Should I be upset that my boyfriend didn't get me anything for our 1 year anniversary? (Page 2)

Question

so yesterday it was our 1 year anniversary.
(a side note: we broke up 2 weeks ago coz I was a bitch towards him and so he ended things but we got back together a week later)
I made few things for him such as picture frame and decorated it, printed a collage of us and put it in the frame, i made him cards of "why i love you" and I got him his favorite cologne, and his favorite chocolates. 
So anyway, he picked me up and he took me to our favorite restaurant and he paid for it.
He goes "order whatever you want"
Then after dinner, he asked where I want to go next (e. g. a long drive or whatever) and we decided to go to this park that we always go to and we went to get hot chocolate and sat there and chilled.
I told him "Im so upset you didn't get me anything. At least a bunch of flowers would be good"
and he replied "I always show my love to you. I even took you out to dinner and Im here right now. isn't that what matters? We spend time together. Another reason why I didn't get u anything is because when I got you things, you took advantage of me. But I do feel guilty I didn't get you anything after I saw everything you got me"
Should i be upset about this? Because Im reaaallly upset about it. I know I stuffed up our relationship and he's cautious now , but still.. he couldve given me flowers or card at least right?
Does this mean he doesn't care?

Sharkslayer93 · Answer

Take advantage of the little things. Material things don't matter. At least he took u out and spent time with you. It could have been worse he could have totally blew u off, and ignored you. Quit being inconsiderate.

Graydon · Answer

I'm sure that a nice dinner would be nice for his gift to you as well as allowing you to pick your perfect date. So no don't be upset.

madhatters4 · Answer

he took you to dinner and then did a romantic little thing after those are gifts he gave you for your 1 year anniversary

GirlThatDraws · Answer

He took you to a restaurant, took you to the park and had hot chocolate with you, and you still complain that he didn't give you anything?
He was right to break up with you. This man deserves a better girlfriend since you're so ungrateful.

fulloflife · Answer

Stop being materialistic. He spent cash on u and showed u a good time. U better appreciate him there's few Good fish out there.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't care he didn't get me flowers after such a night. So I don't think you should be upset. Also apparently he has a reason not to get you anything.

Anonymous · Answer

He took you out and spent time together... and he paid. I really think you should be more grateful and change your attitude or you'll be driving to splitsville.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

If this was me the guy, i would of gave you Roses and Card.

PearIyn · Answer

paying for food can be a form of gift too, by the way.

Anonymous · Answer

Things like that aren't important to guys. It doesn't mean he doesn't care.

Shimy · Answer

Well he paid for the restaurant 🤔

Patriot357 · Answer

No just be glad ya still together

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

No you shouldn't be upset

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