pretty straight forward question, we were watching Mamma Mia last night and I am wondering if he was asking this question to create small banter between us or do guys ask questions like this to gauge what you want in a wedding? not that it matters because he won't be paying for it, I chalked it up to typically you ask a similar questions like "do you want to get married one day?" to gauge the person's answer and to see if it matches what you want and your expectations align, Guys/Men I would appreciate the feedback.
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update he is my boyfriend of almost a year
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Is this guy relatively inexperienced in dating?
I think it is safe to say, yes.
To me, this suggests that he is eager to find a long term partner but trying to "test" you in a way that he thinks would not scare you away too quickly.
knowing him and his personality I would say this rings true, if he only knew it would not scare me away in the slightest. long term that is what I am hoping for also, maybe not so eager though. as years go on I realize the importance of taking your time in a relationship.
The kindest thing you could do for him is to tell him, "I'm hoping to find a lifetime partner, too, but I just want to go slow enough to not make a stupid mistake."
Mm it depends on the person, but I think he may just want to know what your vision is of that big moment, if there's any dream or appeal you may have.
I've talked/fantasized of marriage preferences, even before being official with someone. It really varies per person, but I don't think it's some mindgame question, or about money or anything. He could genuinely just be curious, and that doesn't have to be a bad thing
If he’s your boyfriend or fiancée, it’s serious. If not, small talk
He is my boyfriend of almost a year
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