My boyfriend’s ex is being a psycho?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and his ex were together for 4 months and broke up 3 months ago (we’ve been dating for about a month). She follows him home from school, drives past his house with her mum, shows up at his door, messages him, she follows him around at school, tries to make him jealous (he’s not jealous), she got in a punch on with her friend about him, she gets her mum to call his mum about things, etc.

The other day she made 2 fake accounts to message me on and asks my boyfriend about me all the time. She somehow knows lots of things about me that she shouldn’t too and it’s creepy.

Should he be concerned about her behaviour and what should he do?

[crmoore]

Most likely she's not going to do anything violent or anything. She's probably just heart broken and obsessed. That being said, it's good that you're mindful of her and I'd suggest you continue to be. Rather be safe than sorry, you know?

If he wants to take the easier route, he should just do his best to inconspicuously distance himself from her. With time, she will get over him.

If he wants it to end sooner, and making her feel terrible as a byproduct (I do not recommend this option), he can be straightforward with her and tell her to leave him alone.

[SnowedIn]

She sounds creepy and stalkish if not necessarily a psycho. What should he do? He should tell his mum the whole story so she can talk with ex's mum. Also talk to the school to ensure nothing happens there. Save any messages and accounts in case you need to prove any of this. You should talk to your mum too. And do all this now before this girl escalates anything or says that you guys are stalking her.

[Summeroflove]

I think law enforcement needs to be contacted. This is stalkerish behavior to the point where he probably is reasonable to feel fear for his life.

[FunnyGiy]

This is very concerning. That’s for sure. she's his ex and he shouldn’t have to put up with her. She is very possessive and feels entitled to someone who she’s not with anymore.

This sounds like a stalking incident if he has told her to stop and been clear that he doesn’t want to be contacted by her anymore.

This seems like something that needs to go to the police

[WhitneySnow]

That’s really creepy

[JohnK123]

I would be worried about her tbh