]

I think maybe you don't smile a lot that is why guys like girls that smile a lot it's makes it easy to start a conversation

[Johnnyy1997]

At the beggining of high school i was shy too and was hard for me to aproach girls.. later in time i started getting experienced and when i had 10+girlfriends it was easy :D

[RenegadeSailor]

Because they have low self esteem and think they cannot get with you.

[JSmuve]

Because obvs you're gonna reject them for not being up to your lofty, beautiful people standards

[Sigvald]

Thats me in a nutshell. When i see a hot and beatiful girl, i instantly think that she has a boyfriend or will reject me

[Martinst]

Low self- esteem... some of us thing that is better to not try and get burned... better safe than sorry but i personaly think that if you don't try you will never know

[AnnLust]

Well, considering that how bent up the rules r right now, guys dnt feel that comfortable making a move. Maybe u should give em an obvious hint so they knw what u want.

[Aroso]

Which guy had the guts to tell you that you are hot? Give that man a medal.

[midwestman]

Pics and then I could give you a better answer.. but it is nerve racking for people to approach someone they are interested in for fear of rejection

[GhilleMiller]

Possibly they think you are "out of their league" or maybe they are just to nervous to pop the question

[TheEagles]

Most see your appearance as a barrier that they have to get and tough to muster up the courage to do it

[EmmaMary]

They simply hate the thought of rejection.

[Anonymous]

We are usually intimidated by beautiful girls and feel that we are not in your league and will just get rejected

[Drmayberight]

Maybe there they are lying and there is an other reason

[tigermanchris]

Because of your looks. Go up and talk to them first.

[Anonymous]

Let me guess, the guys you like, don't give you attention, and the ones you don't like, are always staring at you?

[classic_ramir]

They don't take rejection well so automatically think you will say no.

[ShowFear]

Can you add at least a cover photo so we can see the hotness?

[monishb]

Spend some time with me, lets know each other and I will tell you eact reason for that

[Cali_Marine]

Because the guy feels he's not good looking enough for you

[kingWealth]

You choose a guy and approach him.

[Iwasjustbored]

Do you brush your teeth?

[Dchrls78104]

Because you are in high school.

[opurba]

It's good... sign, y u need problems in ur life.

[F00tMaN]

The way you describe yourself... Hmmm :thinking:

[BonnieBunny]

They just told you why wtf

[skully2508]

Because they're scared they'll get rejected

[AqibFarid]

Why don't I face any girl like you?

[OpenWine]

pics or didn't happen

[Philyouup]

They are in fear of rejection.

[BeHappy1985]

LMAO, we all know you're a 5/10 Susan, stop lying.

[My-Shangri-La]

Maybe you smell like a fish market

[Nahid1234]

You’re cute that is why haha

[potatosammich]

Theyre afriad of what you represent.

[Danielleo]

you wana go out. you said so Id ask

[coxxxster]

I would need to see you

[Samikaila]

Let me open the door for them. Where are now?

[MtrDnvrM4fun]

Because people lack self confidence

[Deukalion]

They afraid of rejection!

[eyecanhelp]

Yes, guys cab be intimidated. Make the first move.