Name something You should Have Handled Differently?

[Paris13]

**For Me, My Breakup with my EX of Four Years Tomorrow. xx

[Leapfrog00]

I never told anyone this story. About fears years ago, a deputy pulled me over and told me I looked drunk and called in a state patrolman, and they took me to this state patrol building. there was no one else there. Just those two. One of them said, "You know you like dick. You know you wanna get us off." They took turns making me give them blowjobs and then made me strip naked in the middle of it.

Then they felt me up and nibble on my ear, and kept feeling me up After they took turns cumming on my face and different parts of my body, I felt disgusted. They were getting ready to rape me, but got a call to go somewhere.

Then to make sure I didn't tell anyone, they told me they were taking my license and were going to hold it for their "Insurance" and told me no one would believe me because they're the law. I had to have someone pick me up, and that person thought I was in some kind of accident because my hair was messed up and I was shaking. When I got home, I showered for 2 hours. I felt dirty and thought I could still smell their cum on me.

Sometimes I wish I would have told someone, maybe someone would have listened. I went through so much abuse with my parents and my aunt, I thought maybe I'm doing something to deserve all of this.
If I could go back, I wouldn't have driven anywhere that night.

[Paris13]

We all Learn the Hard Way... xx

[lightbulb27]

we were in new orleans and I saw a young woman at a distance sitting by the grocery store asking for food. She looked down. I ignored her and kept going. Later that day we were waiting in line for restaurant outside and she walked up to me and asked for a dollar, she looked "up beat". I ignored her as I was in conversation, and she went to the next person.
I felt bad I ignored her and felt I failed (Christ and myself)... to make a difference in someones life. She may have been an addict, which was my thought, but so what? I ignored a baby bird's plea for help earlier that year... the bird died soon later.
I could have said something that make a difference or give a dollar. Isn't it better someone ask and move on than someone threaten and rob and steal? The powerless in this world get no help, which is why Christ came in the first place.
I want to respond such that I make a positive engagement with the person. I've done that before and it feels much better to give, in some way, encouragement at least. My goal is to practice this more this year.
Paul the Apstole wrote about that..."though I know the right thing to do, I do the wrong thing".
I feel more value in my life when I'm making a positive difference in lives and need to live true to that.

[Paris13]

I loved This. Jesus said in the Bible,"When you do Something for Someone, You DO IT in My Name and for Me." Something like That. God Bless. xxoo

[lightbulb27]

I undestand it and He's right, but in this case, I slapped him in the face with my cold heart. He also said... New light bulb translation...". if you screw up too much, when ya come to meet me, I'll say... get away from me, I never knew you". That puts some fear in me and besides, I know better. Sad about it, but have ideas to do better.
good Q!

[Genie23]

I would have changed the way I dealt with the guy friend who was in love with me when I was 16. I was very shy and nervous. Didn't have a relationship. He expressed his feelings at around the time my mum was very sick for a long time and I quit college for some time (my parents sent me to school at a very young age that's why I graduated and went to college at the age of 15) and I didn't know how to deal with it. I was very sad and frustrated. So, I distanced myself from everyone including him. I feel bad to this day. I wish I had Facebook or something back then added him. I would have apologised at least after I came back to my senses... 🙁

[Paris13]

Was Not meant to Be, sweetheart. xx

[Genie23]

You're absolutely right. It isn't. It's just that I felt guilty but then again I didn't do anything intentionally. So, I should let go 😌 xxoo

[FreyaRed]

There are few small things I would handle differently with my knowledge of today, but past is already behind on the river of the fate and no one can row back.

[Paris13]

I Like This. Especially Today for ME. xxoo

[OlderAndWiser]

My last breakup. I failed to follow my own advice and later regretted it!

[Paris13]

But LOOK NOW what YOU HAVE, sir!!! xx

[TooHot2Care]

A girl I dated when the pandemic first started cancelled on me on the first date and scrambled to make up for it.

After she got comfortable she cancelled on me again.

