How to deal with weird old men bothering me?

Anonymous
I'm a 19yo female new to this cruel world of harrassment due to being sheltered at home as I grew up. Now that I have moved away to college I am facing so many situations were old men with bad intentions approach me and just won't take "no!" for an answer 😔

Over the past 8 months, men way older than me with grey and white hair would pull over as I'm walking in broad daylight on the footpath and offer me a lift, not taking no for an answer and insisting in a very scary way. They sit next to me when I'm waiting for the bus and strike up a conversation then get angry when I don't reply.
Today, I was sitting on a bench outside the shopping centre, waiting for a friend, and this older guy stood opposite me and just stared at me. When I looked his way he asked me to take my face mask off so he could see my face. I got very scared and said "no I will not!" then he proceeded to say that he doesn't bite, that I'm safe with him and he won't hurt me. He sat beside me on the bench and I got so upset and bolted out of there, immediately calling my friend as I ran away. I dress very modestly so I don't understand why they keep bothering me!

Can women or men who have dealt with this before help me learn to deal with it and prevent it? Thanks in advance.
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