I'm dead serious!! I've never heard that phrase outside of historical novels!! I did do my Google homework, though! IMHO... Never called a woman a slut, and I don't know what all the fuss is about. It's entirely self defeating for men. If we're as 'evil' and have as much of a one track mind as we're made out to have by some, and if a 'slut' is someone who you only need to go out with on one date and she'll sleep with you... that's a bad thing because... ? If we WANT sex, and want it all the time, surely we're going to want to date a 'slut'? It's a dated word that belongs in the Victorian era, where it came from. The modern equivalent would be a woman who is confident, assertive and knows what she likes. Enjoys sex, and knows that she's 'allowed' to enjoy sex, or am I wrong? Every time I hear a guy use the words slut/slag/whore/cum dumster etc, I put them on the same intellectual plain as kids that use "You're not coming to my birthday party!" when they've had a barney with one of their mates... in pre-school.
Opinion, people will always talk. Perhaps the solution lies at the receivers end. You can either allow yourself to be brought down by someones comments (regardless of the nature) or accept silently that whatever path they have been on in life has led them to this hateful path, and be thankful that you are not such a lowlife individual. It's just a word.. as long as they're not throwing rocks at your head you're possibly making a mountain out of a mole hill.
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Loveeeeeeee this post!!! I shall let it go!!! Thanks for the motivating words and insight!!! You ROCK π
A girl dressed like a slut and she gets called a slut, I dress like a slut and I get arrested for indecent exposure. #mansluts we need to bring the sexy back to the y chromosome
Don't think I would. I'm usually very live and let live. But if someone calls me out for something my immediate response is usually to double down on it so I'd probably call her a super slut
Personally I'd never call a girl a slut for what she wears, wear whatever you want to. Your life, your decision. But if I did I'd probably just not say anything lol
I wouldn't call someone a slut unless she was a REAL slut, no decent girl would wear something and walk on the streets nearly naked unless she's a slut!
If I were in the situation depicted on the title, I'd got nothing for my defence. I have my codes, so the chances are pretty low that I'd even end up in a situation like that.
its a mental marker gor guys rhat screams ,,, "she must be easy",,,, the oh-so old showing of cleavage,, has been deemed sure thing advertising by society for decades now ,,, so its basicly a routine tag now
@grace9876 Without knowing the details of the situation and taking it at face value, I would say that no, I wouldn't judge the girl after calling him a pussy because he was the one who antagonized her outright, and for doing so, he kind of is a pussy. Did he not expect a response from her?
100% Against slut-shaming. It is ALWAYS used as a defense mechanism by pathetic men who feel belittled and emasculated by women's sexuality, or men who were rejected by them (the irony of THAT lol). So, that is why I judge men who call women sluts in a negative way,, it isn't even a negative word to me, but it is to many. Kind of like a Christian telling me (an Atheist) I am going to hell... like Oh no! That really hurts meeeee oww please no... (I hope you can sense the sarcasm), and as stupid as it may sound to me, I know you mean to be malicious and hurtful by it, so I judge you for saying it, yet I am not affected at all cause it's stupid.
lol all that can be said about women so you wouldn't judge the girl after calling him a pussy because he was the one who antagonized her outright so you are blameing the man for being called a pussy yet you do not know situation yet you say 100% Against slut-shaming. It is ALWAYS used as a defense mechanism by pathetic men who feel belittled and emasculated by women's sexuality so yet again you blame the man without knowing the situation
i see a very big double standard you have going there as in both cases you blame the man yet let the women off the hook why
and calling a man a pussy is a negative word for them yet you still blame the man
@grace9876 If I punch you in the face and you punch me back, most people wouldn't blame you for punching me. And I flat out stated I don't know the whole situation so I am only going off what you gave me... If you care to get into more detail I may refine my answer. But I know that one way or another I am judging the man, as for judging the woman, that is where it depends and I'd need a clearer picture of what happened. If you expect a thorough answer give a thorough scenario to dissect. I gave you my opinion on the scenario you've explained.
so you just judge the man even without knowing the whole situation but refese to judge the women untiil you know the whole situation that is a double standard
why do you need a clearer picture of what happened foe judgeing a women but not for the man why do you just assume the man is to blame
and you say If I punch you in the face and you punch me back most people wouldn't blame me for punching you but reverse that and people would still blame the man like you are doing right now
say you walked pasted a man punching a women in the face would you judge him for punching her?
@grace9876 It isn't a double standard because if the girl called the guy a slut first and he called her a pussy I would judge her and not him... As I said, 100% against slut-shaming. But that wasn't the question, however, thanks for assuming what I would think in that situation despite me saying the exact opposite.
