He is married! Should I tell on his wife or not? (Page 2)
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Yes, you have every right to be angry with this guy. Actually I have another answer but then that would be the half truth and that's not right either, I think you shouldn't mention it, it's complicated.
If your wife/gf is cheating on you, wouldn't you like to know?
Almost certainly, she already knows which is likely the reason why he stopped.
Imagine yourself in her position. Would you want to know? I bet you would, so tell her.
Imagine you're his wife and some little trollop was doing this with your husband. Would you want to know?
I'd love to know!
I say tell her, if he's done it with you who knows how many other times he has done it!
Let it go and walk away. Only tell if you've kissed him, dated him, and/or had sex with him.
This is the same MO a guy follows when he dates a woman and he finds out she's taken.
tell her. if he wants to go behind his wife's back with another girl, even if it isn't physical. it is cheating and she need to know about it
Yes tell it on his ass. Its funny that guys voted no cuz they wouldn't want their ass to catch on fire either so i suggest u give him his own taste of medicine for being such a hungry wolves trying to score on ya 🎅🏼
I think it's your mistake, there are millions of cheaters and chance takers roaming around, but it's our responsibility to walk safe through a throny way. I don't know you like it or not but I'm telling this keeping you on priority in my mind.
My mistake? How? Asking him his relationship status and him saying he is single? he started Pursuing me, he was the one who messaged me initially otherwise I would've never met him. used a fake name, lied about his job and where he lived. Cooked up some story about an ex and how she cheated on him after a 7 year relationshipthat never happened because he has been married since he was 20! Lies lies lies
Will you buy an article which cost 100 rupees, but the seller say it cost 500rupees, and sale u in 500? Just bcoz seller said, would u buy the article? bhagwan (God) gave us something called brains, start using it damit. Bloody cheaters are everywhere to make fool of nice people n people who trust easily. Take care :-)
I do have brains and use them accordingly. If I failed in anything is to trust. So yeah lesson learned, no more online and men are just a waste of time
Will you please tell me what took u so long to send this message :-)
I have a life
Shocked to know that :-o
Well if you were a wife and mother and your husband did that to you, wouldn't you wanna know?
Don't tell, you had cyber sex nothing real, newsflash.. Neither of you touched each other on the other hand she is his wife and they are having a baby.. They made actual love all you have was having sexual fun with techincal toys
Just the fact there is a kid involved. If he is a better father than he is a hubby at least the kid will have something to look forward to even if his wife dont
Just move on, it's not worth the drama. Be grateful that you weren't dragged into this mess, and let karma take care of itself.
I hope so, but karma can also be unfair
yes you should tell her that she's married to a man slut or a man whore or a man ho. how ever you wanna word it
Don't tell. Not much happened: a few photo's, that's all. Think about the kid.
Nude photos of himself. He wanted to meet once a month and said he would love to marry me. But perhaps you're right
he was messaging you online when he was horny and sending you nudes.
chances are he has a bad sex life at home and he got overexcited by the conversations, but he realized in time that this was wrong.
does he and hi kids really deserve to get punished that badly for it?
I've been cheated on several times (by the same ex. And *really* physically, not by talking or pictures) I wouldn't have liked to hear it from anyone else than from her.
Why?
When a guy boasted to me in public that *he* had effed my crush years ago, that did really hurt!
I pardoned my ex but I hate the guy who effed my crush, *not* the guys who effed my ex.
(And I never was angry at my crush.)
@alibaba42 Indeed.
Well, he is talking to another girl now online, why not be honest with his wife? this is backstabbing trust
@alibaba42 Think of the kid? Really? Why should he hold the kid "hostage" in the relationship? That's a cowardly thing to do. It's like holding a figurative gun to the kid's head is what he's doing.
I can't approve the idea of sacrifying the kid in name of 'morality and 'purity'.
Well, you didn't know, I mean, I don't think you meant to be a homewrecker, I think you should still show her but, it's not your fault
What good would possibly ending a marriage do?
Just move on.
she needs to know now... or let her continue to live a lie
Let her feel the pain now. It'll hurt, but not as strong
Yes tell her! What do you have to lose? Fuck that guy.
No, just let it go. It's a good bet his wife already knows; it's probably not the first time he's stepped out on her.