Help. I have lupus, chronic depression, social anxiety, bpd, and everyday anxiety. My parents (mostly my mom) say I’m lazy?

[Anonymous]

I have extreme depression. I’m not talking about the every day depression. I’m talking about can’t even leave my bed depression. Don’t ever ever ever leave the house, have no friends, and do nothing with my life kind of depression. I feel like I’m the only person in the world who feels like this. Also I just recently got diagnosed with lupus. I have three autoimmune diseases, on top of social anxiety and other mental health diagnosis. My mom complains that I’m lazy and do nothing with my life which is true, but I just wish they could feel what I feel for 10 freakin minutes because they don’t understand what the f*** I have to go through. Im crying while writing this because I feel like nobody understands. Does anyone know how anyway I can help myself and make my parents more proud of me?

[lightbulb27]

You have diagnosed issues and they still think you are lazy? I went through bouts of issues that beat me down. Bottom line… you have to take control and responsibility for your health and life. We are all different with different biology emotional makeup and traumas. Your body is inflamed and it shows in your mind and burnout. You need to reverse the damage and heal body mind soul. Best way is to get informed on health… not doctors… read outside the medical system. Food is likely your cure and poison. Food allergies cause a lot of problems so eating only what heals you helps. Naturopaths might be helpful for getting glandulars if you have adrenal fatigue. Guided imagery meditation is the most powerful healing tool. Takes time to restore health once you remove what is poisoning you… cleanup the emotional and heal the body. Then you get your life and energy back. You will have to learn by some trial and error but motivation will get you to better place.
This is reality for quite a few people in this heavily polluted world.

[glennos89]

Your not the only one that is depressed at the moment. Actually I think a extreme amount of people are depressed these days and it's all because of the things that are programmed into society ( especially social media ) that is giving us the feeling that everyone seems to have a perfect happy life and you don't. But that's all fake because people pretend to be perfect on social media picturing everything in the best way possible but the reality is nothing like that at all!

Depression is a difficult thing to go through but I do recommend you strongly to become more active in life, go out for a walk, hang out with friends and give more focus on being active instead of lazy. I know from exprience that being lazy it's keeping you depressed because it sucks all the fun out of your life! Thrust me on it and try to overcome being lazy all day long!

[EmmaMary]

Which one of these two questions is true (that's if either really are) this one, or this one:

My parents are charging me rent. Is this fair?

[Asker]

Huh?

[EmmaMary]

In this question you say you never, ever leave the house etc. etc.

Yet in the link question you posted just an hour or so ago, you state that you work and have a car etc. etc.

Just how can both of these be correct?

Oh, and then you mention about a boyfriend in yet another question!

[Asker]

I don’t ever leave the house, only to work. That is the only time I leave the house.

[midnightmoon05]

That’s one source that contribute to your above question.

My daughter was in this state 3 years ago… I decided to do something about it… it’s hard but I see the confidence being build and she reaches out to her friends…
The sad part… these friends sound like in the same situation…
They stay home and doesn’t do
Much or have much going on with their life aside from social media… she can’t even get a play date with them… a lot has to do with their mothers… won’t even let me go pick her up

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[MORPHEUS_12]

I bet you have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome instead of lupus.

[TheMajesticKing777]

study something you are passionate about at home, I actually learned car mechanics on my own, no school no nothing, you are stuck in the depression because you feel like you can't do anything, don't get trapped in that cycle because you can do everything others can with the proper commitment and time, you clearly got time so find something you'd enjoy and chase it, you give me vibes of an artist I feel like you should express your emotions through art, grab a pencil and paper and let your imagination create an image.

[TonyV]

So you're going to claim no one is as depressed as you? You are the most depressed person in the world? Everyone has it so easy compared to you that their issues mean nothing?
Your victim mentality is off the charts. Wake up call your depression is not "so much worse" then everyone else's.
What even happened to you? What horrible thing happened to you that hasn't happened to anyone else ever?

[Asker]

I’m not saying nobody has it as bad. I’m saying I feel like I’m the only one that has it this bad. I’m exaggerating because it’s extremely bad. I know others have it as well.

[Slim57]

Well I can definitely tell you, you're not the only one who feels this way or has ever, and you're nowhere near as bad off as a lot of other people, I wake up everyday wishing I didn't because I hate how life and society is and growing old seems like a curse to me because all it means is I'll just see friends and family pass away while I become frail and eventually pass away myself. Harsh reality and sorry for the bluntness but yeah I know mostly how you feel, I don't even know what disorders I have and it really doesn't matter, I just deal with it, it sucks but it is what it is

[Canada2]

I get it. My good friend also suffers. But he is being treated and to be honest when we get him out with us he loves it. Has the best time. The trouble is getting him out. But since he is seeking treatment he is getting better

[Asker]

Thankyou 😊

[ausfreak11]

does your mum suffer from any auto immune diseases? I suffer from one called ankylosing spondylitis which made me pretty immobile. now that I take medication to manage it I'm basically in remission. your auto immune diseases would 100% be contributing to your depression. sending love and hope you get better and manage it

[ohshee]

Yes dm me please there are a few thinks you can do if you start doing now every day it will make your life better for the future

[jcampbell115]

I'm around if you need to talk about anything, I've gone through some of these

[Nahid1707]

You aren’t Lazy.

[flirtatiousgirl]

Oh. I also have okb