And if a girl punched a guy in the face I would judge her, and if he punched her back I would *probably* understand why too. And same goes for vice versa...
it still stand that you have a double standard as you said your self Without knowing the details of the situation and taking it at face value, you would say that no, you wouldn't judge the girl after calling him a pussy because he was the one who antagonized her outright, and for doing so, he kind of is a pussy
so you blame him for her calling him a pussy yet you so not do the same for the women
Without knowing the details of the situation and taking it at face value, you would say that yes, you would judge the man after calling her a sult because he was the one who MAYBE antagonized her outright, and for doing so, he is to blame
If this was girl on girl hate, I would still judge the girl calling the other one a slut, and would hold reservation for the other girl until I know more. The point is I am against slut-shaming, always.
lol you are By definition, indeed invoking a double standard and it is amazing you cannot see that as you are using to very diffrenc rules to judge someone based on their gender
as your rule for judge a women is wait untill you know more of what happened as he most likely did something to her
but your rule for judgeing a man is he did something to her and is now calling her a sult i do not need to know more he is a dirtbag for calling her that no matter what so i will judge him
see the double standard yet
yet If it was girl on girl hate, you would still judge the girl calling the other one a slut but you would still hold reservations for the other girl until you knew yet you do not hold reservations for the guy until you know as you just right away blame him and judge him yet you wait for more information before judgeing the guy
that is very definition of a double standard as you are treating two people very differently based on their gender
in both of them you automatically assume it is the guys fault but if the girl is being called a sult you do not seem to need any further information you just automatically judge the guy
but reverse the genders and now you all of a sudden need more information before you start judgeing the girl
so yes you have a double standard as you are treating to people diffenly based on their gender as you wait to find out what happend if the girl calls a guy a pussy and then you judge but if a guy called a girl a sult you just bam judge him with out waiting for more information
Im not sure... ill have to think about that a little more 🤔🤔
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Called you out as in what? For a dual? Not heard that expression before?
This made me laugh
I'm dead serious!! I've never heard that phrase outside of historical novels!!
I did do my Google homework, though!
IMHO... Never called a woman a slut, and I don't know what all the fuss is about. It's entirely self defeating for men. If we're as 'evil' and have as much of a one track mind as we're made out to have by some, and if a 'slut' is someone who you only need to go out with on one date and she'll sleep with you... that's a bad thing because... ? If we WANT sex, and want it all the time, surely we're going to want to date a 'slut'?
It's a dated word that belongs in the Victorian era, where it came from.
The modern equivalent would be a woman who is confident, assertive and knows what she likes. Enjoys sex, and knows that she's 'allowed' to enjoy sex, or am I wrong?
Every time I hear a guy use the words slut/slag/whore/cum dumster etc, I put them on the same intellectual plain as kids that use "You're not coming to my birthday party!" when they've had a barney with one of their mates... in pre-school.
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Opinion, people will always talk. Perhaps the solution lies at the receivers end. You can either allow yourself to be brought down by someones comments (regardless of the nature) or accept silently that whatever path they have been on in life has led them to this hateful path, and be thankful that you are not such a lowlife individual. It's just a word.. as long as they're not throwing rocks at your head you're possibly making a mountain out of a mole hill.
Loveeeeeeee this post!!! I shall let it go!!! Thanks for the motivating words and insight!!! You ROCK π
I'd laugh if anyone called me anything! Not sure if I've called anyone a slut, besides myself.
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Then I deserved to be called out for calling a Girl or Woman a S**t and told off and where to get off at.
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A girl dressed like a slut and she gets called a slut, I dress like a slut and I get arrested for indecent exposure. #mansluts we need to bring the sexy back to the y chromosome
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Don't think I would. I'm usually very live and let live. But if someone calls me out for something my immediate response is usually to double down on it so I'd probably call her a super slut
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That might be fair to say π
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Personally I'd never call a girl a slut for what she wears, wear whatever you want to. Your life, your decision. But if I did I'd probably just not say anything lol
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I wouldn't call someone a slut unless she was a REAL slut, no decent girl would wear something and walk on the streets nearly naked unless she's a slut!
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They can call me slut or whatever they want but i won't giveup on my ways of dressing n all
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I like how you ask for opinions then get mad at the ones you dont like😂😂😂
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Well sheβd have to be a slut for me to call her one like cheated on me with multiple guys, then Iβd be happy to tell everyone about her exploits
And that's totally acceptable if she's unfaithful and promiscuous... That's a slut...
For some reason whore seems better than slut and I'm not sure why ahahahaha ππ€¦
If I were in the situation depicted on the title, I'd got nothing for my defence. I have my codes, so the chances are pretty low that I'd even end up in a situation like that.
That's good you don't use that language
I call sluts only sluts if they are ones. Or during sex as dirty talk
That's how is should be honestly
I wouldnβt call a girl a slut to begin with.
Better ways to fall out someone than name calling
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its a mental marker gor guys rhat screams ,,, "she must be easy",,,, the oh-so old showing of cleavage,, has been deemed sure thing advertising by society for decades now ,,, so its basicly a routine tag now
This question is not for me because I have learned to respect
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100% of the time I hear a guy call a woman a slut I immediately judge him, and not her.
why and would you judge the a girl calling a guy a pussy then but not the guy
I loveeeeeeee this!!! I never even thought about it like this... Well done!!! I appreciate you π
erm thanks i guess but really if he judges the guy for calling a girl a sult he should also judge the women for calling the guy a pussy
@grace9876 Without knowing the details of the situation and taking it at face value, I would say that no, I wouldn't judge the girl after calling him a pussy because he was the one who antagonized her outright, and for doing so, he kind of is a pussy. Did he not expect a response from her?
