🤜🤛Are guys territorial?

[RosieMelts]

who owns the planet? You do you do 🐈😍

Are guys (still) territorial (today)?

-is there any reason to be, if other guys have already dated/ f*cked or will date/ f*ck your girl? 🤔

maybe guys acted territorial before because it was a stereotype? Maybe bro code was just myth 👀

let me know down below! 🙃

My chewy! 🥺

I thought it was a pack of beer! 😅

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[ohsheeT]

I think nowadays a lot of guys are and I find that totally ridiculous because if you act that way then what are you telling the girl you're possessive you can't make a girl like you or love you or to even be with you so what are you doing that for because you look like a dick you want the girl that you don't have to even feel anything like that and you have to communicate to her that you like her is she likes you back there's no reason to do any of that because she likes you but I think guys get obsessed with that and they think that it makes them Macho or something and it just makes him look like a fool I think

[God_of_Thunder]

I'm territorial, yes, but not overbearing.

Like, I'm not going to keep a leash on a girl, or a gps in her car, nor will I beat up anyone that happens to look at her, but you'd damn well better believe that she's mine.

She's obviously not property, but we belong to each other. No other women should be touching me, and no other guy should be touching her. We date to the exclusion of all others.

[God_of_Thunder]

Now I'm going to start peeing on my girlfriends, to mark my territory 😂

[RosieMelts]

Lmfao but see you just said gfs.. so why does it matter if anyone else fucks you two if you both could separate and end up fucking others anyways?

Does the exclusiveness really mean anything?

[God_of_Thunder]

I just meant any girlfriend going forward, lol. The "s" was in case the next relationship didn't last. Just covering my bases.

[RosieMelts]

So say you two do go forward. How could you know that it won’t last anyways? Or are men confident women usually stick around 🤔 yeah that could be some assurance.

I just see no reason for the loyalties, but like someone else said- if you’re getting everything you need and they both bear their own weight, there’s no reason for them to split or get anyone else. Ig this is something I have to truly think over.

Thanks for this share tho! 😄

[God_of_Thunder]

Well, if I didn't think it was going to last, I'd never get into a relationship in the first place. I always plan for them to last, but I'm not naive enough to at least realize it's a possibility that things will end.

[RosieMelts]

Yeah I guess that’s pretty fair 🤔 ig I didn’t expect any guy to really have that kind of mindset. You’d be the first!

Thanks for clarifying on all of this! 👌👀

[God_of_Thunder]

You're very welcome. 😊

[Ezra_lila]

I guess yes, I am but its up to him still if he will like it. I guess my rule is "Do whatever you want to do as long as tomorrow their's no me and you". So guess what if you can't respect that you have someone already then probably its a no no already

[Pinay_ako]

Some guys get territorial ONLY when they feel threatened. That’s what I noticed or witnessed in general. If your man is insecure, he will get territorial quick if he sees another man as competition…

[RosieMelts]

Well said! Definitely this sheds some light in all the right places.

Thanks for the share @Pinay_ako 💕👐😁

[Pinay_ako]

You’re welcome bbg 💕.

[Pinay_ako]

Ooooh thanks for the MHG 💕

[RosieMelts]

Wlc sis 😍😊💃💃

[Lliam]

I'm not so much. I'll defend my wife and my home. I'm protective of my stuff because it has value to me.
I'm monogamous and demand monogamy from my partner. But I don't worry about guys looking at or talking to her because I trust her.
I would absolutely defend her with my life against harassment, assault, threat or danger though.

[RosieMelts]

Hmm ig those are all valid points and lines of reason. 🤔

Thank you for the sharee 🤗

[Lliam]

Thank you, Rosie.

[RosieMelts]

Welc 💕🙏👐😇

[OlderThanILook]

I'm not territorial but I am very defensive. So if someone gets "territorial" with me because I said hi to their girl, we're boxing. I don't tolerate that bullshit.

[RosieMelts]

🤣 that’s hilarious.

So you’re like “bro! Share!” 😂 jk jk

[Sixgunsound]

In a long term committed relationship you bet your backside! In a short term fling or hookup or whatever the euphemism is these days it is not justifiable.

