I have a boyfriend, but I can't stop thinking about another guy? (Page 2)

Question

I've been dating a guy for about 10 months, and I like him a lot. I'm comfortable around him, we spend a lot of time together, and I like and know his family well. He's really in love with me, however, I have a giant crush on a coworker, and find myself thinking about other men as well. I don't know if anything will come of the coworker, but I do find myself wishing I had a chance with him. I'm not sure if I'm just attracted to the allure of that new relationship feel, if I really don't find myself staying with my current boyfriend, or if I'm just not ready to commit to anything right now? I like my boyfriend a lot, but I always try to think if I'll be happier in another relationship. I always think maybe I'll find someone more like me, or someone that better fits my "type". I'm not sure what to do or if I'll continually find myself in this situation because I'm so easily attracted to guys who show any interest in me. I'm not ready to be alone and without a man in my life, but I don't know if it's wrong of me to keep this boyfriend around. I did mention to him having a crush on a coworker to be truthful with him, but I have to constantly reassure him that I love him. I do love him, but I can't lie that if this coworker came to me initiating something, I probably would push any thought of my boyfriend to the side. However, whenever I'm with my boyfriend, I'm usually happy and at ease. I appreciate him on many levels, but I'm just not sure what to do.

shiril · Answer

Introspection is needed before any conclusion

Beysik · Answer

RIP, your bf's feelings

Cannuk22 · Answer

You are a peice of shit.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell your boyfriend and he'll help

I have a boyfriend, but I can't stop thinking about another guy? (Page 2)

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