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Well, I will say that my mother was nothing like any of that. I taught myself to cook, clean, and do laundry out of survival as my dad did know much about cooking and all that. He’s learned out of his own survival over the years and my mom remains planted in front of the damn television while being waited on by my dad. Probably why I abhor television so much as an adult.
Whereas I do not need my girlfriend to ‘wait’ on me, I will point out it is nice at times that a girlfriend makes an effort too ‘contribute’ her effort and it isn’t always me doing it all. My last girlfriend is the ONLY woman to ever put in effort and was the first to ever dote. The rest seemed completely lost in anything remotely domestic in spite of being adults and certainly never doted over anyone but themselves.
The women I attract may be pretty, but largely that is all they are and why they seldom make it beyond a few dates. I don’t want anymore “princesses” or “queens” in my life...
I think my girlfriend is a bit like this, at least with the tidying. I didn't mind it so much when I was working and she was at home all day but now that she also has a job I feel bad that she is still trying to stick to that plan and I hate how other people view it.
Like I had the landlord having a go at me saying that I needed to get off my phone and go and mow the lawn. When in reality when I do go to mow the lawn my girlfriend takes over because she likes to do it.
Just need to balance between being helpful and mothering and going overboard, smothering and seeming like you want to control and do everything.
Not gonna lie but I feel like a spare part at times, and it makes me feel like I'm a bad boyfriend who doesn't do enough. When in reality she does it because she likes to and wants to.
That's not motherly. That's housewife type of thing. At least you don't tie his shoelaces. No, some guys like that. Actually not only few, many guys like that and it's not bad in any way
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u Not a turn off. That is not mothering. That is nurturing.
From your explanation it doesn't sound bad, actually most guys would appreciate it but keep in mind everyone is different meaning some might feel smothered in that kind of relationship... It all comes down to how your boyfriend reacts to that kind of treatment
No. This is what one should do. Both people in any given relationship should take care of one another. After all if your spending your time with this person you should put each other before everyone else. If that means he has to work long hours and come home to help with the honey do list he should. If that means you cook , clean etc to contribute your part of the team effort and you enjoy it then you should. Dont let people in this world dictate to you as to right and wrong in your relationship or you will look back one day and realize you let others choose how you lived your life. At the end of the day its about happiness between you two and helping each other through life
Free women's lib women were able to do that without being judged the deal is that shouldn't be forced but if you enjoy doing it or God I guarantee you he loves it be the liberated woman you are and enjoy loving someone and doing something for them now that becomes a job at or that's different but if you're having fun go for a girl if he says don't do that no more then I guess stop or find somebody else
That sounds more like a "traditional" WIFE than a mom to me. And men with traditional values will like and appreciate that, and will work hard to take care of you in return (in more ways than one!).
I have no problem with that. It's a problem if you treat him as if he's a child and not a competent adult.
Depends on the guy in question. If he's more traditionally oriented he'd appreciate such behavior.
Lol you are a drean girl for many haha😂
What's the catch here?
This deal is to good to be true🎊🎉🎎🧨✨
Not weird at all. I love coming home and having a girlfriend jump into my arms and cuddles and massages! What's not to love?
That's called being a wife haha
Its perfectly good and normal
What! are you nutsss!!!😃 that’s great: that’s the definition of a relationship. Hope your man values that.
Are you single? Because that sounds awesome.
Not at all - it means you’re caring :)
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