Why do you guys wait so long to let a girl know you like her? (Page 2)

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This isn't the first time this has happened to me, but it seems a guy likes me, I like him, but he never does anything about it.  Of course time passes, I figure he isn't interested, I move on.  By move on, I don't necessarily mean to another guy...but moved on as accepted that the guy probably didn't like me, and since he didn't do anything or enough to feed what could have been a budding relationship, I have lost feelings.  THEN they start showing interest.  ugh.I mean do you guys really expect a girl to like you for a year with nothing in return that leads to actually dating?It is funny when guys seem surprised when you move on.  Is there no concept of time?  I almost feel like saying...'yeah, I like you in 1998, remember?...but it is now 2010!'.  :pOk, its not that bad, but trying to get a laugh out of some.  Although we live this kind of stuff, it is almost kind of funny in some ways.But I would like to know why the guy doesn't kick it into gear until the girl has moved on?Not saying things can't be re-kindled, but something gets lost along the way keeping us waiting like that.  :(

TigerRoseBear · Answer

guys are shy?

atWitsEnd · Answer

You are so right

JustAngel · Answer

In same situation.

Why do you guys wait so long to let a girl know you like her? (Page 2)

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