so many factors- first off are they ok? then what happened? and thank god no strippers were on that pole, lol!
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That actually happened to me. She crashed the car into a light pole in a parking lot, leaving work at night. I got a phone call from her co-worker. I consoled her, took her to the hospital and had her checked out... she had a head injury that turned out to be nothing serious.
My partner would never be allowed to drive the car I bought with my own money if I am not in the car with them already.
It’s our car. It can be replaced. He’s not.
I figured out long ago that material things come and go, even when it isn't your own fault. The people are the important thing. AFTER I knew she was okay, I might be frustrated about the car, but it's not like is some incredibly rare, irreplaceable object. It's an old Acura.
Now, if she crashed an original, genuine 1965 Ferrari 250 GT California - aka the Ferris Beuller car (though that one was a replica), then we couldn't be together. As it is, I still hold a grudge against Barbara Hershey, who owned one of these hyper-rare machines in the 1970s, including the ultra-rare factory hard-top for it ($250,000 for that hard top alone today!), and she decided she wanted some air so she pulled over on the side of the road somewhere, unlatched that hard top, and chucked it into the ditch and drove off. That is simply unforgivable.
But since I don't own any $20,000,000 cars, that's probably not going to be a problem. :)
My wife was in a fairly bad car accident years ago, not her fault. After arriving at the hospital and inquiring about her condition and seeing that she was basically OK, I asked about the condition of the car. She's still pissed off at me 25 years later for my asking about the car.
A while back she crashed (on our scooter) into a stray dog - if that counts.
Had a triple somersault, and woke up in hospital.
My reaction: I was with her in no time.
What I told her: ''That wasn't wise''.
And: surely, I also spent a few thoughts on how to fix the bike.
Both were reasonably functional, though :)
I’m glad you’re okay. I’m not gonna hit ya... I just wanna talk, thats all
Ik his driving an’t as terrible as mine. So long as he is okay, and recover, mentally stable enough to finance myself a new car.. we good! Id do the same for him
Assuming I was in a relationship, I’d be so happy he’s okay, we can always get a new car, but I can’t get a New him.
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How in the Fck did you hit a pole? Learn how to drive will you , this is not an " accident " its a smash , and just showing some poor habits.
Would I be mad that they crashed my car? Probably, if they’re the ones at fault. What’s most important though is that they’re ok.
Firstly, is he okay? When a car crashes into a pole, it usually results in severe injury or death. The car can be replaced. He can’t.
Thank heavens you're safe and sound.
A tin box on four wheels can easily be replaced.
I'm just not good enough to be primarily concerned with their well being.
I admire the 70% who say they are but I know I'm not
I would just be concerned for her safety. We have insurance. It would be a good excuse to get an upgrade.
Where is the 'Be impressed they didn't break the windshield?' option?
My wife is irreplaceable, the car is not. Id rather she be alive and safe i could care less about my car.
I'd wonder how she managed to escape the padlock I had chaining her to the stove.
i would scream. see if they're okay. i'd be mad about the car. but i'm trying to work on my emotions.
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