Do I listen to his words or his actions?

I met this guy at my new job about 6 months ago. We no longer work together now but we still talk every day and see each other often. We became friendly quickly and he asked me for my contact details so we could keep speaking outside of work. He even invited me to hangout with him and his friends after work, and kept offering until I said yes eventually and started getting to know his friends, too. He started being very touchy, leaning into me, touching my hips and lower back when passing by me, hugging me (and no one else) when leaving each night. He is also a gentleman and did things like offering me his jacket and walking me home to the door so I could wear his jacket all the way home. But from the beginning he just wanted to be friends but he also has no real females friends, definitely no close ones, until me. He told me about his girl problems right in the beginning too and would pour his heart out about it to me and ask my advice. He talks to me basically everyday and starts the conversation more than half the time, he calls me and facetious late at night just to talk for hours. We share a lot of interests, and we have loads of inside jokes. He isn't attracted to me though, because I know his type is girls who are tiny, petite and mousey but I'm a tall curvy blonde. He definitely doesn't find me attractive. But he sends me beautiful songs and he never buys anyone presents but bought me a great Christmas gift and got me 3 bunches of flowers for my birthday. Half of me is constantly confused because the way we are feels like more than normal friendship and half of me feels certain that we are just friends and he isn't attracted to me at all
Do I listen to his words or his actions?
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