[RosieMelts]

But why be territorial even long term if she has already been dîcked before? I mean would it matter to a committed guy if a girl hade sex once with another guy granted he looks at other girls and could easily do the same? 🤔

[RosieMelts]

What would distinguish her from any other girl? Why lose a thumb for it? 🤷‍♀️

[Sixgunsound]

My wife was a virgin until I exerted my bad influence on her😆 Part of the promise we made each other to forsake all others at our wedding is not to have sex with other people, or even get into situations where that might be possible. It’s honestly not that difficult to be honest and faithful if you are happy where you are. Why would you need another person if the one you already have is meeting your needs and pulling their weight?

[RosieMelts]

Yeah I guess that makes sense 🤔 huh I rlly gotta think about what you said now lol

[RosieMelts]

Appreciate it 🤝

[Sixgunsound]

Keep the questions coming!

[RosieMelts]

Heheh I’ll try 🤓

[RosieMelts]

@Sixgunsound it wouldn’t allow me to pick another mho but yours definitely counts!

I give this comment my signature: MHO 💕

And maybe it will gain superb? 🤷‍♀️

[PeteBy]

Yes constantly getting arrested for whipping the bad boy out and marking my territory.

Why do women keep getting offended?

[RosieMelts]

😂😭 I wouldn’t be offended 🙃

[RosieMelts]

Although I may have to go pee in that spot later after you walk away 👀🤣

[Stoner710]

Sure we are, we got our homes and don’t appreciate when people come into it who we don’t know

[RosieMelts]

Oh that’s a very great point Stoner! Love this one. It really does seal the other comment where a guy said it had depended on the situation.
Loving these answers

And Thank you for the share 😇🙏

[dowser19]

If talking trash to show others up online out of jealousy is considered territorial, then I guess so... because most people are scared shitless of face to face contact now. The online jealousy showing up deal isn't gender specific though.

[RosieMelts]

Yeah, but I didn’t mean online banter ☹️😂

[Phoenix98]

In general no but I can be just kind of depends on the situation and wether it warrants me being that way or not.

[RosieMelts]

I guess that’s fair and logical. Don’t wanna be impulsive 🤔

Thanks for the share 😁👌

[Phoenix98]

Mhmm no problem.

[pizzalovershouse]

Sorry but most guys are that way especially their last peace of pizza an bro code doesn't really work for most guys

[RosieMelts]

Lol 😂 this is just a special comment.

Doesn’t fit the context but I love it with all my cheesy-pizza loving heart 🍕💕😂

[pizzalovershouse]

Thanks 👍👍

[pizzalovershouse]

One day will have to talk inorivstecan I can retell you a few jokes that are way sexy

[RosieMelts]

In what? 😦 lolz yes would look forward to the part of that I understand- “sexy” 😂

[pizzalovershouse]

Well it's not rude but r rated

[RosieMelts]

R is my first name 🙃😛

[pizzalovershouse]

Any one can private message me an some people do for advice onlits of things

[RosieMelts]

Interesante 😂

[pizzalovershouse]

Meant on all kinds of stuff

[RosieMelts]

Ofc 👌🤓💕

[Rockstarrrrr]

Yeah.. I think I am but not in a toxic way.. I didn't get any complaints

[RosieMelts]

Awe that’s rlly sweet 💕🥰

[Rockstarrrrr]

Yes it is 🤷‍♂️ 😄

[dustybiker]

Not if they are emotionally secure.

[RosieMelts]

I just interpreted it as maybe they don’t care. 😬 Secure that they’re getting good sex from their s/o and could get good sex from anyone in the meanwhile, and if she leaves him he’d get good sex from someone else for some time or just one time 😂😭

They’d get good sex and they’d realize their woman could get good sex. What’s to hold or be sacred for? Yk? I don't know I’m just #pondering

[dustybiker]

Being territorial is a young mans game. Men who haven’t found or maybe doesn’t even know what they really want, let alone know who they are yet. They claim people temporarily.

A secure man knows themselves. They know when they find a good match the don’t need to flaunt to other men. They know true trust is found within a relationship. Give and receive.

It cuts out all that leg-lifting, young, static.

[RosieMelts]

Good point some other guy mentioned it depends on the scenario like how if it’s their home and an intruder were to break in ofc they’d be territorial

But when I did ask this I meant in relationships and you’ve answered based on that.

