Social media.. girls have 50 desperate guys per day flirting with them.. in the old days no one even knew them.. soo every girl now is like she is famous because of insta and shit
But that's not even real to me.. To me that's the whole issue... If you only know someone through social media, how's that love? How do you really know them? Real interaction, real physical time spent or real physical actions...
If she's in a relationship with you, she shouldn't be talking to other guys in social media... Hell, when my hubby was alive, neither one of us was on any social media... And if I was in a relationship with someone, someone was here now, I would be on them and not GAG🙂
See that's why don't think I wanna date these days.. social media, and what people think is acceptable in a relationship... I need someone who ain't so caught up in social media.. And that's a dying breed
Sometimes I miss being in a relationship... But the way they used to be... Not the fucked up shit people call relationships these days... Then, I'd rather stay single... But makes me miss my hubby more sometimes 😔
It could be... If people would choose to really live/love... Get off social media and enjoy real life... It's short as it is and people are wasting it... You don't get that time back... Live/love while you can... Noone's promised a tomorrow
If it's IRL that's one thing... But people are thinking, saying they're in love with people they've never even met IRL or met once in real life and the rest by social media.. I don't get that 🤷🏼♀️
Why not just be friends that fuck n become best friends too. That way there is no pressure to get married n all that crap.. Get it right first I recon..
Well i mean you think you will have your whole life to wait and have kids and settle later. Depending on your age. But with covid it kind of frightened a lot of people. Its like someone who is diagnosed with cancer at young age realizing you may not have a lot of time so you look for someone asap to try to at least carry your genes onward before you die. Am i being clear? Lol
I agree... But so many people say they're dating or in love and either never met or only "visited"... You can't 'really" know" someone that way... Not in my opinion anyways
At first, feel sorry for people that fall for that.. But then, after a while it's if you put up with that, it's on you... If that's what people want settle for... Hell no, not me... All or nothing for me.. and "fake" the same as nothing to me 🤷🏼♀️
Ah, but you said it yourself. That's what 'others' do. If it's accepted as what is normal, than it shall become normal. If we are fed a lie long enough, sooner or later we will believe it to be true.
Only if you conform to others beliefs and don't stay true to yourself... Not everyone is jumping in and out of bed with random strangers... I'm not going to do that just because other people do/think that's okay.. I'm going to find someone who also wouldn't do that... Do what you feel is right/acceptable... Not what others say is right or acceptable 🤷🏼♀️
Course. Ain't no way I'm doing that kind of stuff. ... Mostly because I don't know how and I'd rather not find out tbh lol. People can get themselves into situations all they want. I'm fine without it.
@JosyJosy still, this is kinda grossing me out. I still remember my sex-ed class, when the female teacher asked the class if they already knew of oral sex, and you could clearly hear creepy "mmh" sounds all among the students.. 🤮
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I feel like it is a time of greater gratification but also for those that are older, it's best to be able to get as many younger years as you can get
If you know the person and are spending "real" time together
Agreed
Perhaps they’re pressured by friends getting married early. Not sure why 20 is an age to get married and have kids.
Social media.. girls have 50 desperate guys per day flirting with them.. in the old days no one even knew them.. soo every girl now is like she is famous because of insta and shit
But that's not even real to me.. To me that's the whole issue... If you only know someone through social media, how's that love? How do you really know them? Real interaction, real physical time spent or real physical actions...
Νο i mean u are in relationship with a girl and in her social media tons of guys trying to get her
If she's in a relationship with you, she shouldn't be talking to other guys in social media... Hell, when my hubby was alive, neither one of us was on any social media... And if I was in a relationship with someone, someone was here now, I would be on them and not GAG🙂
Well my ex did
See that's why don't think I wanna date these days.. social media, and what people think is acceptable in a relationship... I need someone who ain't so caught up in social media.. And that's a dying breed
I feel the same.. i was always better off single😊 i keep seeing girls but i try to avoid relationships
Sometimes I miss being in a relationship... But the way they used to be... Not the fucked up shit people call relationships these days... Then, I'd rather stay single... But makes me miss my hubby more sometimes 😔
Yes same.. i feel you.. but i guess this lifetime is not good for relationships
It could be... If people would choose to really live/love... Get off social media and enjoy real life... It's short as it is and people are wasting it... You don't get that time back... Live/love while you can... Noone's promised a tomorrow
Yes.. i know. I feel u
I feel like I don't fit into today's world, nor do I want to.. wish had time machine so I could go back to the way things used to be
I Move fast and slow down in the end
If it's IRL that's one thing... But people are thinking, saying they're in love with people they've never even met IRL or met once in real life and the rest by social media.. I don't get that 🤷🏼♀️
I mean they’re not hurting anyone. I feel like the way we approach the idea of love has no rules. Life’s short and unpredictable
They hurting themselves tho if they settle for fake online relationship, setting themselves up for failure and heartbreak that way
Yes in the long run they are but some people chase temporary highs. It’s the same reason people do drugs, dangerous but it is what it is
But that way you playing with someone else's feelings, and that ain't cool just for a temporary high
It's easy now its completely acceptable to move quickly in a relationship so that is what happens it's simply more accepted than it's ever been
Because Donald Trump has cast a stupid spell on Americans.
