My girlfriend never initiates physical contact. Do you think she doesn't want it?

[Stanley]

I've had this feeling especially lately. What do you think might be the reason why my girlfriend never initiates physical contact herself?

[Finchie40]

I feel ya man I been in that type of relationship before and it’s usually not good , especially if she use to initiate it before , and now all of a sudden she doesn’t , it can be a clear indicator that she is losing interest in you and interested in someone else , Even if she isn’t interested in someone else she is clearly keeping the door open , My advice to you man is have a talk with her and express your feelings of concern , if nothing changes then kick her to the curb , Life is too short to be in a one sided relationship , I made that mistake before to only hurt myself , I thought it was the right thing to do cuz I loved and cared about her , but I realized she was taking me for granted and only cared about herself, sometimes you just got to let them go and hopefully help them realize what they were doing was wrong, The only way a relationship can survive and for love to grow is both partners have to make each other their top priority, If you aren’t her top priority then you are best to kick her to the curb

[razelove]

It can just be tough for some women. Think of it on the same level of men approaching women for dating rather than the other way around. Your only cause for concern would be if she is completely passive after you start getting it on.

Try asking her to do so and see if she's just shy, reluctant, or maybe just doesn't really know how to. I wouldn't consider it unusual to get with a woman who has played a passive role in bed for most of her relationships. That pattern isn't one that would be broken in a day, week or even a month.

Try it out, see what happens, talk about it first before jumping to conclusions, see if the actions match up with words. She could be feeling down or something too.

[devilish-cutie]

doesn't have to be, she might just be the type that expects initiative from you. however it can surely be odd depending how log you are together and such. best is to talk to her about it. it could also be that affection you give is enough and she has no need to do more

[itsalyssaagain]

Some people are naturally distant and they need time to open up and be comfortable with you. I know because I am one of those people lol. Just be patient with her. When she sees that you are patient she will start opening up more.

[Summeroflove]

There is many possible reasons. Maybe you should ask her. Does she feel comfortable around you? Does she want you to be the one to initiate? Does she like touching you or you touching her? Etc etc.


Open communication is best.

[inhua]

it's a strong sign she doesn't want it

a woman who has burning desire for you will do anything to get her hands on you, a woman who doesn't do that likely has her mind set elsewhere for whatever reason

[Massageman]

Take it easy with her. Have some "reasons" to touch her: take her hand/hand in the small of her back when crossing a street; burst against her arm when you pass the potatoes. [ Cue Sinatra - "Nice and Easy" ]

[TheThingALing]

Because it's likely that she feels its become an obligation. Add foreplay

[Molly1997]

You mean she never wants to hug you or anything?

[FilmGuy93]

Not necessarily. Some women are just really timid about expressing affection.

[Actor3]

I had a girlfriend that behaviour like that, and she claim to people and eventually the police that, as I touch her first without her permission is sexual assault.

Dump her and get a good lawyer now

[sheikalana]

She's used to you being the one initiating.

[Anonymous]

maybe she doesn't feel respected? maybe she just doesn't want to? maybe it's her own issue and nothing to do with you? COMMUNICATE.

[shades777]

Some women like the man to take the lead on everything, its up to you to create an environment that she feels sexy in

[Christoff92]

She's probably used to her family members comfort 🤔