My ex is too comfortable around me..

[Anonymous]

Well me and my ex broke up for about 4 months now.. he had one girlfriend after 3 months and now single.. we recently started talking a lot and he told me he regret not being with me and wasn't over me. I'm still not over him but already told him nothing between us can ever happen again because I don't want to get hurt again even though I still like him but I know I have to move on, its for the best. But now, his been soooo comfortable around me! it seemed like we were dating.. he talked about what we have done when we were together.. and so I asked "are you so comfortable around me because we've dated?" and he said "maybe..probably because we get along so much and were both the same nash."

anyways back to my question.. I told him I'm going to move on and he respect me so he said yes but I get the feeling his trying to get me back but don't want to at the same time because he promised my mum he can only date me when I'm 18.. I don't know what to do :/

we talked about the future together all of a sudden and yes.. I still love him.

any advice of what to do..?

[Anonymous]

Ok sounds like you both still have feelings for each other but whatever happened to end the relationship was serious which is why your saying it is better to move on. Now if moving on really is the best thing then you have to keep telling yourself that and try not to spend any more time with him until your over it.

But, you have to know for sure that it really is what you need to do. Think about what happened between you two and why it ended, think about why you still have feelings for him. Did he really make you happy? Did he treat you right? Can whatever caused you to break up be fixed? If you say yes to all these questions then you should reconsider the break up because it sounds like you have a chance to be together again. But you have to know what is the right thing. Give yourself some space and think about. It will become clearer to you if he's not around to cloud things up.

[Asker]

Thanks for this, it really helped me alot.. :)