Name something You should Have Handled Differently?

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**For Me, My Breakup with my EX of Four Years Tomorrow. xx

Leapfrog00 · Accepted Answer

I never told anyone this story. About fears years ago, a deputy pulled me over and told me I looked drunk and called in a state patrolman, and they took me to this state patrol building. there was no one else there. Just those two. One of them said, "You know you like dick. You know you wanna get us off." They took turns making me give them blowjobs and then made me strip naked in the middle of it.

Then they felt me up and nibble on my ear, and kept feeling me up After they took turns cumming on my face and different parts of my body, I felt disgusted. They were getting ready to rape me, but got a call to go somewhere.

Then to make sure I didn't tell anyone, they told me they were taking my license and were going to hold it for their "Insurance" and told me no one would believe me because they're the law. I had to have someone pick me up, and that person thought I was in some kind of accident because my hair was messed up and I was shaking. When I got home, I showered for 2 hours. I felt dirty and thought I could still smell their cum on me.

Sometimes I wish I would have told someone, maybe someone would have listened. I went through so much abuse with my parents and my aunt, I thought maybe I'm doing something to deserve all of this.
If I could go back, I wouldn't have driven anywhere that night.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

we were in new orleans and I saw a young woman at a distance sitting by the grocery store asking for food. She looked down. I ignored her and kept going. Later that day we were waiting in line for restaurant outside and she walked up to me and asked for a dollar, she looked "up beat". I ignored her as I was in conversation, and she went to the next person.
I felt bad I ignored her and felt I failed (Christ and myself)... to make a difference in someones life. She may have been an addict, which was my thought, but so what? I ignored a baby bird's plea for help earlier that year... the bird died soon later.
I could have said something that make a difference or give a dollar. Isn't it better someone ask and move on than someone threaten and rob and steal? The powerless in this world get no help, which is why Christ came in the first place.
I want to respond such that I make a positive engagement with the person. I've done that before and it feels much better to give, in some way, encouragement at least. My goal is to practice this more this year.
Paul the Apstole wrote about that..."though I know the right thing to do, I do the wrong thing".
I feel more value in my life when I'm making a positive difference in lives and need to live true to that.

Genie23 · Accepted Answer

I would have changed the way I dealt with the guy friend who was in love with me when I was 16. I was very shy and nervous. Didn't have a relationship. He expressed his feelings at around the time my mum was very sick for a long time and I quit college for some time (my parents sent me to school at a very young age that's why I graduated and went to college at the age of 15) and I didn't know how to deal with it. I was very sad and frustrated. So, I distanced myself from everyone including him. I feel bad to this day. I wish I had Facebook or something back then added him. I would have apologised at least after I came back to my senses... 🙁

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

There are few small things I would handle differently with my knowledge of today, but past is already behind on the river of the fate and no one can row back.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

My last breakup. I failed to follow my own advice and later regretted it!

TooHot2Care · Answer

A girl I dated when the pandemic first started cancelled on me on the first date and scrambled to make up for it.

After she got comfortable she cancelled on me again.

I should have talked to her or told her that I don’t like being disrespected like that.

Instead I went nuclear and cut her out 100%.

Oh, I also comitted an international crime that I thought was a prank and said prank spiraled WAY out of my control and in my defense? I did NOTHING wrong. The point is my actions provoked a race war in Budapest that resulted in the genocide of at least 1 million people.

art84 · Answer

Probably asked out a girl who had a crush on me at my old church. She showed all of the signs like tapping me on the shoulder, smiling at me, and always looking for me in church Though I was scared of getting rejected as I had a crush on another girl at 19 and she. wasn't available. We were both in our mid 20's and I always wondered she liked me more than friend. Who knows if I would have married her or even gotten a date with her. Only thing is she seemed like a flirt and would flirt with other guys at my church while holding hands and smiling.

Anonymous · Answer

Taking care of my mental health sooner. Long story short, I hit rock bottom about three years ago and Baker Acted* myself. Although I got the help I so desperately needed, I should’ve gotten it months before that. However, when you’re surrounded by people who don’t take your mental health concerns seriously (🙄), it’s harder to reach out for help.

(*For those outside of the the US, Baker Act is when a person voluntarily commits himself or herself to a mental hospital. It’s usually for 72 hours).

DizzyDesii · Answer

Probably the way i sabotage my way out of relationships that I no longer want to be in. I like to say stuff to make them hate me or whatever to make them breakup with me because then its easier for me to move on.

19magic · Answer

Honestly any change I could have made, would have meant my daughter wouldn't be born right now. Had I done any of the dozen things that I've accepted as my past but feel a little bad about, I wouldn't have her and the life I'm currently living to give her the best start I can give her.

TrueConfection · Answer

I rescued a dog and I should have passed on that opportunity. My husband lives the dog, but the dog has a screw loose and its created tension in our family, we can't have company, we can't go away because we can't board him or ask anyone to look after him, he ruined my grass and flower beds, and I have to gate off almost every room. I strongly dislike this dog and I think taking him home was the worst decision I ever made in my life.

exitseven · Answer

I was told by my boss that I had to take over a different department because it was very visible and was causing a lot of problems. I knew nothing about how to run this but I wanted to be a good team player so I went along with it. I should have just looked out for myself.

Anonymous · Answer

My ex who is also the father of my daughter. Maybe if I had backed off and didn't keep being a bitch and nagging him. Maybe he would have stuck around and been in our daughter's life and maybe he might have also been there at the birth.

Also hired a photographer to capture my daughter's birth.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I had the opportunity to take a federal job on the east coast to be a Policy Advisor regarding endangered and threatened species. It may have involved moving, but it would have been a really interesting job and could have lived on the ocean.

menina · Answer

I should have gone to a different school when I moved. If I did, my life would have been quiet different now.

Gent207-2 · Answer

Breakup with an ex The only loose thread in life that is driving me crazy because we are not on speaking terms.

Anonymous · Answer

Sleeping with my older cousin. The first time he pulled over when leaving me home and told me that I could either give him a bj or walk I should have just walked even if it was in the middle of nowhere raining snd my phone was broke

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

My morning, I was supposed to get up an hour earlier, but I didn't and now I skipped breakfast again.

Massageman · Answer

There isn't enough time left in my lifetime to even hit the high spots. Senior prom was a disaster of special note.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Recently, a guy told me that I should get raped and it enraged me so I blocked him. I feel like I could have handled it differently.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

I should have not called my love ‘Sister.’ After I called Her ‘Sister,’ She won’t date me, after I fell in love with Her.

VikingWarLord · Answer

I should've sold at the top of the crypto market instead of holding like a dummmy

Jamie05rhs · Answer

How would you have handled it differently, Paris? :)

WriterDreams · Answer

My partner. 😂  Lesson lernt.

Sixgunsound · Answer

Not being such a fuckboy in college.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

My second life in Sweden and education/career.

Anemone978 · Answer

Should of never got married..

OddBeMe · Answer

Bought bitcoin at a penny

msc545 · Answer

I should never have gotten married

nawtee_me · Answer

What would you have done differently?

Pterodon · Answer

I should’ve stayed in the Navy

Roula2000 · Answer

How I handled my coming out.

humanearth · Answer

My life

Likes2drive · Answer

Probably my marriage

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I should've handled my family differently

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