100% Against slut-shaming. It is ALWAYS used as a defense mechanism by pathetic men who feel belittled and emasculated by women's sexuality, or men who were rejected by them (the irony of THAT lol). So, that is why I judge men who call women sluts in a negative way,, it isn't even a negative word to me, but it is to many. Kind of like a Christian telling me (an Atheist) I am going to hell... like Oh no! That really hurts meeeee oww please no... (I hope you can sense the sarcasm), and as stupid as it may sound to me, I know you mean to be malicious and hurtful by it, so I judge you for saying it, yet I am not affected at all cause it's stupid.
@Secret6620 Thank you :)
lol all that can be said about women so you wouldn't judge the girl after calling him a pussy because he was the one who antagonized her outright so you are blameing the man for being called a pussy yet you do not know situation yet you say 100% Against slut-shaming. It is ALWAYS used as a defense mechanism by pathetic men who feel belittled and emasculated by women's sexuality so yet again you blame the man without knowing the situation
i see a very big double standard you have going there as in both cases you blame the man yet let the women off the hook why
and calling a man a pussy is a negative word for them yet you still blame the man
@grace9876 If I punch you in the face and you punch me back, most people wouldn't blame you for punching me. And I flat out stated I don't know the whole situation so I am only going off what you gave me... If you care to get into more detail I may refine my answer. But I know that one way or another I am judging the man, as for judging the woman, that is where it depends and I'd need a clearer picture of what happened. If you expect a thorough answer give a thorough scenario to dissect. I gave you my opinion on the scenario you've explained.
so you just judge the man even without knowing the whole situation but refese to judge the women untiil you know the whole situation that is a double standard
why do you need a clearer picture of what happened foe judgeing a women but not for the man why do you just assume the man is to blame
and you say If I punch you in the face and you punch me back most people wouldn't blame me for punching you but reverse that and people would still blame the man like you are doing right now
say you walked pasted a man punching a women in the face would you judge him for punching her?
@grace9876 It isn't a double standard because if the girl called the guy a slut first and he called her a pussy I would judge her and not him... As I said, 100% against slut-shaming. But that wasn't the question, however, thanks for assuming what I would think in that situation despite me saying the exact opposite.
And if a girl punched a guy in the face I would judge her, and if he punched her back I would *probably* understand why too. And same goes for vice versa...
it still stand that you have a double standard as you said your self Without knowing the details of the situation and taking it at face value, you would say that no, you wouldn't judge the girl after calling him a pussy because he was the one who antagonized her outright, and for doing so, he kind of is a pussy
so you blame him for her calling him a pussy yet you so not do the same for the women
Without knowing the details of the situation and taking it at face value, you would say that yes, you would judge the man after calling her a sult because he was the one who MAYBE antagonized her outright, and for doing so, he is to blame
see the diffrenc there yet
@grace9876 It isn't double standard because if the genders were reversed I would feel the same way.
Double standard: a rule or principle which is unfairly applied in different ways to different people or groups.
By definition, I am not invoking a double standard.
If this was girl on girl hate, I would still judge the girl calling the other one a slut, and would hold reservation for the other girl until I know more. The point is I am against slut-shaming, always.
lol you are By definition, indeed invoking a double standard and it is amazing you cannot see that as you are using to very diffrenc rules to judge someone based on their gender
as your rule for judge a women is wait untill you know more of what happened as he most likely did something to her
but your rule for judgeing a man is he did something to her and is now calling her a sult i do not need to know more he is a dirtbag for calling her that no matter what so i will judge him
see the double standard yet
yet If it was girl on girl hate, you would still judge the girl calling the other one a slut but you would still hold reservations for the other girl until you knew yet you do not hold reservations for the guy until you know as you just right away blame him and judge him yet you wait for more information before judgeing the guy
that is very definition of a double standard as you are treating two people very differently based on their gender
@grace9876 Literally not because in any one scenario if you switch the Genders my opinion doesn't change wtf? Ok, I'm not responding anymore.
lol but it dose i will lay it out slowly for you
guy calls girl sult you judge the guy
girl calls guy a pussy you judge the guy
in both of them you automatically assume it is the guys fault but if the girl is being called a sult you do not seem to need any further information you just automatically judge the guy
but reverse the genders and now you all of a sudden need more information before you start judgeing the girl
so yes you have a double standard as you are treating to people diffenly based on their gender
as you wait to find out what happend if the girl calls a guy a pussy and then you judge but if a guy called a girl a sult you just bam judge him with out waiting for more information
@grace9876 Sorry, you are just misunderstanding me, maybe it's my fault, either way, bye.
i would never call a girl a slut very sexy pic secret maybe have your underware show a bit
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Im not sure... ill have to think about that a little more 🤔🤔
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