Why is this even a question? Of course you should tell her. Even though you feel deep regret, she deserves to be able to decide if she wants to move past this with you. If you really love her then don’t be selfish, you owe her that much.
yes you should definitely tell her, if you wanted to be in your 'hoe phase' you should've done that before your relationship and not during it, either way she's hurt so better to deal with the consequences of your own actions
If she had her hoe phase and you were not comfortable with it, you shouldn't have married at the first place or at least get married after evening the score.
Seems to me like you are a kind of guy who don't really get female attention, are you?
Anyway, tell her bro, it might probably destroy your relationship, but it's already destroyed by your actions.
At least you will be free to sleep with whoever you want
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Don’t tell her! If you feel like telling her just remind yourself that women do cheat on men more then men cheat on women! Think about all the men that are currently being cheated on and they don’t even know about it plus she got her hoe phase now it’s time for you to have yours!
Tell her. Be honest. Let her make that decision to be with you
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Anonymous
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Yes.. you do the crime, you do the time. Consider that maybe there’s something in your marriage that you’re not satisfied with that could be worked through with marriage counselling?
My friend came clean and his wife accuses him of anything and everything now. I'd say keep your mouth shut and consider it a lesson learned. Nothing good will come out of telling her.
Tell her because if she finds out from any other source it will be twice as bad, plus just think about if it were the other way around and go with what you would want.
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Why is this even a question? Of course you should tell her. Even though you feel deep regret, she deserves to be able to decide if she wants to move past this with you. If you really love her then don’t be selfish, you owe her that much.
Cut off the other woman immediately. I believe your wife deserves to know
You need to cut the communication with your married co worker either way. Your wife is your woman. Your wife deserves value. Not your hoe coworker
yes you should definitely tell her, if you wanted to be in your 'hoe phase' you should've done that before your relationship and not during it, either way she's hurt so better to deal with the consequences of your own actions
If she had her hoe phase and you were not comfortable with it, you shouldn't have married at the first place or at least get married after evening the score.
Seems to me like you are a kind of guy who don't really get female attention, are you?
Anyway, tell her bro, it might probably destroy your relationship, but it's already destroyed by your actions.
At least you will be free to sleep with whoever you want
Don’t tell her! If you feel like telling her just remind yourself that women do cheat on men more then men cheat on women! Think about all the men that are currently being cheated on and they don’t even know about it plus she got her hoe phase now it’s time for you to have yours!
You can’t cut contact with a coworker unless you leave the job completely. Is that something you’re willing to do?
The fact that you felt the need to ask such a stupid question, doesn't put it past you not to tell her 🤦♀️
Tell her so she can find someone better. You’re a bad husband and a bad father.
Did your wife have her fun with multiple differennt men while dating you?
If so, she should taste her own medicane. But then again, you are both parents on slippery slope.
Tell her. Be honest. Let her make that decision to be with you
Yes.. you do the crime, you do the time. Consider that maybe there’s something in your marriage that you’re not satisfied with that could be worked through with marriage counselling?
My friend came clean and his wife accuses him of anything and everything now. I'd say keep your mouth shut and consider it a lesson learned. Nothing good will come out of telling her.
Tell her because if she finds out from any other source it will be twice as bad, plus just think about if it were the other way around and go with what you would want.
If you have any respect for yourself and for her, you do that yeah.
Tell your wife and either work through it or end the marriage.
You should tell your wife. You'll be able to heal that way unless you don't regret your actions.
Why did ur co worker accept? I would just maintain her friendship and be with ur wife
You should tell her, and then she should dump you as quickly as possible. She deserves much better than a scumbag like you.
Now don't tell your wife, else it will create problems for you.
Yes but if you actually will, remains a mystery.