Should I be concerned?

[heybay22]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months.

he's been great overal… but there are a few things that kind of annoy me.

For example… January 22 he went out and got so drunk he hurt his back and his finger.

he couldn’t really move until recently this week so we haven't really had sex or anything just hang out and cuddle.

. valentines day came and he said he doesn't believe in valentines so we didn't celebrate it. he said he would have liked to take me on a date but he hasn't said anything. we just cuddled once again. he also didn't have sex because he was having stomach issues. …the valentines day thing kinda surprised me because he did something amazing for my bday (drew a portrait of me and got me a necklace and cooked me dinner) for Christmas he got me airpods… but for valentines day nothing :( . made me a bit sad tbh. and as for sex i was trying to initiate it yesterday and he says he still had stomach issues so we didn't do anything. i asked him if he still liked me and he told me it wasn't like that we he cuddled me and put my head on his chest and we fell asleep. i woke up to him having his hand on my stomach still cuddled up.

am i asking for too much?
i also know he's stressed af with school. yesterday he was looked so sad and while telling me how much he has to do and how he doesn’t understand two subjects. after the rant we just chilled and watched movies..
what should i do to be more intimate? or should i just let him be?

Updates

+1 y

also another good thing is that he always calls me and stuff to meet so its not just me initiating anything u know…
also he said something odd. on valentines day i wanted to post him and he said not to because he said that their was a saying in his country that when things are going well in someones life its. best not to post about it. he said it in a shyish way lol

[htmndg183]

It is a but concerning in general. You should be concerned about his well being and stomache issues. As far as intimacy goes, perhaps surprise him when trying to initiate it. Something new. Or maybe give yourself some place. Meet after a gap of a few days and who knows, maybe he'll crave more than just being with you ;)

[htmndg183]

Some space* @heybay22 not place lol.

[boggboss]

It just seems u have different views on some parts of the relationship u like valentine day and how frequently u want sex just speak to him about it

[Siren777]

He is stressed out or he may have something going on that he isn't sure if he can tell you. You need to speak to him and tell him how you feel.

[Anonymous]

That last part is somewhat suspicious. The internet hasn't been around long enough for an entire country to have adopted a saying for it.

[heybay22]

no in my country we say the same Lol its common … dont show off whats going good its best to have it closed doors … what do u think about the rest

[Opinion Owner]

I also don't celebrate Valentine's Day; but getting so drunk that you are incapacitated for a month says he has a drinking problem. I guess if it was a saying that was adapted to the internet; that makes more sense.

[heybay22]

he knows that and he was alarmed and he hasn't drank anything hard since

[spartan55]

What did you get him for Valentine's Day?

[LegendaryIcon]

yeah