I talk to a guy from another country, he has shown that he is interested in me, but he only contacts me 1 time per week, but when he does so we speak for about 2-3 hours until he is dead sleepy. When we don't talk he says he is busy. Does he actually like me or is he stringing me along?
u Well would you talk to someone you didn't like? Probably not right? I doubt he would take hours per week to talk to you if he didn't like you. Just a question of how he likes you. Being long distance he might really like you but also understand the reality that he can't have a normal relationship with you. Long distance relationships are hard to maintain because people run out of things to talk about and miss that physical connection. As far as how many times he calls he might be busy most of the week and then sets aside a few hours aside to talk to you. That's how I view your situation.
I had a friend like that (from GAG) it was daily to like 2-3 a week. He was totally “into me” (so he acted like) then disappeared. No real excuse or reason for leaving. Be warned. These men just want to get dirty with their words and move on. Unless you have serious plans to meet or moving beyond being keyboard warriors, I’d be very suspicious.
u You are stringing yourself along!
Have you ever met this guy? If there was mutual interest, how often could one of you travel to be with the other? How can you possibly expect a relationship to develop with someone when you can hold hands, kiss, or do any of the other things that couples do? Are you going to be content to see your "boyfriend" for one or two weeks PER YEAR? Why are you not pursuing someone who actually lives near you and is available to actually date every weekend?
That's impossible to guess.
I mean, if he is talking to you as if you are friends then no he isn't stringing you along. If however he is confessing his undying love for you, THEN having nothing to do with you for a week. That would be suspicious!
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Maybe I’m wrong but you’re not the only girl he’s talking to. Pretty much all men crave sex daily. So why would he want a girl who is overseas vs a girl who live in his city, maybe even next door? I sure as hell wouldn’t. But if I’m being honest as a man if I was talking to a girl overseas chances are I’d try to get her to send me nude pics. Butter her up, make her feel special. Tell her how gorgeous she is. Which she may be gorgeous for sure but let’s face e it it’s not like you’re seeing him the next day or something. Maybe he likes the attention. I doubt he’s really interested in you w the intentions of something serious.
Look , I'd go along with it but not take it too seriously..
The big question and it does matter.. What country does he come from? And you of course are in USA , you need to give consideration to all this , plus you are very young , you have many options , he may well care for you , but he's a young guy so he could be banging anything , and if not.. Why not?
Proceed with caution.
One thing about LDRs is that the person can be just looking for a pen pal sort of deal. They could have a girlfriend already, or even be married. How would you know? If he starts asking for nudes you will have your answer. 😯🙄
Could be either. He could just be really busy but once a week is an awfully small amount of time to spend with someone if you really like them. I would not commit to him until he starts spending more time with you.
What are the chances of this moving forward and you two being more than online connections? If the chances are low move on you're living a fantasy that's not real life.
This happens to me sometimes with the girl I'm talking too, we are both busy at certain times and when that's not in the way the sleep schedules are, it's possible the same Is happening here.
Lmaooo Okay?
He lives in another country… he has ho’s in his country … you need ho’s in your country …
You scared to talk to more than one guy?… it’s probably not going to last
If you're hoping for an LDR with that guy, forget it.
Enjoy the fantasy. Ride the wave as long as you can.
He's talking to lots of other women- that's why your convos are only once a week.
I don't know why people water their time with somebody who is far away. Find somebody who can drive over and pick you up in 30 minutes.
After all. You only know so much about each other. If you were to talk more often. There could be a lot of dead air!
he likes you but only for his feelings. not your feelings..
And you know for a fact that he is who he says he is, right?
once a week? except if he has no wifi at all lol that ain't enough sorry, u deserve better
Don’t put all your eggs in one basket
I don’t trust him
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