I love my boyfriend but ex is on my mind? (Page 3)

Anonymous · 2022-07-01T11:35:46Z

I know this sounds horrible but I really need some advice. My sort of ex (we were never official) has been on my mind a lot recently. He pops into my mind occasionally but the thoughts go away pretty quick, but I actually saw and spoke to him recently as he was in the same place I was. We spoke for about a year like 4/5 years ago and he never wanted to commit…it was confusing because he was getting with other people while speaking to me but he was really nice to me and some things made it seem like he genuinely liked me but obviously his actions didn’t show it and he wanted to focus on work and stuff. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I absolutely love him. He’s so kind to me, we get on great, I’m attracted to him and we moved in together recently. I feel horribly guilt because I have been thinking about this other guy so much. Why am I thinking about him? I don’t want to. I really liked him at the time and wanted to go further, and we just kind of drifted apart so I feel like there’s a lot of unanswered questions. I would never ever cheat by the way and do love my boyfriend, I just want to get this other guy out my head but at the same time I really want to speak to him. The other night was the first time I’ve spoken to him in years, he’s been single ever since, and my friend said he kept looking at me (before we spoke later in the night). Help please how do I sort this out

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Tell him it's your ex or me decide now. Don't waist time he don't say and do what he says then he not for you

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You won't ever cheat, so just block out those thoughts of your ex, when they pop up.

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You must like playing side piece

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Why are you even talking to him?

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  I spoke to him that night because we have mutual friends and he was in a small group of us, I wasn’t going to completely ignore him as he’s never been horrible or rude to me so it’s a bit weird and unnecessary
  
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I’d you’re confused then don’t date

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his's not the right boy then!!!

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I stopped reading at sort of ex. Girl get a life

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Not good

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