Would you dump your boyfriend if he made out with another girl?

[Anonymous]

you and him have been together for almost a year.

And guys if you want to answer this, would you dump your gf if she made out with another dude?

Yes. Immediately.

Maybe/depends (explain)

No. I'd stay

[merrysparkle]

Communication is key. If he is honest about his unfaithfulness, that's a good start. If I happen to find out and he lies about it to my face, I would have to end the relationship. Relationships are built on trust. Without it, I would be unhappy, constantly worrying myself with whether he's of smooching some other chick. In the case that he is honest, I would still be hurt and would need time to trust him again, but would be willing to give him another chance and improve our communication. If I love a person, I wouldn't throw them out on the first offense. We're all human, we all have flaws, and we all make mistakes.

[Minamay]

A! I'm marked. My dad cheated on my mom so often that there's no longer counting ability.
Every sort of cheating is the worst thing that can happen to a relationship... So yes I would dump him immediately. I would probably be crushed but dumping would be the only possibility. Men who are not capable to keep their hands, mouths and cocks to themselves are not worthy of a girlfriend. That's just it.

[rubylove33]

After voting maybe/depends I sort of regret my decision. I absolutely do not stand for cheating.. I have been in this situation before and I immediately dumped his ass. BUT, I think it does depend on the person and the situation. And I cannot say I would make the same decision because I do not know, and I do believe sometimes people deserve a second chance.

[SatoMori]

there isn't a fucking depends if he made out with another girl unless he is being raped or completely kissed against his will it was all him an i dont stand for that shit. i have a brother who tells me 90% of the time men will come up with stories for shit be for it happens so don't think all because the story sounds legit that it actually is.

[Asker]

What do you mean by the last sentence?

[SatoMori]

i meant even if the lie sounds really really real and true its prob been played out enough to the point to where he says it like its the truth

[Anonymous]

Alright if I was a girl, id dump my boyfriend if he made out with another girl. It would depends on the circumstances but I would say he should at least be in a lot of trouble. As a guy, if I had a girlfriend that did that than yeah I probably would dump her. Then again it would depend how much it pissed me off. There's girls out there who have a huge double standard tho. For some women, giving a blowjob to another guy isn't cheating. Yet if her boyfriend does as little as to flirt with another girl, its cheating. Face it people, cheating is cheating.

[p0rtis26]

The obvious answer is going to be yes, but many girls have not been in a situation where they are deeply in love with the guy. So, I would question if put in that actual situation just kissing would 80% of GAG women dump their boyfriends. (just a thought)

[Genie23]

Yes, immediately. Would never want to see his face again

[Prettygurl12]

Absolutely instantly. There are no words on this Earth in any language he could string together that would convince me to forgive him and let him stay. His ass would be on the curb immediately.

[LilWeezey]

if it was done without my knowledge... immediately...
but if i knew it was happening like i saw it or something... depends

if i felt he liked it too much or something...

i have a lot of friends who are poly and their ways are starting to rub off on me i think... lol

[musicbrain5]

Yeah, I would. He shouldn't be making out with other girls. That's cheating to me!

[JackKerouac77]

But what if that girl turned out to be a robot?

[Itssokiki]

IMMEDIATELY!! Absolutely! If not I feel like he would continue to do even more than just making out. I don't get the point of cheating! If you don't wanna be with the person just break up

[romaswift_]

I want to say
absolutely I would dump him there and then.
But putting myself in that situation I would love him so much.
It would be so hard - but I think I'm the end I would dump him.

[Anonymous]

If I did something make my man look for someone to take care of his needs then I would take some responsibility for what happened. However a kiss and sex are to different things so it would be extremely hard to forgive and forget.

[Asker]

So you wouldn't dump him if he had sex but you would if he kissed another girl? That makes no sense.

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't say I wouldn't dump him over a kiss. No where did I say what you assume. People cheat everyday. It's your decision to leave or stay. If you break up over a kiss you never loved him the first place. You need to be more secure with yourself.

[StarryNocturne]

I would be pissed off, I will let him explain though, then roundhouse kick him if he does not give me a great explanation to his actions.

[soccerchick4eva]

well yeah, massive deal breaker for me.
i would take is as that i wasn't good enough for him and he had to find another girl...

[ManaX]

Don't let his mistake damage your self esteem, you should think you are good enough, in fact too good. His mistake is his problem and you're dumping hi ass for it.

[soccerchick4eva]

yeah thats true @ManaX :)

[BarbaraP]

Yes, of course. There's no way making out with another girl could be an accident. He cheated and there's no excuse for that.

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

If we'd only been together such a short time then probably not.

If it was longer then maybe, depends really.

[LonelyLillie13]

yes- im too old for that maybe i can change him, maybe it was a mistake, shit

[matheus_mb]

Of course I would, this would be cheating in my opinion.

[ClassyClaudia]

You mean if he CHEATED on me? I'd dump his sorry ass in a second

[Anonymous]

I might forgive him if it happened like years and years down the road, but it hasn't even been a year yet and he's cheating? Not acceptable, who knows what he'd do in the future.

[JackKerouac77]

It would be a tough road to cross.

Most likely break up.

[R3d_Anonymous]

No, I'd give my girlfriend another chance. But only one more, and then done.

[atomique]

I would ask for an explanation then likely dump her

[llorando]

I'd kick her to the curb asap, she would no longer be worth my time.

[Kelosa]

Is this a trick question? Of course I would I'd dump him the minute I find out and never look back nor regret my decision.

[shy55princess]

depends if he was drunk or sober and if he did it a lot and if he was really touchy with her

[Scar89]

I sort of agree with that too.

[-Zoe-]

yes I would. immediately.

[PrincessJennyfer]

notice how only boys picked no id stay

[sammy_31]

Yes, immediately!

[douride2]

Yea he would be gone no more second chances.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's still cheating

[BertMacklinFBI]

pretty sure i would.

[misscoffeehead]

Yeah.. deal breaker

[Anonymous]

This stupid questions are getting so repetivive...

[Anonymous]

Yes, I would.

[LegateLanius]

Gone.