Started dating guy but he said he wanted a break and to stay as friends “for now”? Is he wanting to break-up or get back together? (Page 2)
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Move on. He’s not worth your time. It sounds like he is indecisive about your relationship. Don’t give him the chance or he will lead you on.
He definitely has feelings for his ex that's why he just wants to be friends with you. He's looking to reconnect with her. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this
Nah girl forget about him he just wants to keep you as one of his options
He's insecure. Just go date someone else. He's a waste of time
Then start dating other guys and don't wait for him.
Courtship and dating have been ruined by social media.
He wants to see how thinks go between you too before putting any label to your relationship.
He tried to go somewhere else he wants you to be he’s plan b.
Break up, that's all. There's no break. He either wants to be with you, or he doesn't.
I think this relationship us going down hill and will eventually derail. It may just be best to end it.
Don't worry he'll most likely be back. He just has other gardens to tend to.
Simple he knows your easy, got what he wanted and is done with youn
He seems immature and doesn't know what he wants.
he wants to have his cake and eat it too
then take a break and find another guy to date
Walk away. 100% save yourself any hassle or hurt.
he sounds like a dumbass
Well maybe you might be moving too fast
Sounds like he is looking for an out.
Why do you think that? He goes from taking care of my cold and everything and being very affectionate on FaceTime and saying “I love you” to saying he wants a break for now. And I think it pertains to his ex hitting him up. But he was transparent from the beginning that he long lost feelings for her because she cheated and he just feels bad for not relying to her
You got hot and heavy to quickly. These relationships burn out just as quickly. Add in his ex component and it sounds like you were just a rebound relationship. I suspect that they will get back together in a week or two.
@cchung85999 the term “I love you” belongs to people in a relationship, family or friends. It doesn’t belong to a guy that just met a girl and are in the talking stage/ just barely in the talking stage. You should stay far away from a guy that is quick to say “I love you”
I don’t know what to do
@cchung85999 simply tell him that if his ex is still in the picture, will won’t wait around. Not fair for you to be put on the back burner because he’s not done with his last relationship
Stop rushing through relationship milestones. And stop going after the most interesting guy. Take your time with new relationships and look for guys who have the qualities that you want in a husband. Also you should be prepared for the end of this relationship.
Mostly like he wants to break up