How do I know I can safely open up to a girlfriend? (Page 2)
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Everyone feels this way at one point in their life's... take your time with a girl and get to know her trust your gut
You need to forgive your ex, and heal. Focus on that for now. You will know when to open up to someone when you feel comfortable.
Can you come up with a worse advise?
I know you mean well but that's not helping.
Everything that you reveal to a female will be used against you.
I could never open up to a girl basically I’m always on edge expecting her to do something. One thing I have found is when you anticipate someone doing something it doesn’t really hurt when it actually happens
I think the same but i also realize it’s not a good practice to live. It’s called anxiety. Anticipating the worst isn’t prepping, it’s more living in fear. We think we are doing ourselves a favor put in actuality we are just denying ourselves to live in the moment. That philosophy will creep over onto other avenues in your life eventually and at some point you will realize how numb you’ve become. Small baby steps are good, less risk, and you gain more confidence with the other person... I’m doing it now and each little step feels liberating. Could i fall with any step and have my heart broken yes but I’m trying to not focus on that and focus on the end result. If you can’t open up, then how can you ever truly be yourself with a partner?
@Mickey9999 I dint plan to have a girlfriend because I don’t trust women
You dont.. its always a gamble... but you can't win if you dont play
Mete our vulnerability slowly in little pieces and always leave them feeling like you’re still holding something back — which you will be doing, but they need to sense it.
sad hard truth. you don't. only way to find out is to try.
My best advice. to you is NEVER completely open up to a woman, any woman! You can still love someone and be with someone without them knowing everything your thinking.
Open to her step by step and perceive her closely. If she’s opening too, you might be safe..
At this moment, it's impossible to know if you can safely open up to a girlfriend.
Fuck her. Keep a journal. Men will punch you in the face. Women are way more diabolical and calculating at their worst. Its a game of treachery sometimes. Give back only what she gives. A cliche is that its chess not checkers.
Like you would with a wild animal, never show weakness or vulnerability in front of a girl.
Dude with that attitude you won't ever have to worry abour it
Again because no girl is going to fuck you
I love to the fullest, if they reject me then that's their fault.
Do a test a fake rumour
It all depends how long you’ve known her
I've known her long enough and she still betrayed me
Then start over and find a new girl
Well hell find somone else
When she joins Fascist ideology
Open up about what?
Anything