Whats your opinion on men who take a lot of time and effort into their appearance? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2023-10-04T23:30:45Z

So I've started dating a male model so I get it, if he doesn't keep up with his appearance he's not getting paid and I'm not complaining either but I never realised how much male models have to do before meeting him. He says its a very competitive industry especially for men as fashion doesn't sell to men like it does with women. He got scouted whilst working as apprentice tailor so he has a keen interest in fashion and hopes with the right connections in the fashion industry once he gets older he can go more into the design industry. The only thing it feels a little defeminizing to myself but he has more beauty products and treatments then me. I've never been to a spa in my life, don't get my nails done, I pay like £12 to get my hair cut and use box dye from superdrug and get my eyebrows down some lady in a corner shop lol. Like I'm a pretty girl but I'm not big on spending that kind of money of superficial things and see it as ridiculous. He got me a gift card for couples spa weekend and it includes stuff like facials and stuff. I didn't know if I should be offended or he was just trying to be nice. I hate being touched by strangers so a spa weekend sounds like hell to me if I'm brutally honest but he says it will be okay and he will be there with me to help me feel comfortable and relaxed. He also gets his body waxed and tanned which I find really strange as most men I've been with before have been super natural and I've loved the hairy chests. He says he doesn't enjoy waxing but it is apart of his job so he has too. I don't get male beauty standards in the fashion industry it feels as if it appeals more to homosexual male more than it does to straight females. Most women I know including myself want Tom Hardy not Joey Essexs. But all in all I like him for who he is not the way he looks obviously I fancy him but he's not my usual type and he do have a laugh and a joke about this kind of stuff