How to respond to guys who send me shirtless pictures on Snapchat?

Xper 6 Age: 29

I often get shy and I don’t know what to say back. I’m very awkward liked that.

How do you respond to a guy who sends you pictures like that?
And what does it mean when they do that? 🤔

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Ok what if the person who sends me shirtless photos is not a stranger but a friend... hence that’s how they got my snap chat username in the first place.

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jcampbell115 Follow
Yoda Age: 30 , mho 31%

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This is sort of what I feel about this situation, and I agree with some of the responses below. When you're around your guy friends going to the beach for example, they're going to be shirtless and it's highly unlikely they've ever sent you shirtless pics. That's ok. But when someone sends unasked for shirtless pics, I see that as them wanting something more than friendship, in that they want you to be turned on by their body. I don't know why you'd ever send shirtless pics as a guy to a female friend when they didn't ask for it.

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dantetheexplorer Follow
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Is this what counts for courtship nowadays? My, how things have changed!

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- mel1695
  
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  I don’t see that as courtship tho. But apparently people do.
  
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Ellie-V Follow
Guru Age: 29 , mho 32%

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I don’t have a Snapchat.
If I a guy sent me some shirtless photo or video... I’d just be grossed out and I’d immediately dismiss it
If it was a woman my initial reaction would be 😍 but then I snap back to reality and realize this is kinda weird...😶
So I probably wouldn’t respond
Or I’d say something like “who this be?” 😂😂😂

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- Ellie-V
  
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  Update... If it’s someone you know... then that’s really weird. You should just straight up ask what their intentions are and let them know that you’re not flattered (but if you are, then I guess that’s fine too)
  
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Xper 5 Age: 25

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If you like what you see tell him that.
If you're not comfortable or not willing to send such things back tell him that or tease him a little or something.

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Prankster13 Follow
Explorer Age: 26

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If you like them you could compliment.
If you don't you could send them a sweet discounted gym membership offer! 😉

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- mel1695
  
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  Omg 😂😂
  
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- Prankster13
  
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  Garantee you they won't send you another lol.
  
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They're very full of themselves. Personally I'd just ignore it and not even give them any kind of reaction.

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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Wouldn't the fact that they're friends only be worse. Personalitywise they're still one of "those" guys. You just happen to know this one.
  
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- mel1695
  
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  Why do you think they are full of themselves?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Because I'm a guy and I know how they operate. I have douchey friends too. Guys who usually make a big deal about flexing in the mirror or taking shirtless selfies are super insecure. I see it at the gym all the time. It comes from the new guys at the gym trying to show off and make people think they're veterans at weightlifting. And most of the actual strong guys just roll their eyes.
  
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TrustOfWorthington Follow
Xper 6 Age: 24

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Well he wants to show off and wishes that your reaction will be that you just decide he is the one because of his marvellous body... maybe he wants a shirtless pic from you back, who knows... many perverts out there...

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GetzRekt Follow
Yoda Age: 46 , mho 54%

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Just reply with "Nice tits, bitch". I think that's appropriate to say to a guy.

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NYCQuestions1976 Follow
Guru Age: 48

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They want you to find them hot because guys are horny.

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valualty Follow
Explorer Age: 37

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Is that how guys get girls nowdays 😂 i pitty girls who fall for that

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Lottifan Follow
Guru Age: 35

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Just be honest with them and tell them how you feel about receiving the photos

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LegateLanius Follow
Master Age: 33

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Depends, do you like him? If so, respond with a compliment and your intentions

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Slim57 Follow
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I'd think they're a douche and delete em, they're trying to show off

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- Slim57
  
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  Same Mel same sorry
  
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______________ Follow
Xper 5 Age: 32 , mho 35%

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Must be nice to be a heterosexual girl with high sex drive

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Premm619 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 29

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Tell whatever you feel by seeing that like nice body or not my type, etc

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beingrealistic Follow
Xper 2 Age: 27

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Oh I don't use Snapchat. Will society accept me? Lol

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Decentguy Follow
Master Age: 32

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when they do, say "you need to work on your body more"

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motownplayer2000 Follow
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Send him shirtless pictures right back of other men. And tell him your not impressed

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prince_pradeep Follow
Xper 3 Age: 28

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one of best. because girls best quality is shy.
you pure heart person.
u tell this bold in social media.
im proud about u

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Justin85283 Follow
Explorer Age: 22

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Don't need to be shy on here. that's what I like about GAG

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rtrohit55 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 35

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Show him the girls power and send him the tshirtless pic of yours

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seriius2319 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 40

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Clown on em
They obviously want a pic of you like that who wouldn't but yea

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yerimbaby Follow
Xper 3 Age: 21

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Tell him to fuck off 😂😂

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Kingfish3447 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 29

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Send this: "Nice legs.. when do they open?"

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