But I meant to say yes, I feel like cheaters have a certain mindset whether it's being lonely or seeking revenge. Or just flat out being a shit person and cheat.
No, they're equally shitty. And the frequency by gender is pretty well equal as well. It's just that women are better liars so the stats are skewed to men. ;)
It’s ultimately the same it just differs from person to person.
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Men tend to find sexual infidelity from their mates more harmful (from an evolutionary standpoint this is likely due to uncertainty around paternity versus no uncertainty around maternity) than women do on average, whereas women tend to find emotional infidelity from their mates more harmful (again from an evolutionary standpoint this would make it more likely that the mate would abandon the relationship and therefore support which a woman would need especially if she had small children).
Again there is no difference, anyone who cheats is dishonest, disrespectful and selfish.
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I don’t know about the misogyny. But I know that I have a friend who has cheated, and usually I would have never been ok with it, but after hearing her reason it was easier to understand why she did it.
a cheat is a cheat regardless of gender, and both are as bad as each other equally
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At the end of the day, if they cheat, they cheat, and regardless of their gender I loose respect for them. However, I do believe that society has different opinions and reactions from men cheating compared to women.
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But I meant to say yes, I feel like cheaters have a certain mindset whether it's being lonely or seeking revenge. Or just flat out being a shit person and cheat.
It goes both ways for sure. Whoever does it will be the person that looks bad and unfaithful either way. Just my look on it.
No, they're equally shitty. And the frequency by gender is pretty well equal as well. It's just that women are better liars so the stats are skewed to men. ;)
It takes two to tango.
It’s ultimately the same it just differs from person to person.
Men tend to find sexual infidelity from their mates more harmful (from an evolutionary standpoint this is likely due to uncertainty around paternity versus no uncertainty around maternity) than women do on average, whereas women tend to find emotional infidelity from their mates more harmful (again from an evolutionary standpoint this would make it more likely that the mate would abandon the relationship and therefore support which a woman would need especially if she had small children).
Cheating women are mostly females and cheating men are very likely to be males.
No dude it's just more normalized for guys n that's why you feel like that.
Also stop using the word "slut". It's embarrassing.
A scum is a scum, no matter what gender he or she is. Mark my words you cheating women, your karma will come to haunt you. Rest in peace!
Yeah, it's the exact same shit in my opinion.
A cheater is a cheater... no one is worse than the other...
Again there is no difference, anyone who cheats is dishonest, disrespectful and selfish.
I don’t know about the misogyny. But I know that I have a friend who has cheated, and usually I would have never been ok with it, but after hearing her reason it was easier to understand why she did it.
Most people including me you expect it to be the guy who cheats. Just seems harder when it's a woman..
Men are more likely to cheat, but still love you. If a woman is cheating, they generally want it to end
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Nope. Cheating is cheating, although with women it somehow seems more serious, but then again I'm a guy, so...
I don’t want to be that guy but I believe women cheating is way worse.
Why?
I don't know how to explain it. But I’m NOT saying that if a guy cheats it’s ok. It’s just different
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a cheat is a cheat regardless of gender, and both are as bad as each other equally
At the end of the day, if they cheat, they cheat, and regardless of their gender I loose respect for them. However, I do believe that society has different opinions and reactions from men cheating compared to women.
Same for me. If you cheat, you're a despicable piece of shit.
They are at equal blame. I don't think a girl should be more blamed for cheating.