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the gynocentric laws in the US and the westernized culture that women have adopted prevent it in these times. I wouldn't trust almost any woman raised in the western environment to be a mother to my child and stick it out through thick and thin when the government has made them so entitled and thin skinned.
i think people are sold such a romanticized view of what being married/having kids is actually like. Most men i’ve talked to wish they didn’t have kids so i feel like i actually took good advice. I have a niece that i’m godfather too and other friends that have kids so i get my fill on kids. Let me be the fun uncle with no kids and money that still gets to sleep in. 😁😂
Because we don’t want to be tied down. That’s about it. Looking at other men who are paying child support or got royally screwed over in their relationships is a big motivator.
I think, given the state of the world, the maths involved, the trajectories we are on and the self destructive short sightedness of human beings, it would be a tragedy to bring a child into this inevitable car crash and dumpster fire.
For starters I am nowhere near financially or mentally prepared enough for kids.
At the moment I value freedom and indepenence way too much to be anchored down by offspring.
I have stepchildren but no biological children. That doesn't mean I wouldn't have any if I met the right woman.
More responsibilities mean less free time to do what I want to do. And a child is a permanent thing. It's not something you can just quit from when you get tired of it.
Id love to have kids. Just seeing if i can find the right woman. Honestly most women are absolutely terrible people.
Well that’s an interesting way of looking at life…
How so?
That you’ve experienced that most women are terrible. That says more about surroundings and an overall mindset of an individual
Terrible for being moms? Yes. Most women hate kids. A full half of them believe in killing children. Many want only like one kid. Most want to just put the kid in daycare so they dont even have to care for it all day i guess they have more important things to do? None of that is my idea of a woman id ever have a child with. Its disgusting to me.
So I have a few questions:
1. Where are you located in the world
2. You want a stay at home wife? If so, would you be comfortable with her not generating an income and splitting things in half
3. Are you comfortable with her changing drastically physically after the kids arrive?
1. Usa
2. Yes id want a stay at home wife. And ofc im willing to pay all the expenses.
3. If you mean get fat. No. Only people who over eat get fat. But normal pregnancy changes sure.
1. Makes sense. Living here I’ve seen quite a lot of chatter and in some cases encouragement for abortion to take place. Then again the social climate here is drastically different from where I’m from (South Africa)
2. That’s also quite a rarity lately (but then again that might also be my surroundings).
3. Well excess weight gain (depending on the woman’s hormones) can actually make her quite large but with disciplined effort getting to a low weight is achievable but all other markers of pregnancy will most likely stay, regardless of how young she is.
I say expand your options. Perhaps travel.
I have a girlfriend now who is good. Its just so hard to find them.
If you have a girlfriend then why worry about terrible women then? Have a kid with the one you have. That’s if she wants them with you that is. If you’re in a healthy relationship then this entire question doesn’t apply to you, as you plan to have kids. Childfree people are those who plan NOT to have kids.
Your comment said “find the right woman” so you contradicted your last statement
Well we aren't married or having kids yet. I haven't decided if she's the right woman or not yet.
“I have a girlfriend now who is good. Its just so hard to find them”
The first line says otherwise. Sorry I’m just really confused as to where you actually stand. You’re not childfree by the ways as you want them in future. Nothing wrong with that. Just a misunderstanding on your end.
I am child free because i have no children? Thats generally what that would mean.
Childless. Childfree means something completely different. Childless people are people who want kids but cannot have for some reason. Childfree people are people who have made the conscious choice regardless of circumstances to not have children in future. And do NOT want them.
Childless and child free have no distinction by intent. They mean the same thing.
They generally do when discussing the different individuals in the equation. I asked men who do NOT want kids, this is clearly stated. But there’s a misunderstanding on your end, that’s why you answered. Read the rest of the comments on the question. The men who have commented don’t want them. All the best on your journey. The difference in meaning can be found online. The motivation between childless and child free are different so are therefore two different concepts.
In terms of English language to English language speakers they mean the same thing. And so what i dont exactly fit your ideal perfect commenter? Your problem. Ill answer any question i feel like.
I just realized, this is why people ask if others if they find intelligence attractive. I personally find it unattractive because high intelligence typically means they’re an absolute asshole. @Serenatwozero, you’re intelligent, hence... 😂
It’s not a problem. Have a good day Sir, I understand your point but clearly you don’t understand mine as you’re the only person being hot and heavy here over finding no woman to procreate with.
Please read the question as I stated to men why they chose a life without kids and why they will choose that as a future, then there’s you talking about terrible women and actually wanting kids. The rest of the men in the comments got the memo clearly.
Huh so you didn't even read what i wrote yet have a problem with it? That seems pretty dumb.
@Heartache0405 I literally just asked a clear question but there will always be dedicated to argue with someone they don’t know. I’m in a happy relationship about to be married so this doesn’t affect me personally but I’m curious about others. It is what it is.
So quick to throw insults when nobody disrespected you.👍🏽
Thanks, I’m “dumb” and im very happy, something you’re clearly not since all you know is terrible women. Well you attract what you are. Have a lovely day Mr Intelligent childless man
Why does you getting married have anything to do with anything? Glad it makes sense in your head. Anyone reading this is certainly at a loss.
Never had kids because of a few reasons. I would worry too much about them. I have hereditary heart problems. I never met a woman that cares as much about me as I do about her.
My friend simply says he has never felt the need to have kids and 3njoys his life without them