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Girlfriend is disappointed in me because I won't "let her in." Now what? (Page 2)
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Just tell her the truth, you’ve got some issues from your past that you aren’t ready to talk to her about yet. She’ll either take it or she won’t and if it’s the latter then you deserve someone understanding in your life and she was not that person.
Personaly i would just tell her sumarised like you said here to us talk about hoe you think its an issue you need to deal with and you dont wanna overwhelm her, and if she does leave you and she is not understanding of it maybe she is not the onr
I'm emotionally stinted as well. I do have to put on an act to get along with people. I would advise you to at least pretend in order to see what she needs emotionally. most likely you'll be able to give her what she needs.
The mystery angle is always better. Besides, if she doesn't respect the privacy of your thoughts, is she really right for you?
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with, and don't give in to ultimatums.
Trust her with your real feelings. That is what a relationship is about.
That PTSD is just part of who you are, if she can't accept that then she's not for you, might as well tell her.
Try to work on it. Im the same. It takes a long time for me to trust a partner enough to ket them see my dark, tragic past. I rather just stuff that shit down and move on.
Let her read this. Just spill the beans dude.
And if you're really fucked up about it, then get the shrink FIRST. You're supposed be all whole before you bring someone else into your life.
Are you absolutely sure that i should send her this link?
I'm absolutely sure you should have an adult conversation with your lover, like a mature adult.
Alright. Here goes nothing.
You gotta tell her. Women are stupid about the truth. They can't handle it but they want dudes to tell them everything.
Can’t believe you had to ask this. Dump her ass bigtime.
Tell her it's hard for you and you'll tell when you're ready.
show her this:
https://www.youtube.com/embed/RTngBI51gJcShe's a woman.
Just lie your face off. She just wants to be happy.
:)
She was disappointed? Wow. She's only thinking of herself. I'd leave her.
Typical female drama. She doesn't actually care about you, she cares more about digging into something that is none of her business.
Men seem to get blamed more than women do for relationship problems or relationship issues.
She loves you let her in