Have you ever been in a "situationship" you couldn't get out of?

[Thevocalist]

Have you ever been in a situationship you couldn’t get out of. I just found the perfect song on YouTube that you can relate to. Look up “toward me” by rinna mo on YouTube.

[Anonymous]

Yeah kind off actually i like a girl and she is younger than me and she have Also given me some signs of liking. Actually she was the one to start all this.
But now i feel bad at myself that how i can have feelings for a younger girl and I think i need to apologise to her but we didn't see each other regularly soemtimes it's been months seeing each other.
I've never initiated any conversation wid her nor she.

[Thevocalist]

Apologize for what?

[Opinion Owner]

That i have feelings for her or maybe somehow i have made her uncomfortable that's why i Thaught of apologizing to her so that she won't feel uncomfortable coz of me

[Thevocalist]

Well is she under age or just younger than you

[Opinion Owner]

Nope she isn't under age she is younger than me... i think she is 19 i guess... but i am sure she is not underage

[Thevocalist]

Okay well if she likes you back there’s nothing wrong just know that certain things you cannot do with her she might not be mature enough to understand. But friends is an option.

[Thevocalist]

If she don’t want to be friends then you guys might have to get over each other because I can tell you that relationship will not workout but sometimes some people like to see for themselves

[Thevocalist]

If there’s sex already going on cut it now or one of you guys will be really hurt

[Opinion Owner]

See it will sound a bit weird but let me tell you she was the one to start all these things like earlier when i shifted to this apartment she was the one to always look at me , i have caught her looking at me whenever i am not looking at her , we shared many moments like this.

But now we whenever meet each other we kinda become Awkward, can't look at each other , become nervous and kinda not look at each other... i don't know why this is happening...

[Thevocalist]

She probably regret it

[Thevocalist]

Have you guys got to know each other

[Thevocalist]

Your not telling me the whole story

[Opinion Owner]

No we never talked wid each other yeah sometimes formally we did , but what she would regret that she didn't chose a good guy? She might have looked for another one?

[Opinion Owner]

Okay long story short let me tell you , i shifted in this apartment 2and a half years back , so one day she came to my house for some reason then when we first saw each other we kinda were looking at each other for like 2-3 seconds , but later on i thaught that this is mine perception only. So I ignored.

But later on when we started meeting more and more , Getting more encounters she was looking at me and i also, we both used to look at each other , and one day i still remember we had some problems in our water supply so we were carrying water to our home so when we came on stairs she was kinda always looking at me and i was , she was kinda smiling at me , i didn't understand what she was trying to do

[Opinion Owner]

Later on we had many encounters like this , so one day she kinda ignored me as i thaught so when next time we met i ignored her completely , then again i ignored her , 2 days back to back

So when one day i came back to my home i saw her in parking lot she was wid her cousin looking intensly at me like , and when i came close to her she started looking here and there and this same thing also happend 2 months back ,

And one fine day she again came to my home for asking to something and I opend the door and we literally where looking at each other for like 2-3 seconds completely silenece... you could feel that.

And sometimes her mother's pay a visit to my home so her mother's was telling that she was insiting her mother's to pay a visit to our home. As we again shifted to a new flat in same apartment

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know what's going on?

[Thevocalist]

Try having a conversation with her🤷🏽‍♀️won’t hurt. You can see how she feel and you won’t have this constant thought of what she’s thinking

[Thevocalist]

But coming from a female perspective it sounds like she like you but just don’t know if you’re creepy or not. Don’t be creepy lol speak to her make the first move

[Opinion Owner]

Creepy i never was , i even shook my head down in front of her , coz i don't know what's going in her mind.
I was always respectful towards her , we don't get much time to see each other... sometimes not even a month , but whenever we meet i never crossed my lines

[Thevocalist]

Okay the next time you see her just speak even if it’s just a “hey” the first time. Just keep speaking to her and if she’s still being weird leave her alone

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for sharing ur views maam as an female you better know what's going in her mind.
Yeah next time i will try to at least say hi to her... let's see what happens.

We at least shared many moments that we now might have an idea that we feel for each other, it would be a bit awkward coz she knows my intentions behind , but i would give it a try...

[Opinion Owner]

Maam one more update , i got a news that her grandmother died , so she was going for outstation for some work , then she came to my home to give some things to us to keep wid us, later on when she would return she would take it from us , then she and i had one more encounter she was talking wid my mom comfortably,
I was also there standing and looking here and there , later on i went inside.

So maam I think she didn't thinks me as an creepy guy at least and i had a very small chat wid her , where I politely told her to come inside my home and have a seat.

Maam i am thinking that next time i would try to have a chat wid her i hope she likes it.

[TenkRealist]

Yeah. One of my exes was a cutter. Couldn't leave her alone cos was worried. But yeah she ended up cheating on me and leaving anyway so it works out 😅🤣

[Thevocalist]

God works in mysterious ways. Hope she’s doing good tho

[TenkRealist]

I don't know. I don't care for cheaters.

[Thevocalist]

It sounds like she had some problems you had no control of so it’s best to just forget about her completely and never go back

[TenkRealist]

Yeah its not that easy but yeah. Thanks

[emmajoyforever]

Yeah and even though I finally got out of it a few months ago it still affects me daily

[Thevocalist]

It’ll get better I know from experience. It’s still fresh a few months is still just the beginning of the grieving unfortunately.

[Anonymous]

pretend i care for two whole moments and tell me what the "situationship" is that you can't get out of

[Rebecka33]

Yep def.

[Massageman]

no - I married her.

[SignedAutographs]

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