I should have talked to her or told her that I don’t like being disrespected like that.

Instead I went nuclear and cut her out 100%.

Oh, I also comitted an international crime that I thought was a prank and said prank spiraled WAY out of my control and in my defense? I did NOTHING wrong. The point is my actions provoked a race war in Budapest that resulted in the genocide of at least 1 million people.

[Paris13]

Those are Just Memories. Move On. xx

[TooHot2Care]

That’s what I keep telling these families and children that grew up as a result of my prank, but they won’t stop showing up at my door and demanding my head.

[Anonymous]

Taking care of my mental health sooner. Long story short, I hit rock bottom about three years ago and Baker Acted* myself. Although I got the help I so desperately needed, I should’ve gotten it months before that. However, when you’re surrounded by people who don’t take your mental health concerns seriously (🙄), it’s harder to reach out for help.


(*For those outside of the the US, Baker Act is when a person voluntarily commits himself or herself to a mental hospital. It’s usually for 72 hours).

[Paris13]

Better than Never Have Done it. Congrats, sweetheart. xx

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you. ❤️

[art84]

Probably asked out a girl who had a crush on me at my old church. She showed all of the signs like tapping me on the shoulder, smiling at me, and always looking for me in church Though I was scared of getting rejected as I had a crush on another girl at 19 and she. wasn't available. We were both in our mid 20's and I always wondered she liked me more than friend. Who knows if I would have married her or even gotten a date with her. Only thing is she seemed like a flirt and would flirt with other guys at my church while holding hands and smiling.

[Paris13]

Not in God's Plan. xx

[art84]

Yeah it wasn't in God's plan. Plus I had left that church about 19 years ago.

[DizzyDesii]

Probably the way i sabotage my way out of relationships that I no longer want to be in. I like to say stuff to make them hate me or whatever to make them breakup with me because then its easier for me to move on.

[Paris13]

Like Me Today, girl.. Would Have Been 4 Years with my EX... I vented so Much After I Broke it Off to make the pain just Go away. My own Closure. xx

[DizzyDesii]

As long as you get it :)

[19magic]

Honestly any change I could have made, would have meant my daughter wouldn't be born right now. Had I done any of the dozen things that I've accepted as my past but feel a little bad about, I wouldn't have her and the life I'm currently living to give her the best start I can give her.

[Paris13]

Beautiful, magic. xx

[TrueConfection]

I rescued a dog and I should have passed on that opportunity. My husband lives the dog, but the dog has a screw loose and its created tension in our family, we can't have company, we can't go away because we can't board him or ask anyone to look after him, he ruined my grass and flower beds, and I have to gate off almost every room. I strongly dislike this dog and I think taking him home was the worst decision I ever made in my life.

[TrueConfection]

Corrections (partially because the tiny gag comment window only allows me to see one partial line at a time);
*my husband loves the dog
*it's created tension

[Paris13]

Sad to Say, man's Best Friend, sweetheart. xx

[exitseven]

I was told by my boss that I had to take over a different department because it was very visible and was causing a lot of problems. I knew nothing about how to run this but I wanted to be a good team player so I went along with it. I should have just looked out for myself.

[Paris13]

Good man. xx

[exitseven]

But a stupid one. The position was eliminated and I was laid off.

[Anonymous]

My ex who is also the father of my daughter. Maybe if I had backed off and didn't keep being a bitch and nagging him. Maybe he would have stuck around and been in our daughter's life and maybe he might have also been there at the birth.

Also hired a photographer to capture my daughter's birth.

[Paris13]

All was In God's Hands. xx

[OfMiceandMen]

I had the opportunity to take a federal job on the east coast to be a Policy Advisor regarding endangered and threatened species. It may have involved moving, but it would have been a really interesting job and could have lived on the ocean.

[Paris13]

I would Loved That!!! xx

[OfMiceandMen]

I did not take the job, because it was close to my wife passing away and could not do that to my daughter. She needed stability.