If moving fast wouldn't get discussed here, I might have proposed to you for saying that 😂
Umm that ain't got nothing to do with Trump... More like people accusing social media
Abusing
they are afraid to be alone. With this 2020 shit going on.. would you?
Can't say... Can say not anyone online or in another state
In some ways yes that is very much so.
Right! 🤷🏼♀️
Well the world is moving rapidly towards it's end so if you don't move fast then you'll probably be eradicated before you get anywhere.
For guys it’s to get laid. For women it’s because they’re desperate
Women are more than just sex... And any man who sees a women for nothing but just sex, shouldn't be in a relationship with a woman
That’s true but for most Guys under 35 that’s just the way it is
Why not just be friends that fuck n become best friends too. That way there is no pressure to get married n all that crap.. Get it right first I recon..
With covid, you would think they will move faster.
But then that's more about not wanting to be alone than about the person 🤷🏼♀️
Not with their lives being jeopardy. Its about trying to have kids before you die. Lol
All the more reason not to settle if you involve kids into the equation
Well i mean you think you will have your whole life to wait and have kids and settle later. Depending on your age. But with covid it kind of frightened a lot of people. Its like someone who is diagnosed with cancer at young age realizing you may not have a lot of time so you look for someone asap to try to at least carry your genes onward before you die. Am i being clear? Lol
I guess 🤷🏼♀️
Nvm lol
Maybe they feel like they're short on time
But do that for real.. don't waste that time on online dating/long distance...
Good point
More options and afraid of being alone.
IRL one thing.. Online/social media dating, ain't you still alone, tho?🤷🏼♀️ that's not more options to me...
I meant irl. Not just flirting in social media. That's dumb, lol
I agree... But so many people say they're dating or in love and either never met or only "visited"... You can't 'really" know" someone that way... Not in my opinion anyways
I think the same. I laugh when I hear of so called "online relationships"😂
At first, feel sorry for people that fall for that.. But then, after a while it's if you put up with that, it's on you... If that's what people want settle for... Hell no, not me... All or nothing for me.. and "fake" the same as nothing to me 🤷🏼♀️
It's how we know the world. Can't help it anymore.
That's not true... People have a choice not to give in to things just because that's what 'others" do...
Ah, but you said it yourself. That's what 'others' do. If it's accepted as what is normal, than it shall become normal. If we are fed a lie long enough, sooner or later we will believe it to be true.
Only if you conform to others beliefs and don't stay true to yourself... Not everyone is jumping in and out of bed with random strangers... I'm not going to do that just because other people do/think that's okay.. I'm going to find someone who also wouldn't do that... Do what you feel is right/acceptable... Not what others say is right or acceptable 🤷🏼♀️
Course. Ain't no way I'm doing that kind of stuff. ... Mostly because I don't know how and I'd rather not find out tbh lol. People can get themselves into situations all they want. I'm fine without it.
Technology
If that ain't the truth lol
it actual think technology does the opposite
because the pace of the life of our entire culture has increased and this itself
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😊 lol
No idea, Sex is the norm it seems. Like early on
I've heard of sex-ed classes in which the students had the task to "organize a brothel" 🤔
@scooogy Plans probably not going through with the covid
@JosyJosy still, this is kinda grossing me out. I still remember my sex-ed class, when the female teacher asked the class if they already knew of oral sex, and you could clearly hear creepy "mmh" sounds all among the students.. 🤮
@scooogy glad I didn't join those classes
@JosyJosy Amen. Some of them ended up having kids right after apprenticeship. Some of these are meanwhile divorced, unemployed or dead.
@scooogy Good.
@JosyJosy what I don't get is the "temptation" or even the "addictiing" effects of sex. I mean, what is it really?
@scooogy Some may love it more than others, different sex drive. Depends on the person.
@JosyJosy I used to be a freak sexually. But I get older.
@scooogy Ah what are all the things you did?
@JosyJosy this is better said in private. 😬
@scooogy Thought so
@JosyJosy How? :o this is sexual 🙈
Why do people move to slow 😉
Just meeting) knowing someone in social media ain't love