i would say both, but there's no option for that, so i would say the one hiding the information. i've snooped, there was nothing, so i would say i was in the wrong. if i had found something, i would say he was in the wrong. he should have told me. it shouldn't have gotten to that point.
They're both wrong, but the one with the lack of loyalty is probably the slightly greater evil compared to the one with the lack of trust and personal space.
Depends on how long they been in a relationship and what their agreement is. I won't snoop before being in a committed relationship tho. However, snooping always leads you to something that gonna make you feel uncomfortable, everyone should know that before they snoop.
My answer is not an excuse for anybody to snoop tho. Simply, snooping after being in a committed relationship and not before is giving the chance to your partner to get read of any other fuck bodies.
The cheater is more wrong in all situations. The snooper is wrong to mistrust their partner, unless they have a decent reason to.
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The one who cheats usually show signs of indifference in the relationship which in term creates suspicious to their partner. The partner can ask, but sometimes, you don't get an honest answer. So he/she may start checking for phone/other evidence.
It's not about being wrong, it's getting your girl to actually admit to it. Perhaps a subject for another time. :o
In my opinion they're both wrong. The snooper takes the risk of jeapordizing the relationship to put their mind at ease. If the cheater is found cheating, the snooper is vindicated. If not, the snooper is at fault and the accused cheater now has trust issues.
It kind of leaves it open though... like if you go around and shoot people you don't like the look of but it's ok if one of them had a dead body in the trunk of their car? Shouldn't it either be ok or just not?
Totally different, Asker. The snooper did not shoot the partner, he/she was a bit devious in "investigating. If nothing found, the partner is not left dead in a trunk. For that matter, if evidence is found, the partner is still not dead. Just dumped if the snooper is smart.
They're both wrong but for different things. If you are cheating, you should leave the other person and not play around with them. And if you're suspicious of your partner, you should talk to them. That's all, but they're both wrong in their acts.
That is possible but my point was more directed if there are a fair amount of clues about their partner cheating including but not limited to going cold, ceasing contacts, sudden changes in behavior etc...
If nothing was found then it is a relief and you have right there a confirmation, that your partner is trustworthy. I rather always know the truth. If i had the choice between snooping once and finding out about my partner cheating on me OR getting dumped because i snooped one time and didn't find anything about them cheating on me, then i would choose the former should i have enough suspicion. I don't like being cheated on. I am not a snooper. I don't want anyone's access to their stuff and i don't want anyone to have access to my stuff also. But in times of doubts it's the only way to find out and make a proper decision. There is unfortunately no grey area for this known to me.
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i would say both, but there's no option for that, so i would say the one hiding the information. i've snooped, there was nothing, so i would say i was in the wrong. if i had found something, i would say he was in the wrong. he should have told me. it shouldn't have gotten to that point.
Both are wrong, but what he did was worse. Cheating is waaaaay worse than snooping
They're both wrong, but the one with the lack of loyalty is probably the slightly greater evil compared to the one with the lack of trust and personal space.
Depends on how long they been in a relationship and what their agreement is. I won't snoop before being in a committed relationship tho. However, snooping always leads you to something that gonna make you feel uncomfortable, everyone should know that before they snoop.
Lol you wouldn't snoop before a committed relationship but you would after? Isn't that worse?
My answer is not an excuse for anybody to snoop tho. Simply, snooping after being in a committed relationship and not before is giving the chance to your partner to get read of any other fuck bodies.
The cheater is more wrong in all situations.
The snooper is wrong to mistrust their partner, unless they have a decent reason to.
The one who cheats usually show signs of indifference in the relationship which in term creates suspicious to their partner. The partner can ask, but sometimes, you don't get an honest answer. So he/she may start checking for phone/other evidence.
the one who cheats crreates the susupion.
Rhetorical question? The girl is always right (according to her), snooper or cheater.
Yup 😊 just after seeing something on here.
And no, lol we're not always right facetious or not 😛. Have you read some of the questions here?
It's not about being wrong, it's getting your girl to actually admit to it. Perhaps a subject for another time. :o
In my opinion they're both wrong. The snooper takes the risk of jeapordizing the relationship to put their mind at ease. If the cheater is found cheating, the snooper is vindicated. If not, the snooper is at fault and the accused cheater now has trust issues.
Eh I'm often wrong so probably not the best person to have that debate 😂
You actually admit to your hubby your wrong? :o
This best describes most women I've dated...
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Only because I'd rather look more mature than a petty idiot so it's still completely self serving 😂
Snooping is just improper.
But cheating is plainly immoral.
They're both wrong, but the cheater is a whole lot MORE wrong.
Snooping and cheating are both wrong, but cheating is far worse.
both are not ok but cheating in my opinion is worse than snooping and a person who is cheating kind of invites someone to snoop
One is wrong, the other is foolish. If you can't trust your partner, you are with the wrong one.
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Both are guilty. Why be in a relationship if both can't trust each other?
If the snoopers suspicions are grounded in truth they are justified, if they are just being paranoid then they are in the wrong
It kind of leaves it open though... like if you go around and shoot people you don't like the look of but it's ok if one of them had a dead body in the trunk of their car?
Shouldn't it either be ok or just not?
True, I guess u shouldn't snoop and just wait to catch um red handed if possible
Totally different, Asker. The snooper did not shoot the partner, he/she was a bit devious in "investigating. If nothing found, the partner is not left dead in a trunk. For that matter, if evidence is found, the partner is still not dead. Just dumped if the snooper is smart.
They're both wrong but for different things. If you are cheating, you should leave the other person and not play around with them. And if you're suspicious of your partner, you should talk to them. That's all, but they're both wrong in their acts.
If you keep incriminating evidence on your phone that your SO can find, your fault maybe your to dumb to be cheating 😂
If someone is dumb enough to cheat then they're dumb enough to get caught
The cheater of course. How else will the other person know about infidelity?
By talking to their partner and asking to see instead of snooping?
That is possible but my point was more directed if there are a fair amount of clues about their partner cheating including but not limited to going cold, ceasing contacts, sudden changes in behavior etc...
If nothing was found then it is a relief and you have right there a confirmation, that your partner is trustworthy. I rather always know the truth. If i had the choice between snooping once and finding out about my partner cheating on me OR getting dumped because i snooped one time and didn't find anything about them cheating on me, then i would choose the former should i have enough suspicion.
I don't like being cheated on.
I am not a snooper. I don't want anyone's access to their stuff and i don't want anyone to have access to my stuff also. But in times of doubts it's the only way to find out and make a proper decision. There is unfortunately no grey area for this known to me.
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I mean why would she be snooping through someone's stuff. It's better to not know then to wrongfully obtain information.
You can make your partner trust you,
it's human nature to feel it when someone is lying... and that feeling is usually right.
It's a symbiotic Satan's snow ball. Hard to end in anything but resentment and suspicion. Stop these evil polls lol.