[Paris13]

I see. I am So Sorry your Wife passed on. xx

[menina]

I should have gone to a different school when I moved. If I did, my life would have been quiet different now.

[menina]

* quite

[Jamie05rhs]

@menina How so?

[menina]

@Jamie05rhs I would have gone to college earlier, also graduated earlier and I wouldn't be living where I'm living now.

[menina]

I would be in a better country.

[Jamie05rhs]

@menina Oh- you mean you shouldn't have moved at all. Right?

[menina]

@Jamie05rhs I shouldn't move to another country. But since I did, I should gone to a different school, that's what I meant.

[Jamie05rhs]

@menina Oh. That's what I meant as well. So what was wrong with the school that you went to?

[menina]

@Jamie05rhs It was far away from "home" and I had to stay there for another year because I failed a class.

[Jamie05rhs]

@menina Oh.

[menina]

@Jamie05rhs Yeah, it's crazy how a small change can affect your whole life.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yeah. That's true!

[Paris13]

Not Meant to Be, menina. xx

[menina]

But it should be Paris, it should be. My life would be so much better.

[Jamie05rhs]

@menina I know how you feel. My life could have been so much different if I had been able to go to college, period.

[menina]

@Jamie05rhs I understand you, I really do. That can make a huge difference in some people's lives.

[Jamie05rhs]

@menina Thank you. 🧡

[menina]

@Jamie05rhs You're welcome. ❤

[Gent207-2]

Breakup with an ex
The only loose thread in life that is driving me crazy because we are not on speaking terms.

[Paris13]

Min is On andO FF and even Today, He disappeared on What Would have been Four Years. I had Broken it Off. Wonder if he is Mourning... xx

[Anonymous]

Sleeping with my older cousin. The first time he pulled over when leaving me home and told me that I could either give him a bj or walk I should have just walked even if it was in the middle of nowhere raining snd my phone was broke

[Anemone978]

You should of said no drive me home or im telling your parents..

[Opinion Owner]

@Anemone978 I should have for sure but I was young.

[Anemone978]

You should still tell his parents..
He deserves it he's an asshole..

[Opinion Owner]

@Anemone978 I don't want anyone finding out, I'd never live it down. Especially as we ended up making it a regular thing and going further.

[Paris13]

I once Had a Relationship with My Third Cousin as a Teen. But Then Again. Elinor Roosevelt Had Married her Second cousin, Franklin. xx

[Opinion Owner]

Same great grandparents?

[Ms_Facesitter]

My morning, I was supposed to get up an hour earlier, but I didn't and now I skipped breakfast again.

[Paris13]

Oooops!!! xx

[Massageman]

There isn't enough time left in my lifetime to even hit the high spots. Senior prom was a disaster of special note.

[Paris13]

Yikes!!! Mine was Kinda Crazy too. lolxx

[Babygirl_S]

Recently, a guy told me that I should get raped and it enraged me so I blocked him. I feel like I could have handled it differently.

[Paris13]

No, You did RIGHT!!! xx

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I should have not called my love ‘Sister.’ After I called Her ‘Sister,’ She won’t date me, after I fell in love with Her.

[Paris13]

Time To Move On... xx

[HippieVeganJewslim]

That’s what She said. I hope She’ll change Her mind.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

The only people who don’t change their minds are dead people and fools. Dead people can’t and fools won’t.

[VikingWarLord]

I should've sold at the top of the crypto market instead of holding like a dummmy

[Paris13]

Ahhh, Now The Problem as of NOW with Our Debt Ceiling Deal... xx

[Jamie05rhs]

How would you have handled it differently, Paris? :)

[Paris13]

@Jamie05rhs SLOWER... He is Resentful even Today... xx

[Jamie05rhs]

@Paris13 You would have broken up with him more slowly? Or you would have considered the decision more slowly and carefully?

[WriterDreams]

My partner. 😂

Lesson lernt.

[Paris13]

Welcome to Gag Town and Best of Luck. xx