Everytime im cooking when he's around or home , he tends to either come up to me and say something or i say does this look good and he says no or yes if its a no he comes and tells me why its not but with an attitude. Let me give y'all an example today , i was making pancakes , simple right? But the “pancake pan” they use is not really my favorite but i felt like if i used a different one he would complain. So the pancakes were coming out lighter than expected and i asked him hey do this look good? He said uhh and ripped the pancake open and i said great u ruined it and he said yea but it looks like this and that then came to the stove and proceeded to just talk down on my cooking like “ why is there so much butter oil” “ u need to leave it longer” “ there's not enough water in the mix” “ thats why your pancakes look like that” and i start getting offended and tell him with a joking face “ your judgy “ and he dropped the mixing bowl and said you know what since im so judgy you do it yourself. And i was like no no help and he said no do it yourself. Then i made another and he criticized it too and said tell me when your done so i can make mine. I was like wow okay. And just turned off the stove and left. Am i being immature? Or is it just he's being an asshole?
My partner criticizes my cooking is he trying to be helpful or an asshole?
