If guy asked me out weeks ago for a coffee date (we couldn’t meet because of his trip) then reaches out to me but doesn’t reschedule our date. Why?

[Anonymous]

Is he waiting for me to say something about the coffee date? I feel like since he was the one to ask me out for coffee and now that he’s back he should brought it up…
it would show that he really wants to see me and he keeps his promises.

[Curmudgeon]

Isn't that what he meant? Try again?

[Asker]

Sorry I didn’t understand?

[Asker]

He hasn’t talked about the coffee date…

[Curmudgeon]

Well, he is reaching out for a second attempt at a first date. Give him the benefit of the doubt and all that.

[Asker]

What should I do if he doesn’t talk about us meeting? We have talked about how he can walk now etc ( when he asked me out for coffee he told me that he wants to see me as soon as he can walk).

[Curmudgeon]

It would not hurt to ask about it. What is the worst that could happen? He probably is still recovering still and cannot walk yet?

[Asker]

He told me he can walk properly now. There’s little bit of swelling in his ankle but not much…

[In_Trance]

ask him why

[Asker]

I noticed that he followed a new girl that he saw in a party that he attended yesterday. I decided to unfollow him. Did I overreact?

[Asker]

I feel like he’s playing me.

[In_Trance]

Yea he could be

[Asker]

What should I do? Unfollow him?

[In_Trance]

Yeah that's probably a good idea

[Asker]

Really, why?