Why didn’t he fight for me after I said that?

[Anonymous]

He wanted me first. He wanted my number etc and we talked. I did move away like a few days later but we kept in contact. He says he’s reallly busy with work. He has his own home ect… he might have had a tough childhood and he grew up possibly low income. He depends on himself.

he’s been leaving me on read and at first I was okay but then it just didn’t make sense bc he doesn’t come back… when I get mad he backs away and then tells me he wants to talk things out instead of being angry. … but I still wasn’t cool with it.. that’s not how I want to be loved

I told him to find someone he really wants to be with and I told him I hope he finds her. So he tried to text me the next day and I told him the same thing. “I hope you find what you want” … he never messaged me back.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Why do you think you're worth fighting for? You sound emotionally volatile. ("when I get mad he backs away and then tells me he wants to talk things out instead of being angry")

You told him to find someone else. So he went out to do that. Were you bluffing? If so you deserve what you got.

[Anonymous]

Lol typical, like a lot of women. Talk shit then wonder why men don’t come after them when you told him to move on. He does deserve someone else better than you. You don’t seem like you’re worth fighting for. The fact that you said when you get mad, like that’s a typical thing, is more than enough to turn a man off. Why is he wrong? I don’t get it w women. When men don’t act the same as they do or think the same it’s always the man who’s wrong. One of many reasons why men don’t talk about their feelings because if it doesn’t align w what you think is the right answer in your mind it’s our fault, we’re wrong.

[Anonymous]

Huh? You gave him every reason in the world to think you were done with him and now you wonder why he didn't "fight for you"? My question is, if you wanted him, why did you say all those things? Why didn't YOU fight for HIM? <smh>

[spartan55]

Why would he 'fight for you'? You sound like a high maintenance pain the ass.

[Asker]

I’m not just really insecure

[spartan55]

That's not something that attracts men.

[Pohjolan]

He did you know. Most guys with a self-esteem wouldn't had made you repeat yourself.

But don't worry. There are some creepy stalkers whom won't take no for a answer out in the world.

[Fireguy17]

I'm thinking he is an adult, not into playing games and saw things in you that he didn't care for and moved on.

[L19W5cm]

If a man really wants you, he and his family should come and tell your family immediately. If you give up on this, he will call you. You stay as you are.

[Staximus]

You moved away