Hello, everyone! Happy Holidays! So, recently, I have been seeing this new guy and I really like him. He's sweet and sexy and very good to me. But, we've only been seeing one another for about a week or so. But, I am having a problem. I have had continuous dreams about my former friends with benefits. I haven't spoken to him and I haven't seen him, as he is on tour with this traveling show until New Year's Day. I haven't even been thinking about him. Though, when he comes back, he will probably be expecting me to see him. And, I absolutely refuse, because I don't want to hurt this amazing new guy. So, is there a reason for these dreams? They aren't sexual or romantic, but... he's still in them... Help!!! 😶

Invite them for a three-way. He'd probably be down for a little guy-on-guy anyways, seeing as though we're all hopped up on hormones, booze and masturbation.

You are obviously missing him and you should call him and talk to him

Yes it means you should bang him some more ^^

You're probably falling in love

You still care about him on a subconscious level

because you miss your relationship without a label

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ColinHarvey Follow
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Invite them for a three-way. He'd probably be down for a little guy-on-guy anyways, seeing as though we're all hopped up on hormones, booze and masturbation.

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You are obviously missing him and you should call him and talk to him

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  No. I shouldn't...
  
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- InspiredPrynce
  
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  Why is that?
  
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- Asker
  
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  Because, he has a playmate on the tour, and I have met a really amazing guy recently...
  
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- InspiredPrynce
  
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  A playmate?
  anyways, you need to talk to him casually
  
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- Asker
  
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  Girlfriend? Intimate partner? Whatever...
  
  I would prefer not to.
  
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- InspiredPrynce
  
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  You have a boyfriend?
  
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- Asker
  
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  Something like that
  
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- InspiredPrynce
  
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  You not sure
  
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- Asker
  
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  We just started seeing each other
  
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- InspiredPrynce
  
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  Don't tell him about it
  
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- Asker
  
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  I'm not speaking to Dan, the friends with benefits, unless I have to...
  
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- InspiredPrynce
  
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  Unless you have to what?
  
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- Asker
  
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  Speak to him...
  
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- InspiredPrynce
  
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  What do you propose then?
  
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- Asker
  
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  Leave it alone, wish him a Merry Christmas. See him again in January.
  
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- InspiredPrynce
  
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  That's a good plan to start with
  
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Anxiety, of a nonsexual nature

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Yes it means you should bang him some more ^^

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_HimigNgKalayaan_ Follow
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You're probably falling in love

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  With this new guy, I hope?
  
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You still care about him on a subconscious level

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because you miss your relationship without a label

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vrushank Follow
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Your soul loves him

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