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What are some things you hated in general about your past relationships? (Page 2)
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That when I wanted to see her, she always found an excuse for that not to happen. And in the little time were together, she'd give more attention to her friends than to me.
Yep i rather date someone who’s a lonewolf with maybe one good friend. Fkc that
the lack of honesty, lack of intimacy, lack of time.
Lack of time is extremely one that irks me
I disliked that they didn't respect my boundaries and treated me like a sex object. I think i found someone better now
Yes im so tired of that as well! Im glad you found better
Thanks <3 <3
There sense of entitlement.
Especially when they feel they don’t have to hold them selves accountable. While holding me accountable.
Yea i hate that like own up to your part
I didn't like that she made choices or conclusions based on assumptions. I think its a terrible trait to have.
It is but I admit i do that too if the person won't give me a straight up answer the first time i ask
This is more a universal thing for me, like I prefer a person who prefers saying "I don't know" over claiming they know something they don't.
I feel like this is the root of most avoidable problems, be it in relationships, gossip, experiments, negotiations, news, politics, religion, environmentalism, technology, anything really.
Assumptions are like a mental cancer, they lead to uneeded conflict, misunderstandings, avoidable mistakes, turning people who would otherwise be friends into enemies, environmental destruction, wars, pollution, rumor spreading, guilty charges on innocent people, scientific advancment delays, shitty products, bad tech support, poor diets, poor farming practices, bad medical care, being judgmental over trivial things or harmless personal preferences/hobbies.
It also leads to unplanned pregnancies, cheating, breaking up, marrying or humping the wrong person, casual sex, being controlling over an SO in a relationship or the general public if a government, the list goes on.
Any girl who puts her ego or her fear on a pedistal above learning, isn't my type.
Yea well no im referring to assumptions made because the person refused to answer the question. So if they give me no answer, i’m goin to assume the worse
If she gives me no answer, that IS the worst.
Not communicating is verification of lack of compaibility/trust.
I wouldn't assume what she's thinking and would simply stick with "I don't know", but because she doesn't think I deserve an answer, I wouldn't care either, I'd just dump her and move on.
compaibility*
compatibility** keyboard why?
Right on
The lack of affection. Never feeling like a real priority.
Man i wish more would realize how important it is to prioritize correctly. So many still dont get it
I think everyone just assumes that they can get away with more than they can actually get away with. Like they always think they can cross that boundary one more time. It's sad because they realize one day that they've driven the other person away and have no idea what happened.
Or maybe its self sabotage. You never know
Could be! People's self confidence issues cause a lot of havok in their lives.
I've been in only one relationship and I hated that he wanted premarital sex so badly. He would constantly tell me how frustrated he felt.
Yep that's what annoys me is how the 2019 and 2022 guys can't stay patient in terms of sex
I never liked a girl who wanted me to be someone, or something, I was not. You don't always know this right away when you're dating someone.
Yea thats thhe scary part
Some was long distance relationships which never works.
It can if the goal is to move to eachother in a year or less
Well they always fell because we couldn't keep in contact or we all met someone else closer.
Walking in the door and having to duck to keep from getting hit with a plate.
Daaaaamn
I Used to Abuse people That talk down to me and Treat me like I’m Stupid I sometimes physically Abuse my Friends if they Act Stupid I Guide them In the right path they know who’s boss and they Respect me for it they Know they need me and they are Co dependent On me for emotional Support.
Hopefully you are no longer physically abusive
I always hated that my ex girl was always late to stuff. Like not casually late, like straight up an hour or two late to events/ places. Like dawg you have no respect for anyones time frame
Yea that would make me mad
I learned from the past, grow from and don’t look back. if we keep thinking about the past we will not have a future..
The past can make or break and shape you. It matters a bit
It sure did break me… but I learned my lessons, gathered myself quickly then move forward, not to look back and dwell on the past or hating what happened or what I did/he did.
Took me a year. Don’t get me wrong.
nothing that big or relevant to be worth of remembering... lol
Lucky you
I was going to say that it was a long distance relationship but that’s just how it was. She gave me a great reason why we couldn’t see each other and I respected that
Man what reason could even be that good
She said she would like to but there was so much that she couldn’t just leave behind
But didn't you say the same lol... you dont want to leave your state
Yeah I did
Presumptions in general because of my gender.
Like expecting you to cook and clean?
Yeap, or that I'm down for anything sexual, that I'm submissive, that I want kids, that I want marriage etc.
Yea i let dudes know early on that i dont cook and can be bossy lmao
Same. I let people know up front but some still try. Like I've had to end relationships over this crap when they knew and agreed to this. :/
Thats the worse part is when they KNOW but still choose to waste your time
Yeap. Had one guy try to impregnate me, one wanted kids and to get married, another wanted marriage and so on. It's exceedingly irritating.
Eyeballing other girls infront of me. Such disrespect
Super disrespectful
You help the other female, she say one thing you can't get her to do with she say.
Drive me crazy
Loll
After dating them for a while I realized that we weren't totally compatible together.
But i think thats 99% failed relationships lol
It was so long ago I don't remember the exact reasons why we broke up
sharing me out to his friends
Whaaat