I guess it your answer definitely applies. It’s about their maturity and how able they see their woman when it comes to other flirty guys. If they perceive her to be any kind of danger they’d probably intervene.

Great thoughts here all around!

Thank you for the share 👐😇

[dustybiker]

You are welcome. 😎

[Makeushiver]

It's not really territorial as much as it is proprietary. It applies less to area and more to ambiguous slights

[Havthrills]

Maybe some. Depends on the situation.

[RosieMelts]

It seems like a fair response 🤔

Thankyou for the sharee 🤗

[Jennz6]

Guys are dominant

[RosieMelts]

True but what do you think? Maybe in sports only? I feel like it’s momentary and then guys are no longer upset but friends with every other guy.

Bros share? And when it comes to hose guys don’t care? 😂😭 idek anymore I gotta think some more

[Jennz6]

Yes guys do stick together

[RosieMelts]

I wish they’d stick to me! Lmaoo it’s a vibe 👌😩

[PeteBy]

Not necessarily true. I just had this conversation with a friend. I won't stick beside a male friend if he is wrong. I walked way and left them to it. If you're a dickhead, you're a dickhead. I'm not sticking up for you in that case.

[Jennz6]

Dominant with me

[RosieMelts]

@PeteBy yeah that thought did come to mind. It’s rare that that happens though, right? Or do you meet a lot of dîckheads? 🤣

[Jennz6]

@rosiemelts
@PeteBy
No, guys are not dickheads, I’m just difficult sometimes

[PeteBy]

We're all difficult Jenn lol

[RosieMelts]

@jennz6 😂😭 don’t worry some can definitely handle the extra meow 🕴🏻💃

PurRrRrRr 😁😂

[Jennz6]

@PeteBy yes Sir Pete

[Jennz6]

@rosiemelts thank you sweetie 🥰

[RosieMelts]

@jennz6 welc 💕🤓👐

[Jennz6]

@rosiemelts follow me 🌹 Rosie

[RosieMelts]

@jennz6 sure sis! Always love to see your helpful comments 👐😊

[Wise4myage]

Yes of course, and some women are as well.

[RosieMelts]

Just had to include us in there 😂😭 I love it so adorable

Thank you for the share 😂💕

[Wise4myage]

Just being honest, lol.

[Onashir]

Has longest I am only performing the heterosexual task I welcome more are merrier

[In_Trance]

Some are, some aren't

[RosieMelts]

Yeah, that does seem fair and reasonable

[FckY0u998]

yeah but women are worse

[RosieMelts]

Lol you think so? Wait a minute you may be damn right 😂😭😭

[Zolly99999]

I am when it comes to my car...

[RosieMelts]

Like you let no one drive it right? 🤔 I feel like it’s only with (favorite) items people own that we can have territorial tendencies right?

[Zolly99999]

Yes.. no one drives it , or gets in it dirty, etc..

[RosieMelts]

Makes sense 🤔 hmm

Thank you for this!

#Pondering

[Zolly99999]

No problem 😊

[panamared1]

Yes, that's why guys miss the toilet

[RosieMelts]

Now it all makes sense to me.. 😃🤣

[Anonymous]

Are you a territory?

[RosieMelts]

No but the vagina and dick are territories on the human anatomy lol…

Get rekt Steve! 😂

[FilmGuy93]

Very much so, and so are many women.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

are girls?

[RosieMelts]

Lol this is in no way an answer to my question 😭 some of them are ig but we can’t compare them in this senseee

At least I don’t think we cannn

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

if men are, then women are

[RosieMelts]

Lol I can tell who you were back in the school days 😂😭💕👌

Thanks for the share

[EaterPeter]

Yes, somewhat

[RosieMelts]

But not really, right?

[EaterPeter]

No, we can be territorial

[EaterPeter]

We are investing feelings money and time for nothing

[RosieMelts]

Yes ig you make a good point. 🤔

[EaterPeter]

NOT investing *

[RosieMelts]

Ofc 😇

[EaterPeter]

Thanks 💋

[EaterPeter]

😊 did not meant that emoji

[eagle1951]

you bet

[RosieMelts]

But for your woman? Or for food and items you own? 🤔👀

[OnlinePeanut22]

Both gender can be terito territorial

[jimmy2]

Yes we are