Do guys like when they can talk to a women about anything and they listen?

[Anonymous]

There’s a guy at my work that told me he didn’t want me to leave because he has “nobody else to talk too” and I absolutely love and enjoy talking to him as well. We sometimes walk down the isles and have long conversations. And when we have an hour break together we talk the entire time. I was wondering if guys find that attractive or if they just see that as just a regular conversation with a friend.

[Purpleronnie]

I couldn’t say it’s true for all males , but I certainly find it a plus when conversation is flowing and nothing is off the menu. Whether that puts women in the partner of girlfriend territory is dependent on other things being there too but I’d say it’s a very important quality. Communication is central to all aspects of a relationship , and feeling you have the freedom to talk about anything and actually being heard is pretty vital to me. So yes , I like it and I think the majority of mature and emotionally intelligent guys would agree !

[Leapfrog00]

He may find you a good listener. If he likes having conversations with you though, pay attention to his body language. There are ways you can tell if a guy likes you. You girls probably aren't supposed to know about these secrets, so what I', about to tell you, shhh! lol

Here's what to look for, if you want to find out if he's interested in you. If his pupils dilate, he's interested in you romantically. If he you catch him looking at you every once in a while, there's another sign.

Sometimes to, if his feet is pointed towards you when he talks to you or his shoulders perk up when he talks to you, that also means he's interested.

Keep an eye out for these signs when you're talking to him. Trust me!

[mynameisLyn]

It can be he is attracted to you or possible he just wants to talk to you like someone else. Attaction can be determine also towards his body language and other actions around you. But with just talking with you, it can be he is comfortable with you and he can say his thoughts out loud to you.

[WriterDreams]

I'd say he might very well be interested in you. It certainly seems he likes your company.

If you wish you may want to try asking him out. See how it goes.

Or you can enjoy the good company you and he have and be friends it's up to you.

Good luck.

[Asker]

Yeah not too long ago he said he’s not looking to date atm because he’s trying to get his own apartment and officially EMT certified. But he basically told me I was pretty while trying to explain a scenario with me

[Asker]

Ty so much for the advise by the way

[FilmGuy93]

How is this a question? The guy told you he enjoys it.

[WriterDreams]

Because men can be complicated without realising it. 😔

[Asker]

Enjoying something doesn’t always mean he’s attracted

[FilmGuy93]

But it does always mean that he has a reason to want to talk with you again, and that's what you're trying to do with dating. You aren't trying to seal the deal right off the bat. How could anyone know if they see a future with someone so quickly? His response is enough to tell you that the door is open for a second meeting, and that's worth it's weight in gold.

[Asker]

Ah that’s understandable, tysm for the response

[FilmGuy93]

Of course =) I'm happy to help!

[Summeroflove]

I think everyone enjoys having someone who you can talk openly too. There is a lot of people that you can’t. So to have special people like that means a LOT.

Whether I find it attractive depends on the woman. But whether it’s a romantic partner or a great friend. It’s great to have someone to talk to. That’s for sure. Who isn’t gonna throw things back in your face, tell people stuff, and the list goes on.

There is few people I really share a lot of stuff with

[juene]

I love it when someone genuinely share his thoughts. I find it really attractive that someone wants to open up to me. I feel like I am a good listener and he enjoys having a conversation with me. But I see to it that I don't misinterpret his actions and assume that he likes me or something. I had one experience before that I really thought the guy likes me but he just wanted me as a friend.

[Justaguyagain]

I think most people like to be heard, i think if he didn't like it, he would just stop talking hoping you stop as well. And i mean real talk, not you asking questions and him just answering, it has to be both ways

[Genie23]

It's not just guys that likes it but girls too when the opposite gender cares to listen and you feel comfortable enough to talk about anything with them. It feels good.

[DaisyM23]

i think anyone would like to talk and be listened to, it's attractive sure but there'd be other factors too

[itsalyssaagain]

I’m sure they do. Especially cause guys are expected (by society) to just get on with things. Must be nice to feel heard for once.

[Jltakk]

I love it if someone genuinely wants to listen to my nonsense. I'm silent 99% of the time but if something I am passionate comes up then I dont shut up, even if I want to.

[Adam1978]

We can't do that. We know you judge us for everything. Especially true early in relationships.

[Asker]

You don’t even know me yet here you are judging me.

[Adam1978]

I don't need to know you, to know what the normal outcome is. You won't get another treatment until you earned it. And in general you never earn that kind of trust unless you grow up together. You need to accept that women has shown to be untrustworthy here, especially the last few generations. It's not about you personally, but unless you all together fix your treatment of men. You won't get trust by default.

[Asker]

That’s no different than a incel woman saying all men are trash. Don’t assume every women is the same and jump to conclusions because you’ve most likely dated bad ones

[Adam1978]

No every human, not woman. Men simply care less what other men are up to. So safer if you actually want talk about stuff.

[najekim]

I enjoy talking to my wife about thing going on but I also known the 80% of the time she has no idea what I'm talking about.

[Sparkie460]

It's always nice to get a woman's point of view on topics. Communication is always good

[Anonymous]

Of course, and when we find that rare woman we are likely to want to keep her.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Sure! Inbetween being interrupted and phone checks :)

[Asker]

Luckily he has all my attention when we talk lol

[CuriousMufuxka]

Awesome! You've got a kickass friend as well :)

[YourExLover69]

Personally I like that

[RingOfFire]

It's attractive.

[Nominal]

O Yes, Absolutely.

[serious]

Yes of course.

[BoopBoopBeep]

No that's hot.

[dudeinohio]

Absolutely

[In_Trance]

this never happens

[Asker]

What? Finding someone who listens attractive?

[WriterDreams]

If you mean listening isn't attractive then you are wrong about never.

I'm living it right now.

Biggest sign mine wants me around is how he says he loves how I talk all the time and how it's fast paced. He even stood up to his toxic mother about it.

If you mean finding someone who listens, or finding a guy interested in a girl for her words not just he looks, or finding someone who listens in general...

I'd say I disagree.

Again I'm living proof it totally can be so.

3am I'm just getting home because my man couldn't let me go and all we were doing was talking and cuddling.

Perhaps your experiences lead you to believe otherwise but it can indeed happen.