Are friends with benefits situations weird after a while? where you only get a texted when they are stressed or things don't work out with other guys?

[Wood3nWhal3]

I just find it so freakin weird and funny each time she texts/calls, cause I already know what's up, and while you would think, listening to the convo, it's just 2 friends hanging out; nothing sexual. But yet, upon coming over, she's naked before we even get to the bedroom.
The main issue I guess, is that I don't know if that's a role-play-ish thing (or kink) for her to just act like we're just 'hanging out', and if I tell her she can just say she wants to have sex, that I might ruin that for her.
While I am in no way interested in being in a relationship with her, I find it so strange communicating and then sharing intimate moments with this other person lol.

[serious_miss419]

Sounds like you want Benefits without Friends. Perhaps lay out some communications with her.
Believe it or not.. adults communicate

[Wood3nWhal3]

Yea poor me right, having to deal with that? lol. (*sarcasm)
I'm not upset at her for being how she is, it's more because we literally never talk besides when she calls and we catch up she comes over, talk some more and then 1-2mo later it's about that time again. Just wondering if anyone else finds that weird. I couldn't name another type of relationship/acquaintance with that kind of dynamic.

[sheikalana]

friends with benefits relationships always tend to be unstable.

[Wood3nWhal3]

Yes, I would assume so. I'm at a stage in life where I seek out deeper/meaningful connections & rather have fewer close bonds than a large amount of 'friends'. Benefits or not, even though I may serve my purpose to/with her (and it's sufficient or she wouldn't be still be making that kind of effort), there's limitations to our interactions because it's mostly physical.

[Flatmanlewis]

They have limitations and often eventually outgrow practicality. At least in my previous experience.

[Avicenna]

You bet they are weird. People start getting jealous and/or possessive

[Nikki1989]

They are only weird for people who don't have a clue what they are doing, and they DO work for many people.

[Kelly6]

@Nikki1989 exactly

[Wood3nWhal3]

@Nikki1989 care to elaborate?

[Wood3nWhal3]

@Nikki1989 that's interesting though because I have two more just like her. If only they all knew that I actually really on sexperts like yourself who are willing to share some of that extensive experience 😅

[Iron_Man]

They never work out