Okie so i read this and i read your other answers to people and all i can say is
1. Being under 18 your a minor so i hope you haven't had sex yet or if you have that you haven't told anyone you have because it's illegal for someone 18 or over to sleep with someone under 18, so be careful.
2. He's definitely too old to be sleeping in his mums bed for sure, he should of grown out of it, however it's nice how he loves his mother and that she makes him love her so much, not many parents are too nice these days. I do however think that once your 18 and you do start sleeping in the same bed he might grow out of it and start to love sleeping with you instead.
3. He does sound possesive though, it's not right for him to tell you not to have any guy friends yet he's aloud to have girls as friends? this is quite the 1 sided thing to do and you should tell him you can have guy friends if you want to, if he starts getting super jealous and possesive you need to tell him to not behave this way, so you need to talk to him about that and how he isn't being fiar on that.
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1) the fact that you are asking this question shows that you believe at some level that it is not normal. But you want someone to tell you that it is because you love him. follow your instincts girl.
2) no. It is definitely not normal. My dad is the biggest mommas boy around. so is my best friend. Neither sleep with their mothers. Its normal at 8 years. Not 23. Especially the feeling in heaven part? Definitely not normal.
3) what the hell? He does not want you to talk to other guys? Not even your brother? But he can regularly meet other girls?
Sweetheart I'm sorry to say this but this guy is definitely not someone you should stay with. he is cutting you off from having real friendships ( not that girl - girl friendships are not real , but still.) Anyone who tries to do that is very insecure and if you allow them to do it , they will slowly start blaming all their problems on you and will take out their anger on you. You deserve so much better.
4) he's 23 and you are 16? What? That's nott just illegal its also very suspicious.
When a child becomes an adult, they are suppose to leave their Mama bird's nest so they can start a life and a family of their own. If a guy is still dependent of the nest then he can never create his own birds nest.
I would stay away from guys like that. They never know how to take care of themselves and expect someone else to take care of them.
How old is your boyfriend? How old are you? I noticed you said that he is muslim and pakistani. People from different cultures have different norms. Here in the USA it is not normal for a child to sleep with his mother if he is older than 8 years old and 8 years old is pushing the limit. I say 8 years old because Every once in a while a child may feel scared and have a scary dream so they run to their parents room to sleep however parents typically do not encourage the behavior of sleeping in bed with parents after the age of 3. Sometimes the 3 year old will sleep with the parent but parents are typically trying to get the child to sleep in his own bed by that age.
He is overly attached to his mom, and she with him. It is just not normal; I question his mom that she allows it. This can be a sign of serious mental issues for both of them.
He is also controlling and possessive. He can have lots of friends that are girls but thinks you should not be permitted to have friends that are boys. Again, not normal and sadly this thought process tends to lead to abusive relationships.
I know you aren't 99, lol. Is this your first boyfriend? Seems odd that you allow him to treat you this way if not.
My advice is get out. There are too many red flags warning of the dangers in pursuing this any more.
at 23 I would definitely say its not normal. fuck d00d I stopped sleeping in my parent's bed when I was like 8 or less can't remember that long ago but I was small as shit. he's just a mommas boy still.
Seems legit. Especially coming from a profile that was just created and with a user age of 99 years old.
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Yeah he is way too old to sleep in bed with his mother
hell he is old enough to get erections in bed with her
hey this stuff does happen eww and he won't tell you
but you need to tell him I'm not coming between you and
your mother but your way too old and it does seem creepy.He is Mommies boy. A bit mentally underdeveloped. Best way, if you spent time with his mom and he will like you too, then his brain will trigger and he might sleep with you.
But LET ME WARN YOU HE IS A PSYCHO AND WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE, IF YOU WANT TO WASTE YOUR LIFE BEHIND AN IDIOT, I CAN NOT STOP YOU BUT TAKE PRECAUTIONS LIKE LEARN MORE OF SELF DEFENDING TECHNIQUE BUT HE SHOULD NOT COMES TO KNOWS ABOUT IT. (HE TOLD YOU NOT TO MAKE FRIEND - 'WHAT IF SOME DAY HE, CAPTURES YOU AND SEXUALLY ASSULTS YOU, AND THEN PLANS TO KILL YOU AND BURY YOU, AND YOU HAVE NO OTHER GUY BEST FRIEND TO COMES TO HELP, OR SEARCH FOR YOU OR TALK TO COPS THAT YOU HAVE GONE MISSING) IT MIGHT BE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF YOUR LIFE. Never be with a boy who says you to cut contact from those people who are your friends and not his friends. There are always 2 sides of every coin. There is no angle in this world. Never trust a guy 100%. World if full of psychos (dangerous like your mommas boy)That is royally fucked up...
Also, the whole "no other guy in your life but me" thing is fucked up too. And why does he want you to have beautiful girlfriends?
Something is SERIOUSLY wrong with this guy... GTFO!By sleep you meant , just sleeping on the same bed or making love? 0_o
He is not at all right!!! I mean mama's boy is something , but this is extreme.
What!!! He restricts you from talking to other male friends , even your brother. Thats insane. I mean thats really small thinking and he is reallly damn insecure about himself.
I strongly recommend you to change your relationship , you seriously deserve some 1 better.This is a perfect example of everything that is completely... abnormal. It's fine when you're little but 23!!!
I Think this guy will eventually murder you at some point in time...
That's not normal.
Regardless how much you love your parent you don't sleep with them. I adore my dad, I don't sleep with him.
I sleep with my boyfriend and I sleep with my cat. Those are the only men I sleep with.
It's regardless of religion, religion is something someone else dictates. Nowhere in Muslim religion does it say you must sleep with your mother.That's creepy as hell! I would run far far away from any guy who did that just no no no no. This picture explains my face expression when reading this. https://i.imgur.com/sTJs5H9.gif
Could just be a big mammas boy and be immature. Its a little odd.
But, i mean im an adult , if im at my mom's, we tend to watch tv in her room so I'll just fall asleep there.No that's not normal and it sounds like he's a moma's boy.
I'd say nope. It's definitely not normal. No judge I am muslim but my brothers never slept with my mom nor did anyone in my family. He might have some issues or maybe it's something they do in his family cause momma boys don't usually do that but yeah if anyone else in his family doea that then it must be a tradition for them
f*&k, my ex was indian too. I call that guy lesbian. He is such a mama boy and hiding behind women. When he is with his ex- girl friend, he is all of sudden act like a boy. He is girly and I call him lesbian. all indian guys are lesbians.
I think the last time I slept in my parent's bed, I was three or four years old...
It doesn't matter how much I love the guy, I'd run for the hills. He should probably seek a psychologist to delve into why exactly he feels that this is a healthy behavior for a grown man to engage in.
There is nothing to prevent him from loving his mother
There is nothing to prevent him from having sex with her
If you love him, help him and accept it, you will find pleasure in it
She may be a single mother and wants a man in her life
Love him, love his mother, and have sex together, there is nothing to prevent thatHe is overly attached to his mother. That is not good.
And there is no relation with Islam and sleeping with a mum. How can be >.< lolNo, it's weird and strange and icky.
I feel like he is a adult now, he should be sleeping on his own.. who is he going to sleep with when you get married to him? He needs to get his own room.
He need to grow up. I use to lay on my mother even as I was grown and sleep cuz I loved her but I don't know anybody who sleeps beside theirs and say it's heaven. All I gotta say to you is don't be no dummy girl 👧
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